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PrintableI don't go clubbing, relationship or no relationship...just not me.  | |
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I feel not like reading anything but the title....but my opinion is...
a man...who is in a relationship...such as...bf gf 6month dating...who goes clubbing...is okay..as long as he dont mess with other girls.if hes in a serious relationship..no...hes insecure...if hes married and do it...that only mean he has a small dingaling | |
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AcutenPetiteGrl said: I feel not like reading anything but the title....but my opinion is...
a man...who is in a relationship...such as...bf gf 6month dating...who goes clubbing...is okay..as long as he dont mess with other girls.if hes in a serious relationship..no...hes insecure...if hes married and do it...that only mean he has a small dingaling  I'm married. I've been known to go to the odd bar or two without my wife. You're saying I automatically have a small dingaling???
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Hotlegs said: Fauxie said: That said, if you were my org wife and you wanted to go out clubbing on the org without me, I'd have to say no.   Interesting response.Well, he's fickle. I wouldn't be able to trust him. He has a different org crush every week. Sometimes two per week. You could never let him go anywhere by himself. | |
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Byron said: I don't go clubbing, relationship or no relationship...just not me.
Damn, you seem to be such a party animal. I thought you'd be in the cage all night for sure. | |
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Byron said: I don't go clubbing, relationship or no relationship...just not me.
My kind of man. We've got to meet some time when I'm on the West Coast.   | |
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Hotlegs said: CynthiasSocks said: You are my new org sister! 
Add orgBuddy edit [Edited 5/1/05 16:31pm] The feelings are mutual. Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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AcutenPetiteGrl said: I feel not like reading anything but the title....but my opinion is...
a man...who is in a relationship...such as...bf gf 6month dating...who goes clubbing...is okay..as long as he dont mess with other girls.if hes in a serious relationship..no...hes insecure...if hes married and do it...that only mean he has a small dingaling your view is logical to me.... I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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CynthiasSocks said: HELL FUCKIN' NO!!! The only way my man is going clubbing is if I'm right there with him and vice versa!
hell edit! [Edited 4/30/05 17:25pm] This won't last long...Insecurity will erode your relationsip, thus its demise is evident. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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You have to understand a night out with your boys whether it be at a club or wherever is a must. If you are insecure about your spouse, partner, etc going to the club, then you might wish to simply examine yourself as the problems are not with him going, but what is going on in YOUR head because he went. If he is committed to you, then you have nothing to worry about. A club is not what you should be worrying about, as the "club" is not what will make him stray sista.
You should be nurturing your relationship to the point where no scenario or circumstances can circumvent the love and admiration you two enjoy. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: You have to understand a night out with your boys whether it be at a club or wherever is a must. If you are insecure about your spouse, partner, etc going to the club, then you might wish to simply examine yourself as the problems are not with him going, but what is going on in YOUR head because he went. If he is committed to you, then you have nothing to worry about. A club is not what you should be worrying about, as the "club" is not what will make him stray sista.
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missfee said: AcutenPetiteGrl said: I feel not like reading anything but the title....but my opinion is...
a man...who is in a relationship...such as...bf gf 6month dating...who goes clubbing...is okay..as long as he dont mess with other girls.if hes in a serious relationship..no...hes insecure...if hes married and do it...that only mean he has a small dingaling your view is logical to me.... It's anything but logical. | |
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DexMSR said: You have to understand a night out with your boys whether it be at a club or wherever is a must. If you are insecure about your spouse, partner, etc going to the club, then you might wish to simply examine yourself as the problems are not with him going, but what is going on in YOUR head because he went. If he is committed to you, then you have nothing to worry about. A club is not what you should be worrying about, as the "club" is not what will make him stray sista.
You should be nurturing your relationship to the point where no scenario or circumstances can circumvent the love and admiration you two enjoy. Exactly, Dex. Well put.  | |
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NoodleSoup said: missfee said: your view is logical to me.... It's anything but logical. actually i was agreeing with the first part of her statement, not the last part. I forgot to specify that point. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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DexMSR said: You have to understand a night out with your boys whether it be at a club or wherever is a must. If you are insecure about your spouse, partner, etc going to the club, then you might wish to simply examine yourself as the problems are not with him going, but what is going on in YOUR head because he went. If he is committed to you, then you have nothing to worry about. A club is not what you should be worrying about, as the "club" is not what will make him stray sista.
You should be nurturing your relationship to the point where no scenario or circumstances can circumvent the love and admiration you two enjoy. this is a great point I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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NoodleSoup said: missfee said: your view is logical to me.... It's anything but logical. | |
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analbolique said: missfee said: thats true. but my boyfriend goes out with his friends frequently to frat parties as he did when he was single, but i find myself wondering, why does he still feel the need to still go. Maybe my vision of why a person goes to a party is all screwed up, because I always feel like if you go to a party especially a frat party, you are looking for ass or a number. When he tells me what he did at the party and how stupid he and friends acted while they were drunk, my conclusion comes to the fact that he likes to go to get drunk with his friends and act foolish...but i'm not a guy and can't seem to figure out how he thinks when it comes to this situation... I guess you're right. Most guys do party and hope to get some ass at the end of the night, but this guy already has someone, so maybe there's another reason why he likes to hang with his friends. Sometimes a guy just want to act stupid without having to watch what they do or say because their gf is around....which doesn't mean he's a cheater. I totally agree with everything you said analbolique. I've been seeing someone for over a year now and he still goes out clubbing with his friends. I think that you need some time on your own with your friends or otherwise the relationship feels too suffocating. Its not that he or I feel that we need to run away from each other but I think that being together 24/7 is a bit claustrophobic. I know he is out with the guys, having fun, maybe even talking to womwn but I trust him 100%. I have no reason to doubt him. Maybe this sounds naive but he's just not the cheating type and we made a pact at the beginning that we would have more respect for each other if we ended it rather than sneaking around. I'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed | |
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DexMSR said: CynthiasSocks said: HELL FUCKIN' NO!!! The only way my man is going clubbing is if I'm right there with him and vice versa!
hell edit! [Edited 4/30/05 17:25pm] This won't last long...Insecurity will erode your relationsip, thus its demise is evident. Hello Dex! Well we're doing something right- 10 years 1 month and 3 days and in gay relationship years that's like 30 years. Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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CynthiasSocks said: DexMSR said: This won't last long...Insecurity will erode your relationsip, thus its demise is evident. Hello Dex! Well we're doing something right- 10 years 1 month and 3 days and in gay relationship years that's like 30 years. | |
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MsLegs said: NoodleSoup said: It's anything but logical. whatever I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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If you try and stop the guy from doing what he likes to do (unless he is screwing around on you) then he will end up resenting you and the relationship will not last. His world should not have to revolve around you. It's called keeping his independance. otherwise he will end up whipped. Which is worse than death.lol | |
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Spats said: If you try and stop the guy from doing what he likes to do (unless he is screwing around on you) then he will end up resenting you and the relationship will not last. His world should not have to revolve around you. It's called keeping his independance. otherwise he will end up whipped. Which is worse than death.lol
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a guy is pretty much going to do what he wants to do anyway, no woman can stop a guy from cheating if that is his intention, he will find a way to do it. The rules are no different for women. The difference is, that women can hide it better than a guy can.... I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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missfee said: a guy is pretty much going to do what he wants to do anyway, no woman can stop a guy from cheating if that is his intention, he will find a way to do it. The rules are no different for women. The difference is, that women can hide it better than a guy can....
Again as I said before, Once a dog, Always a Dog.
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