So this weekend my best friend was "caught" in bed with another woman's man. What she didn't know what that this guy actually had a girlfriend...he had said that he broke up with her 2 weeks ago. Now this bitch is starting all kinds of trouble and won't accept the fact that it was her man that did this and not my girl! I can't get involved because the guy is friends with my boyfriend and I don't want anymore drama anyway.

Why do we always blame the other woman or man when we really know what the story is? This has never happened to me, but if it WERE to happen I hope that I can say wow, this bitch did me a favor and my guy is really a scumbag.

I probablty wouldnt like EITHER of them anymore


lots of woman are nuts so I wouldnt know who to believe, so I would just stop talking to either parties



but I never said I was very nice

Just stay out of the mess

It takes two to tango.

Ace said:

Of course it does. But when you are told that they are single by more than one person are you supposed to get all FBI like and investigate? She apologized and said had she known it would never of happened. The problem is really between the alleged boyfriend and girlfriend. Had my friend pursued him it would have been different...but she didn't.

Your friends disgust me.

2the9s said:

But they love you.

CarrieLee said:

Yes indeed why is it that the girls always blame the other girl yet don't blame the guy? I know...the other girl should have KNOWN better. PULEESE!

BTW, I do suspect that their relationship was over...however the girl wasn't "over it" yet. And sorry, 2 weeks is NOT enough time to officially say it's "over" cuz it isn't really...ever...usually.

CarrieLee said:

You misunderstand me. I mean, this is what she should understand about this situation and lay-off your friend.

Ace said:

Ahh, gotcha!

superspaceboy said:

No 2 weeks isn't a long time, I agree. But they were officially broken up, why is it my friends fault? And from what HE says he's been trying to get rid of her for a long time but she wouldn't take the hint. Oh, and she's 34, he's 22...if I were a 34 yr old woman I would NOT be expecting ANYTHING long term from a 22 yr old boy!!!

CarrieLee said:

Like I said. SHe hung around and is just creating trouble. He probably knew this and shoulda preceeded their relation ship with "Oh by the way, even though it's over between her and I...she's sorta not getting it" That way she might expect a lil stalker activity. Though your friend ought to have questioned the break up a little bit...or perhaps questioned his "rebound". Though depending on her experience, she may not know to question these things.

And it's NOT your friends fault. It's HIS responsibility to ensure that Crazy Susie isn't gonna come around. Get back his keys...go over to your friends house etc. He could have prevented that awkward situation.

superspaceboy said:

Yeah he could have. My friend really isn't losing sleep over it. She knows she's not in the wrong and she knows this guy isn't someone she wants to date. She's just having fun.

The whole moral to this story, I guess, is to not be so quick to judge until you hear both sides. Many of us, or I could probably say all, do this too often!


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CarrieLee said:

YEAH!

























Well, someone said "drama"...

EvilWhiteMale said:

And that would solve everything???