scififilmnerd said:

So now I am not even horny?



You just use me!

IstenSzek said:[quoteHe's been trying to keep touch on an off by the odd birthday e-card and such but I've never responded to any of those.[/quote]

Sounds like it was you who broke up. And that he never quite got over you.

Gosh! He must have been in love with you!

HamsterHuey said:

It's alright to not be horny all of the time.

Nonsense. I see you flirting with CynthiaSocks or whatever that orger is named. But it is me[b] you gmail the honey. Now that's my man.

scififilmnerd said:

LoL
But you don't know what I am sending Socks.... it's not music...

Oh, hi, Moderator.

"Music?" Who said "music"?

Uh-uh! He wasn't talking to me!

And good day to you, too.

Anyways, speaking of music, IstenSzek... This song just popped into my head. It's Patti LaBelle, so you probably know it, because there's a Prince song on that Burnin' album.

Anyway, it goes...

We can't change the way we were
But we can change the way we are
All I really wanted from this crazy love
Was a night so full of stars
That our hearts could not pretend
Oh what I wouldn't do
To have that crazy love again

I belive in second chances
And I'm holdin' on for sure
To your crazy love
To your crazy love
Crazy love

- see? That's probably how your ex is feeling.

And, boy! Is that an amazing vocal performance by Patti LaBelle, or what?!

It sends shivers up my spine...

I always think that coming and going in relationships always makes ONE of the person's in the relation step down.

Don't step to far down. Don't lose yourself in things that could have been. But are not.

I think this entirely depends on the circumstances of why you broke up. I was madly in love with someone who I dated for 6 months only to discover he was dating someone else the whole time and never told me. I walked away from it and never went back. After about 10 years I saw him again and discovered that I was really still very attracted to him and to see where it went. We kinda talked about where I went and where he went after I ceased contact and it seemed like he had changed and I was excited but skeptical at the same time.

At that time I was working 60-70 hour work weeks and I literally would get up, go to work, come home eat and then sleep. I had no free time during the week and I had told him that when we started seeing each other again. Then in that second week he called me and left me this fucked up message about how he thought I would be mature enough not to try and get back at him for how things went the first time and said that if I was more interested in playing games he wanted nothing to do with me. I was like wtf Well he took the fact that I didn't call him during that second week that I was just playing mindgames and the true reason, the one he knew about, was that I was freakin working my ass to the bone and barely had time to take a shit let alone spend all kinds of time on the phone and such.

It was obvious from the message that he was really upset about it, so I said fuck it and let him think I was playing games. Now he knew what it was like for me all those years ago to have games played on my ass.

I guess what I'm trying to say here is if the circumstances that led to your breakup were really awful or fucked up, forget it. People change but they usually don't change that much. Good luck

HamsterHuey said:

tsk..tsk....tsk.....touchy!

abierman said:

Masher!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

hehe.....but I like you! Show me your nipple!






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abierman said:

Despite what some folks say.....some gay people are out to get your ass

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

and you're one of them....I know! South Beach next weekend?

abierman said:

I finally have a sugar daddy You are paying for the trip right?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I got a hotel, and I'll buy you a beer.....we could talk about Prince & stuff.....bet you'll score sooner than I will!

I say go for it...see what happens...as long as the past did not involve abusive behavior or events! I have been back in touch with an ex (he called ma fter two years)...as it turns out we are friends now...as it probably should have been from the start...good luck...happy discovering...whatever you decide...


Dr. Ruth
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Welll all that ex bf .I love 2 see my exes .But they are always very busy with dating .And most off all i love the wild animal sex talks in this forum.
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onenitealone1970 said:

How many do you have??? Are you a serial monogamist?

There is generally a good reason why your ex is your ex. At least that is what I have been told.

My most recent ex and I have been trying the "friends" thing, but it his highly difficult because I love him beyond any one in the entirity of the world and want nothing more than to have him back. We parted ways in January because I needed to go have a siesta and get myself sorted a bit.

I don't think I will get what I want, as we often never do. And I have to wonder, if we were back together, would it just be the same? Would we argue as much? Or am I sorted enough now that it would be a very different experience? Could I tolerate the things that I found difficult to nearly intolerable before?

I doubt it. It's a nice thought, though. And I'd love to get that man naked again. Hell yeah!

GO FOR IT!!! I think you all can make it work this time as long as you don't have friends trying to medal in your business.