I know this problem isn't exclusive to just me but....I always seem to run into people that don't like me. Not really enemies but more like haters who can't wait to see me fall or be made a fool of. Like I said everyone runs into someone who does not want them to succeed either because of jealousy, insecurity or just plain hatin.... But I am very self aware and aware of my surroundings and have noticed this has been a constant for me. Either in sports, school or work I seem to have more than the average haters and critics sent my way. People who I have talked to before about this say "It's probably because they are jealous of how you carry yourself" Maybe...But to me Im nothing special I consider myself an "alternative" not special. I get the same response here on the org (though there are tons of people who like to hate on you here) So I don't pay it any mind when it happens here cause that is the nature of chatrooms. But I don't get it....I seldom talk to people yet when I do talk I don't come across stuck up.

I have noticed the dislike usually begins when I do something....Either some sort of action or competition that is when I start getting attitude from peeps. And the more people respond and compliment me the more hate I recieve.... Kinda like they are saying "He ain't shit get off his nuts" Like I said this has been going on since JR High for me...I just seem to get more heat than the average person....It's very puzzling....

i can sorta relate with this situation
i think it's just that you carry yourself VERY well, and people pick up on it easily, and they're kinda like wtf!

i really don't know i'm still trying 2 figure it out myself
i've been told it's because i'm "intimidating"
i think it's bullshit...

but i'll let u kno what my theory is once i formulate it (or experience it...)

Seems these people just have a problem anyway.....don't worry about them. They're just looking for someone to take their frustrations out on.

SammiJ said:

Well once you figure it out I will help you get a book deal ok? We could make some serious cash

althom said:

I know what you mean....it just sucks....It's to the point I don't want anyone to compliment me or pay any attention to me at all cause I don't want to hear peoples crap anymore...

Sinister said:

Are we talking about the org or real life?

althom said:

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althom said:

Real life....Org stuff is pointless to get upset over...

i feel u dre' i get it at work n shit too, some cats get a lil mad cus i do thier job somewhat better than they do. its not intentional, i just pick up on thangz quick.

TheRealFiness said:

Yeah I know what that is like too...It's ridiculous shit has to go down that way...

Sinister said:

yeah i mean shit im only trynna do my job and get it done yanno? cats cut thier eyes at me, shit im trynna help yo tired ass out

TheRealFiness said:

Make their punk ass work then....Yeah my tolerance level for haters is getting low lately....It's one of the reasons I don't enjoy ballin anymore....Speaking of which get your ass in shape boy!

A lot of people out there have problems with their own self worth
so to make them feel better they shit on another
its sad really for the people who do that, they are the ones with the problem,
yet they don't realise they are doing it and god if u brought it up with them, they would turn it around and blame it on you anyway.
Keep on being who u r Sin, u seem to have ur shit together
i admire people like u, u learn a lot from ur kind

I make very few many "enemies."

But I'm quite content with the ones I have!

Sinister said:

lol boy play in the Jungle wit tarzan Nigga

269 said:

Nice to see you...And thank you Im just running low on tolerance lately....It's not really "getting" to me but it just seems to feel like Im wading through a river of negativity lately and my arms are getting tired.

2the9s said:

You make enemies? Bah! Perish the thought! Everyone loves 9s....(this is an org sitcom I have in development...stay tuned... )

TheRealFiness said:

Sinister said:

It's hard to believe, isn't it!

Sinister said:

lol sounds like a plan

I like to put vicks vapor rub on my lips...It makes my lips tingle with delight.

Sinister said:

I know that feeling of the river of negativity, my shoulders actually get weighed down & its hard to rid the ache of it, i always say when it gets to this stage, "this is not mine, i don't need it" this actually does help and i always get the person who i'm dealing with to question themselves, that way its not me taking on their stuff.
Sin, i'm sending u a huge positivity hug hope u feel it

Sinister said:

Nate Essex, you're really cool. I don't hate ya.
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What does IMO mean?

AcutenPetiteGrl said:

In my opinion

doctamario said:

ok thanx
i thought it meant

I MEAN OBVIOUSLY

doctamario said:

You called me Nate Essex! your the first one ever to actually get it....

Sinister said:

You just may be my twin, but you must remember people have their own thought processes and ways about the world, don't let it affect your spirit or the way YOU go about your path brotha.

I have a calm soul, and can honestly say I am very diverse in the worldly fashions of our existence and people that are not as exposed as myself don't seem to understand that my travels and intellectual capacities, or athletic accomplishments, or my looks or body or whatever are not one hundred percent of my own valition. I cannot help the way I was born or how I was brought up. I will never make apologies for living the life I live. i am not cut of any one particular mold and would get quite bored living in that shell, so my brotha, go on living and loving your life, fuck all that don't attempt to understand, because if they did, they would find a dynamic and beautifully brilliant soul. One that is to be respected and regarded as one to sit down and slam a beer or two with, and enjoy life together!

Call me what you want....JUST SPELL MY NAME RIGHT!

DexMSR said:

Thanks for the support and kind words Dex....Glad to see im not the only one who feels this here on the org...Just reminds me how so many of us here have so much in common...

Get over it