HamsterHuey said:

lollyp0p said:

Spookymuffin said:

you weren't even born.

lollyp0p said:

You don't go and slap a slapper with a chair, now do you?

I got sumthing way better.





erm no
Wait

TheFrog said:

Oh, froggy what's happened to your memory - I was 3 when you swapped me for Dolly.

Spookymuffin said:

I would call you sheep that is

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Heh, and then you'll wake up dead.

HamsterHuey said:

i meant i was gonna grap a chair to sit on and watch not to

what kinda person do you take me for

TheFrog said:

Spookymuffin said:

Tssss I have friends

AndGodCreatedMe said:

You? Friends?

lollyp0p said:

The baddest girl in the room

Spookymuffin said:

ba-aaa-aaaaa

lollyp0p said:

Would you have said that sentence if you never cheated?
I don't believe in that either, but a lot of peope will disagree with you on that one.

Well my good pal Paisley, what a good question. I see a lot of responses on here saying that their spouse, partner , or whatever is saying they didn't after they made a huge blunder. I agree wioth them totally. I cheated under a depression but now i wouldn't never cheat on anyone i am dating or seeing. It is not worth it at all. So if you have a partner who made that terrible mistake is telling you that he will never do it again and loves you a lot than i suggest you take him back cause he really does mean it with all his heart. I know i wouldn't.

HamsterHuey said:

SomeoneElse said:

I believe that as Humans we are all capable of change

do we not prove this as a society with the way we send people to prison to facilitate a change, re-habilitiation? if as people we are unable to change there would be no point.

I don't believe a person who says they can't help cheating we all can, it's hard when emotions are involved and love but hey we should SHOULD be able to deal with it.

It is all about learning about yourself as a person.

Personally i don't think i will ever cheat again after the trouble it caused but i never thought i would be the type to cheat in the first place.

When i was younger i subscribed to the leopards never change there spots view, but as i got older i have realised nothing is that black and white and we all make mistakes the difference is somepeople learn by them and change for the better.

of course there are some people who LIKE cheating and i think it takes a lot to get them to change, if it is a lifestyle choice who knows if they will ever.

Yep!

He told me he would never do it again and he cheated again..with the same girl!!

I have never cheated and never will.

It has happened to me and once that happens my trust for the cheater goes right out the window. Then the relationship is over.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

luv4u said:

According to 98 percent of the people on here thats not the case including me. It takes bad things to make relatioships stronger. I know if me and my significant other really get back together i will not even look at anybody else like that no matter how high or depress i get.

saintsation said:

When I am in a relationship I don't look at any other man, or get involved with another man or flirt. I am loyal and expect the same from the other person.

When you get cheated on then the trust is gone - No trust, no relationship.

luv4u said:

True for about a month or two, but a lot of people get divorced then remarried all the time or get back together after a 6 month leave and be happy ever after. U should not slam the door like that so fast on your husband, boyfriend, etc. A lot of things could have drove them to that which didn't have anything to do with u like outside forces. Not a good excuse but yes. Thats what happened t ome last year in april and may. i went in depression of something i feared since i was young teenager almost a decade a go that came true. You should not slam door on someone like that.

saintsation said:

I kicked his ass out the door when he cheated on me twice with the same girl!
enough is enough.

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

Well obvioulsy that person must have had feelings for both of you. Sorry to hear that. Bu don't slam door shut if he comes back begging. Listen to what he has to say.

saintsation said:

We talked and talked and talked.
And he DID love us both (that I could handle) but he lied to me in my face when he told me he didn't have an affair with he no more.
He said he choose to have a relationship with ME.
It's not the affair...it's not the fact he loved us both...but he shouldn't have lied to me!
I couldn't listen to his lies no more!
I can handle a lot, but don't ever, ever lie to me!

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

He probably told u that cause he couldn't help it at the time and didn't want to hurt your feelings nor lose u at the same time. I bet he is really suffering right now and figuring out how hard it is to be without you. Then it will set in for him and realize he wants you only. I bet he comes back within 2 weeks. If he does listen to him. I am listening to h-town thin line between love and hate so sorry if this message is screwed up.

saintsation said:

You're sweet, but he doesn't come back. He has a relationship with that other girl for over three years now. I forgot to tell it was some time ago, sorry.
But If he DID come back at the time.... I would have shut the door in his face!
I know the reason why he lied to me,..but that's not acceptable for me!
He lied too much and he KNEW how important it was to me to tell the truth!!

Oh i see. Well my story was similar but not like that.

IMO the people who say that there are reasons to cheat and everyone makes mistakes etc. are just trying to justify the fact that they are a scummy partner to someone. I get so sick of hearing the reason I cheated is because I was depressed or I was happy or I was working too hard or blah blah blah. The reason you cheated is because you lack moral character and strength and in general are shitty to the person that you are supposed to love the most in the world.

And yes...if you cheat once you cannot with certainty say you will not do it again because you have already failed that test. Obviously if the right situation arrises you cannot be trusted.

lovemachine said:

its not that black and white, there are grey areas, but understandibly the person who has been cheated on is not going to see it that way.