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is it possible.... to be in love with a person and not want to be with them? | |
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like u love the person but u know that if u were with them things wouldn't go right?
i say yes... | |
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brownsugar said: to be in love with a person and not want to be with them?
No. If you're IN LOVE with them why wouldn't you want to be with them? It's possible to LOVE someone but not want to be with them...you know kinda like the I love you but I"m not IN LOVE with you kinda thing. That answer is just as confusing as your question | |
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CarrieLee said: brownsugar said: to be in love with a person and not want to be with them?
No. If you're IN LOVE with them why wouldn't you want to be with them? It's possible to LOVE someone but not want to be with them...you know kinda like the I love you but I"m not IN LOVE with you kinda thing. That answer is just as confusing as your question  | |
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so I'm told | |
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CarrieLee said: brownsugar said: to be in love with a person and not want to be with them?
No. If you're IN LOVE with them why wouldn't you want to be with them? It's possible to LOVE someone but not want to be with them...you know kinda like the I love you but I"m not IN LOVE with you kinda thing. That answer is just as confusing as your question not really, what if they just really get on your nerves or they've done some things in the past | |
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why of course ...
all things are possible when love is concerned | |
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You can be "in love" with someone who is bad for you. Ultimately, you're in love, but you know better than to be with someone who hurts/abuses/does whatever to not be good for you. Some might say that's not love, but I don't agree. Love is love, regardless of the object of affection, and/or whether they return it. |
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sometimes it's not the person but the circumstances so i believe
you can love the person but not be able to accept the circumstances arround them. | |
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From *my* point of view...if I love them I wanna be with them. If I don't want to be with them then I don't love them! | |
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CarrieLee said: From *my* point of view...if I love them I wanna be with them. If I don't want to be with them then I don't love them!
thats my point of view too but  from experience you can't always be with the one you love  | |
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Sure it's possible. CarrieLee is in love with me but I make her sick. See?
Simple. | |
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2the9s said: Sure it's possible. CarrieLee is in love with me but I make her sick. See?
Simple. You wish. Twat. | |
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CarrieMpls said: You can be "in love" with someone who is bad for you. Ultimately, you're in love, but you know better than to be with someone who hurts/abuses/does whatever to not be good for you. Some might say that's not love, but I don't agree. Love is love, regardless of the object of affection, and/or whether they return it.
I think we need to define "love" again.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: You can be "in love" with someone who is bad for you. Ultimately, you're in love, but you know better than to be with someone who hurts/abuses/does whatever to not be good for you. Some might say that's not love, but I don't agree. Love is love, regardless of the object of affection, and/or whether they return it.
I agree with every single word, but that last sentence is dead on it. | |
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CarrieLee said: 2the9s said: Sure it's possible. CarrieLee is in love with me but I make her sick. See?
Simple. You wish. Twat. You guys are in loooovvvveeee!!!!! | |
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analbolique said: CarrieMpls said: You can be "in love" with someone who is bad for you. Ultimately, you're in love, but you know better than to be with someone who hurts/abuses/does whatever to not be good for you. Some might say that's not love, but I don't agree. Love is love, regardless of the object of affection, and/or whether they return it.
I agree with every single word, but that last sentence is dead on it. | |
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brownsugar said: analbolique said: I agree with every single word, but that last sentence is dead on it. sounds more like lust or infatuation?  lots of rich folk get themselves a wing of the house each, or even separate houses because they get on each other's nerves but they still love each other | |
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Yes. I love all of you, but I wouldn't want to love you all daily. Just a handful of you.  | |
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analbolique said: CarrieMpls said: You can be "in love" with someone who is bad for you. Ultimately, you're in love, but you know better than to be with someone who hurts/abuses/does whatever to not be good for you. Some might say that's not love, but I don't agree. Love is love, regardless of the object of affection, and/or whether they return it.
I agree with every single word, but that last sentence is dead on it. and me  | |
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lollyp0p said: analbolique said: I agree with every single word, but that last sentence is dead on it. and me It just shows how unselfish love is.  | |
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analbolique said: lollyp0p said: and me It just shows how unselfish love is.  | |
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