Why do i need friends? I need none cause they all mostly scandalous, keep you down like them, and can’t stand to see one ahead of the other and jealous of things they have or do and mostly freeload off of u. Did I say anything wrong! NO

They give u bad advice and then put you down when they aint shit themselves way below you. All i need is me myself and i and whoever i am with in life. I used to have a lot back then but i was always in some shit. They were jealous of my money, why i go out of town, who i am dating or vice versa. U think when i won that 20,000 scratch off i hear congratulations. No these clowns at work was how you won it, and why and ready for a hand out and can i borrow 7 dollars for my parking. I am about to turn evil.

Yadda yadda.

That's all very well and good, but could you lend me $7 please?

im about feeling the SAME way... there are a few folks i will keep around, but for the most part.... someone saying they're your friend these days doesnt mean SHIT ! and im really fucking sick and tired of giving myself to people that cant figure out how to act in return as far as im concerned, they can all bite my ass

Welcome to the ANTISOCIAL club.

ok.

Without my (and my brother's) best friend, my brother would've probably died in prison.
Because of my friend's dedication, it kept my brother's sprit strong enough to survive.

I'm very thankful for true friends.

saintsation said:

They don't sound like friends to me. Though I disagree with your statement about not needing friends. Most of us need them. They keep us sane and provide good company. Good friend will propell you and support you in life. If they aren't doing that...show them the door.

By the way, have you seen a counselor yet about all this stuff? Blogging your issues won't help them go away. True it helps get them out of your system, but as none of us are professionals all you are is rehashing your issues and not helping your situation. I do hope things get better for you...but you are going to have to be the one to put that first foot forward.

We have to define what "friend" means to us first. When we do that, it will help weed out the other imposters.
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Other than my wife who is my best friend. My list of friends has dwindled down to one who lives out of state and I rarely see. The only other person I do much with is a co worker/new buisnes partner who is a woman ten years younger than me.

As far as needing friendship I feel fine because I am so close with my wife. but sometimes it would be nice to get out more, and usually we both can't go.


(this is not counting orgers of course)

One of the most shameful things I have done was become friends with my ex's ex.

And you know that he tried his damndest to sleep with me, and when we broke up couldnt wait to get his hands on him again.


Now all I have is my 3 people I have been friends with for 9 years whom has never ever hurt me or tried to fuck my man or fuck me over with lies...


Friends tell the story of who you are.

I don't need friends either, but it's good to have a few, isn't it? The ones you're talking about don't sound like real friends anyway.

analbolique said:

dont know who you are directing this at, but no, looking back, i guess what i thought was a friendship was never that at all

funny the things life teaches us

paisleypark4 said:

Thats your pronblem that u became friends with your ex'x ex. You was looking for problems with that boneheaded move.

Your story is very similar to mines. My ex had friends too for 9 years and from my guess they were all jealous of him cause they had a man who was not a criminal, loser, and took his significant other all over the country with him. I used to get calls talking about how i should charged them rent and they getting off too easy and they were a spoiled little brat. Good friends to me especially when they charged him for a collect call for getting locked out of a house.

Your comment of friends tell u who u r might be true, cause my ex's friends all live with other people to make it where they at now struggling, all work at americans dream target or walmart and receiveing welfare for babies of different fathers and social security according to cnn on immigration. Look like they all on the same level right now down there. But i am the loser though, thats why i just laugh these days.

They don't sound like friends, they sound like jealous freeloaders.

One of my *aquaintances* is constantly trying to freeload off me and everyone else around. He likes to play miss party planner, and spend all day calling everyone up inviting them out to the bar, then he goes from person to person all night mooching free drinks off them. He happens to wander up and chat with you just as you're ordering a drink, hoping you will offer to buy him one too. By the end of the night, he's drank like a champ and spent no money. When his game isn't working, he conveniently comes down with a sudden illness and wants to go home.

Tom said:

U mean my ex's friends right. They were jealous of him all the time cause i was taking him with me everywhere and providing for him. One of his friends went to Gary Ind and paraded that in my face like i was impressed. I think she was jealous cause she will never ever have a man like me. She can only attract those bums that work at wlmart or pizza drivers that take 4 hrs to work what i equal in an hour. Now my friends or thought they were my friends were scandalous period and freeloading moochers. I went to clubs and they come but after i pay at door they stand there with a puppy face like pay for me. Thats why i don't need friends or date anyone wit hjealous friends cause all they do is get in the way ortry to go along for the ride too.

nakedpianoplayer said:

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NakedSaxPlayer said:

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nakedpianoplayer said:

I knew it