AndGodCreatedMe said:

thats what I said but i suppose because im not 20 yet i have no crediblity giving advice?

REDFEATHERS said:

was it necessary to say this???

AndGodCreatedMe said:

you asked for advice ... not agreement

sorry

SammiJ said:

Okay, first off my child will not announce to me what he is going to do. Bad idea. Second if he wants to live in my house he will respect my wishes or move the hell out. Diamond earings are cool but who is going to pay for them? Does he have a job? Or will you be under some obligation to help? Like taking him to the hospital if his ears get infected or buying pain medication for his ears. If what ever he does effects me the mom in anyway the will seek my approval first. If my rug rat doesn't like he can get to stepping. My child has asked for all kinds of stuff and I have said no. Basically because he is a bad ass and does not deserve it. He was getting good grades then it would be a different story. But for my son the general answer is do you have a job? Then the answer is no. Or the standard when you move out you can do what the hell you want!

nakedpianoplayer said:

me and my sisters had our ears pierced when we were only a couple of months old.

REDFEATHERS said:

thanks

SammiJ said:

So,metimes replies are just overlooked and not seen, I am sure AGCM appreciates your advice..


and btw, I got my ears pierces when I was 6..

yeah i was 11 only cuz my mom 4got about doing it when i was a baby

i have 4 earings now lol
and a nose ring

but it all looks tasteful
and i agree with superspaceboy

i'd be happy if thats all he wanted pierced 2...

SammiJ said:

Ofcourse I'm thankful for you respons

To be honest I was curious abt the opnion of the young one overhere


ANDY!??? BEN????!

ShySlantedEye1 said:

That's what I told him, do you have a job??
But he some savings so

Oh well the more I'm against the whole plan the more he wants it, so I'm just gonna say that I love this plan and find him a safe place to do it, we'll see if he's going ahead with it

Here is the gist of it, Mama! If you don't want him to pierce his ears right now the answer is no. He is still a minor living in your house. If you are not comfortable with it then no. If his ass does it against your wishes you know what to do. You are his mother. Make sure you express this to his pops. If you feel you need to put your foot down then do it. Damn being old fashion bullshit. It is just how you feel. If you want to go half way with him and come to an agreement then do just one ear. Go with your gut Mama! That's your house!

Two snaps and a twist! Damn it!

ShySlantedEye1 said:

He's not a bad kid or anything, never had problems with him, and he knows that when I say no, I mean NO!
It just doesn't feel right so.... no it is

ShySlantedEye1 said:

you only kiss me when i use this account


Did you had fun last night? How abt the testosteron?

No I don't. Well I did not get a deposit of testorone to my account but I did meet this fabulous bartender at El Toritos. We talked about boxing and basketball the whole time. I may just go back over there this evening! The other guy pissed me off! Did you check your notes?



"In the kitchen"

ShySlantedEye1 said:

I did check my notes

A bartender huh? Let him make you some cocktails and everything will be fine

ShySlantedEye1 said:

You tell it straight!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

That's why I love her

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Hi there!

Growing up, I always wanted an earring...my folks were dead set against it...the first thing I did when I moved out (literally) was pierce my ears..both of 'em...I was 17 then, now I'm 32 and I still wear two earrings, It's a part of me...that being said, my folks know I have them but I still won't wear earrings around them, it's a respect thing...I think it's cool that your son, at his age, discussed it with you and didn't just do without mentioning it beforehand...that leads me to believe he will respect which ever decision you make...but really today, it's no big deal for guys to have both ears pierced, just explain to him (if you let him do it) that alot of people still frown upon it and may even make silly comments...I know this comment was absolutely no help...

roodboi said:

It is maybe I shouldn't make such a big deal of it, I was just shocked when he told me abt it

One ear or two ears I think it all looks like shit, but if that's what he wants, why not. It won't do any permanent damage and considering how some kids are these days I think you should be glad he even asked for your permission. He really didn't have to, but you raised him well.

analbolique said:

Thank you

Ok I need something to drink now, you're being nice to me

Tyson said:

Actually he paid me to say that.

both my ears have been pierced since i was 13 years old, guys didnt pierce both back in 79 lol, but who gives a shit, call me whatcha want. says more about u than me, i say let him do it.

AndGodCreatedMe said:

I'd slap some sence into him!

Steadwood said:

Then slap him!!

althom said: