NWF said:

NWF

bluesbaby said:

I can't believe people respond this way Being sexually compatible IS important - it's not everything but it's definitely a part of the equation. If she can't get him to slow it down & be more into it (i.e. get her needs met) then why the fuck should she be so happy to be w/ him?? Bad sex don't make for smiles across the breakfast table, it makes you wanna stab a mufucka

CalhounSq said:

girl, girl, GIRL !!!! say it loud, say it proud

love your outlook and yes, im gonna say it again... there is NO WAY IN HELL i would have a relationship that would last any time at all where sex wasnt involved - im sorry if that makes me shallow, or rude, or insensitive, or childish, or anything else i can be called...

the point of having a relationship is to have a partner... a partner in ALL ways !!! and if the sex sucks..... well, then, its a PROBLEM !!!!!

althom said:

it seems like you're going (settling?) for a "Mr, Right Now",
but if the intimate aspect is not what you want, then it's hard to imagine you staying with this man much longer..
it might be a good idea to end this "relationship" now,
before you drive yourself - &/or him - up a wall.

then again, if you cut him loose now, a period of time might pass before you "find your groove" again..


eh. reading your posts, it seems like your revving up to end it with him.
if you're revving up to do it, you may as well do it.
if you're going to end it, do it like a band aid - just RIP IT OFF.


good luck
(& load up on the batteries?)

Say what you want, but you never know what can happen in life. YOU BETTER HAVE SOME SORT OF BASE THAT GOES BEYOND SEX, is all I am "amen" ing to.









picked the wrong night to respond to threads, edit.

and why is it that when a woman wants to take control in the bedroom and knows what she wants, folks get all ????? like its a crazy thing ??? do men really believe that they are the only ones with sex drives ??? do they believe that women dont seriously have needs just like them ??? do they really think that while you are lookin a woman up and down wondering if you could take her in bed, shes already sized you up, guessed the size of your dick, and if you'd even be worth her time ?????

come on guys, get with it... women love sex just as much as you

mltijchr said:

yeah, the future isnt looking too good for us right now and the batteries, i own stock in those so, im all set in that department

may need to find another lover though

nakedpianoplayer said:

althom said:

its ok honey... we dont usually size up robots, youre safe

nakedpianoplayer said:

That's alright....I'm used to not getting any attention from the women here.

althom said:

ohhhhh, i think you get plenty

nakedpianoplayer said:

Of the wrong kind. lol

you have stock in batteries???

I go through them "like water" - for my walkman devices (2 cd & 1 cassette),
1 of my electric shavers, other things..


hm..


I need batteries..
you need good sex..

hm!

mltijchr said:

trade ?????

INTERESTING idea..!



if things don't work out with your current guy..

now that I think of it,
I am running low on my AA's, C's & D batteries..

hm..!

CalhounSq said:

bluesbaby said:

Who says she isn't doing that while trying to get the sex up to par @ the same time?

I say keep him around, coax him into what you like/teach him. He's probably hooked by now anyway & will go whichever way you guide him but don't drop him just yet. Maybe once he can handle you & not spill prematurely it'll be cool. Otherwise seek dick elsewhere

CalhounSq said:

well, then maybe that should be clarified. and maybe it would be good to see if they have anything else in common, so it won't become "damn, the sex is good but we have nothing else in common" thread.

The title of the thread is "my love life is sucky". That seems to encompass more than sex, at least to me.

CalhounSq said:

cumming too fast can pisses me off...highly

brownsugar said:

tell me about it girl

althom said:

bluesbaby said:

its ok blues you know me well enough to know... i dont mean any harm, and if i really think we have a chance at making this work, i'll do my best i just gotta make this part a bit better, thats all

It hit me the other day that you must be justkelley...

AnotherLoverToo said:

duh.....

well nakedpiano..
if you want, do keep us informed with how this works out..

nakedpianoplayer said:

That's not bad at all! You deserve good sex!!
You want to show him your love, loose your frustrations and enjoy the feeling that good sex gives you.
If he can't give that to you, you'll get very frustrated NPP!
It's one of the few things you have for yourself!
So it better be damn good!!

Been there... I ended the relationship!!

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

ya know what ????? you may really be onto something there !!! think about it... i cook, yes - but thats for the kids. i bead, yes - but thats for money. im a momma, yeah - but, thats because i need/want to take care of my babies. im nice to animals, sure (who isnt ?) - but thats only because its the right thing to do....

but, the sex ???? now, thats something i dont have to share with ANYONE, its a gift between only myself and one other person (unless im having a wild night )... that makes PERFECT sense

now, so, if thats true.... if i just find something else thats ONLY for me, wont it take the pressure off him ????

ps, dont get excited, i still want great sex

Right.

let's just say i'm veeeeery surprised he has difficulty with you wanting all that stuff.