Have you been cheated on and they really NEVER did it again? Is this anyones reality?

Yes.

I don't know



I think once they caught the first time they are a little more careful after

yes, but in the back of ur mind sometimes u just wonder
will they/are they doing it again
its all about trust, once its broken, i believe its one of the hardest things to regain

then again, i cheated once in a relationship and i don't plan on doing it again with the hurt it caused

I think many people can withstand cheating in a relationship though its not the end of the world.

sometimes people make mistakes

lollyp0p said:

Wow, finally someone who admitted to cheating. The whole "once a cheater, always a cheater" thing is complete bullshit. Like you said, sometimes people make mistakes.

analbolique said:

and I'm female, it's not always the men who cheat

i agree once a cheater always a cheater isn't right

I am certainly not holy. I cheated once and it was a huge wake up call for myself. I figured out why I was cheating and then took action.

The problem is; there are so many reasons why people cheat that it is hard to just throw it all on one heap and be done with it.

I agree that just because you cheated doesn't mean you will do it again.... I think the key thing is knowing the reason why the cheating happened.

If you can put a finger on this and deal with it, then you can move on. I think when theres no apparent reason and the issue cant be dealt with, it's impossible.

Just sayin'

paisleypark4 said:

yup! once a cheat ALWAYS a fucking cheat

lollyp0p said:

oops sorry there are exceptions sometimes

imho, it's just sex - admittedly, I'm 16 and everyone's sleeping with everyone else cause we all love casual sex and so would have no idea of "passionate, emotional" sex which is a far more tying/important experience.

Mazerati said:

it's ok it's your opinion, I do feel like huey says it depends on why you cheat

I knew why i did it, i loved the other person it wasn't about the sex but that didn't make it right

i've cheated a couple of times.

both times i was in love with the other person but hadn't the guts to end the existing relationship.

So there you go. A serial cheater.

I would hope I would never do it again, but you can't account for circumstances that arise. It's all very well being righteous and holier than thou, but it really depends on what happens in your life.

TheFrog said:

Mr Wandering Eyes.

TheFrog said:

Everything depends on what happens in ur life. Don't u have any self control?

thesexofit said:

sometimes you can't control your feelings that easy, Love is hard to fight.

HamsterHuey said:

believe me, i have been a very good boy 99.9% of the time.

lollyp0p said:

lollyp0p said:

Yeah i know. (Beleive me I do). They say girls look up to theri fathers as role models for their future partners. My dad was a cheating bastard. So my sister proberly is too. I have been tempted. It just depends how much in love u are I suppose? Yet everyone measures love differently I guess?

TheFrog said:

Ain't it tuff that 0,1 % is what you get judged on?

Bugger.

HamsterHuey said:

I am ashamed of what i did.

But in the same circumstances, i'd do it again, too.

TheFrog said:

Awww, a self-admitting prick! LoL

You'd let your eye wander again. And pretend to be happy in an unhappy situation.

I need to slap you now.

HamsterHuey said:

true.

Well, my eye would wander too in a shower filled with football mates...

TheFrog said:

Bollocks. You buggered a sheep.

Spookymuffin said:

But that wasn't cheating.

HamsterHuey said:

he was with me at the time.

Spookymuffin said:

I would never call you a sheep.

TheFrog said:

ohhh slap him huey

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