alright, well, SOME men...

today it is my daughters father


what a fucking piece of work that is


someone please tell me, and i cannot get this to come out big enough...


WHY THE FUCK ARE ABSENT FATHERS SO FUCKING STUPID ?!?!?!


I CAN SOOOOO RELATE TO THIS GUY -

I'm sorry for you naked.

Sweeny79 said:

thank you sweetie im sorry for MY daughter too


its so sad all the way around

nakedpianoplayer said:

I was gonna take offense, but you added this.

I'm living it as well with the absent father, he'd rather be cool for them than care how they turn out.


Wish I had something more comforting, how bout "fuck him"

noonblueapples said:

actually.. thats the last thing i said to him it was WELL FUCK YOU THEN !!

and, you darlin, never take offense, you are NOT that kinda father

So called absent fathers represent some of the risk that a woman assumes in having children in the first place.
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This thread shouldve been called:

MEN CAN BE SOOOOO FUCKEN IRRESPONSIBLE AND INSENSITIVE --SO BE CAREFUL WHO U CHOOSE TO MAKE BABIES WITH

Why are you even still talking to him? What does that say about you?

Hey, here's an awesome idea: Don't fuck stupid men any more, thereby, preventing the problem of producing off-spring with them. It would follow that you would not have to permanently deal with stupid pieces of shit after you were done because you spread your legs for a dumbass.

Don't fuck people who are dumb in which you may become permanently bound to.

Your damn fault... No pity from me.

Nero said:

Oh fuck.

Nero said:

That's a little harsh dont you think?

Nero said:

I damn near spit out my water!



But, in her defense, we don't always choose the perfect partner to have children with.

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bkw said:

It's funny though.

Nero said:

Hey, just for the record, I met the guy who is the little girls father and he didn't seem to be such an idiot at the time. Not to mention, they got married. He has some issues, to be sure, but he wasn't displaying them much at the time in their relationship.

bluesbaby said:

..but how do we know you're a good judge of character?

analbolique said:

well, you don't. But I think you are an ass a good deal of the time, so tell me, am I close to accurate?

bluesbaby said:

I'm an even bigger asshole than you can imagine. You don't want to play this game with me preacher lady.

analbolique said:

so I am a slightly forgiving yet accurate judge of character!

bluesbaby said:

This is your lucky day. I'd say something, but I don't want npp trippin' over something I said. Then again, tomorrow's another day, so keep those comments coming and you'll see exactly how big of an asshole I can be.

analbolique said:

i'm just havin fun with you, joey. And I could care less how much of one you could be.

this is just funny as hell

bluesbaby said:

hey nero ... thanks for the support hope you never make a mistake and have regrets... because, if im there, im surely gonna kick you HARD while youre down

blues, yes sweetie, you did meet him.. and the signs were masked fairly well... he seemed loving, sweet, kind, and sincere... he was funny, and i enjoyed his company

HOWEVER... i guess this does fall back on me when i look back, the signs WERE there... i just wasnt paying attention, or i thought he would (dear God help me) CHANGE

its all about learning, and i AM grateful for the time i had with him.. for without him, i wouldnt have my daughter. i just wish he would keep his insensitivity levels to himself, as my job here is hard enough without dealing with HIS shit too

and joey...

im going to have to 'talk' to him for the rest of my life... as it has been pointed out so lovingly here, i spread my legs for an idiot, and now i have to live with him being around forever sad, but, true... as far as "talking" like, lets get back together, thats been over for quite sometime

nakedpianoplayer said:

He's not interested in being there for his daughter. It's you who keeps trying to involve him in her life.

analbolique said:

this could very well be true joey and i will give you that. in a perfect world, we have communications with both our parents, and i dont want my children to miss out on any of their 'normal' growing up processes just because mommy and daddy cant get along so, we 'try' the best we can... just, i dont think this is ever gonna work out, hes just not emotionally supportive enough - and .... well..... im rather bitchy

analbolique said:

You are highly amusing.

Anyhow, in response to myself, whenever I meet a guy who isn't very smart at all, I don't do a damn thing for him... the penis stays in the pants. I will, however, let him give me oral sex. In the event he's really stupid and/or ugly, I make sure the lights stay off whilst he does it and I just pretend he's someone else. No one ever got knocked up off a tongue. A nice disease, perhaps, but never knocked up.

Furthermore, to the wonderful person who mentioned naked was married to the dude, would it be too much to think that it is more than possible that someone would marry a guy who is "fucking stupid?"

analbolique said:

Ya'll crack me the hell up....

My Monday morning laugh has turned into laughter....

Cracking the hell up over here.

Solaris said:

CC, youre silly .... good to see ya though

Okay...I got add to this.

I think the same thing about women. No lie.

However, I just have to realize what I did and the FUCK I did it.

My red ass which has been driven damn near crazy, has to deal with this person.

Hell, even moving on to someone seems to be particular hard...Good Lawd Some women are crazy as fuck.

Still, I did it. There were signs in the beginning, the middle and end...and they keep coming. Seems like she's gotten wiser...but damnyum.

Good Lawd...

That's my 2 cents bithes...

CC, wheres the love man ?????