I KNOW !!!!! IVE GOT THE ANSWER !!!!!


next time, i'll lay there like a dead fish, wont do anything i'll even hairdry the pussy so its not wet at all and THEN we'll see what he does

heres the thing, he pulls up friday morning, nice and early before he and his buddy were to go fishing.... hes got the boat with him and everything. so, trying to be interested in his activities, i went out to see the boat, i said I WANNA GO !!! that looks like a blast i can lay out in the sun in the middle of the lake while you fish, he said, ok, that should be ok.... we'll go sometime soon. then i said, do you think the boat is deep enough to 'get some' in there ?? then we came in, he called and cancelled his fishing trip, told his friend he had something 'else' to take care of

nakedpianoplayer said:

Please give the brotha some mercy ...Please

I've had my laugh for the night.

Solaris said:

see, you think im playin... im being TOTALLY SERIOUS here

nakedpianoplayer said:

No fuckin' way....

analbolique said:

huh ?

nakedpianoplayer said:

No way you're telling me you don't know what you did wrong.

analbolique said:

LOOK, this is what i know...

im a mother, i love my babies dearly, and i take damn good care of them

i love animals, cant help but to bring in ever damn stray animal i find to take care of

i love old folks, im always kind and considerate to them... i look at them as my grandparents, and how would i want them to be treated.

i love to cook, and im pretty damn good at it

i love jewelry, and like to play around with designing it

i am nice to most everyone i meet, and try to make those around me happy if i can



but, when you get in the bedroom with me, all this betty crocker, animal rescue, nurse betty, martha stuart shit goes out the window.... its time to FUCK and something comes over me.... i cant control it, and really i dont want to i rather enjoy my freedom in the bedroom, im happy in my skin, im glad to be able to share in the love, and i want to walk away satisfied... is that so bad ???
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analbolique said:

well, are you saying i was to forward ??? and that i should be more quiet ?

nakedpianoplayer said:

I'm saying that if he wanted you to come along fishing he would have invited you days ago.

analbolique said:

well we've talked about it a few times... but, if he wants to just go with his guy buddies, thats not the appropriate time for me to try to get in on that, is it ? i respect his life, and im not trying to pry in it, as i dont want him that far in mine.... well, unless i ask him to be. until then, he doesnt have that right.... and neither do i

nakedpianoplayer said:

See, here's the thing. He thought he'd do the right thing by stopping by before he went fishing. You reward him by ruining his day. Next time he's not dropping by your house again.

analbolique said:

this is what REALLY happened, i was just trying to make a long story short...

he calls me at 7:50 in the morning, says, what are you doing ?? i said, im getting the kids ready for school. he says, well, im down the street from your house, waiting on a friend -- we're supposed to go fishing today, so, maybe i'll stop over and see your new pups. i said, sure come on....

he gets here, i went out saw the boat, talked about how much fun it would be, but that i dont touch worms, or fish and made a few jokes, blah, blah, blah.... he said, do you mind if i come in for a bit, my buddy isnt ready yet. i said, sure come on ... then, it was time to take the kids to school, i said, do you wanna come or do you wanna wait here ?? he says, i'll wait here if thats ok. i said sure, make yourself comfortable, i'll be back in about 30 minutes.

i get home, walk in - and hes in MY bed.... now who did what here ???? i wasnt ready for him to come here, i wasnt all dressed up (hair and make-up all done), i wasnt looking for sex, i didnt even know he was comming !!!! so, how did i ruin his day ???

You need another lover like you need a hole in your head."

Dugen said:

perhaps

Solaris said:

keep singin baby.... keep singin

There is something wrong with this picture, NPP. I think you need to cut the guy loose.

That first post of yours made me blush and I'm the biggest perv I know.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

i made you blush ??

maybe there IS something wrong with me


but thanks - i hate to let him go over this, but, as i was thinking it would get better, its only getting worse

nakedpianoplayer said:

Naw, I don't think there is anything wrong with you: I love sex and talk about it freely with my friends.

The problem lies with the guy on a bunch of levels:
Does he think of you as a sexual doormat? What kind of intimacy do you share? Is he touchy feely in bed and kisses you or does he seem like he's running a marathon trying to get to the finish line? If he does not share that intimacy, you are no more than a piece of ass to him.

Do you guys consider yourselves to be in a relationship? If you are and you truly care for each other, the sexual problem can be worked out.

Is he just a fuck buddy? If he is, drop his ass and get a good fuck buddy.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

well, actually, it started out as a fuck buddy situation... but then feelings started to get involved, and you know how that goes...

as far as if there is intimacy in our relationship, yes there is, and when we go out together in public, he lets me know in no uncertain way that he is very into me...

not sure where we are going, not sure i really care, i just need him to last longer at this point... maybe hes MY sexual doormat ??

nakedpianoplayer said:

Maybe I should send you some Orgnotes. I have some suggestions for you.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

my orgnote door is always open darlin

Just tell him what it is you want. Then if he can't accomodate, get a new dude to play with. You gotta do what's right for you.

analbolique said:

amen!

bluesbaby said:

girl, now, come on... dont play, you know me been knowin me for a looooonng time now, and you know the freak that i am - i cant help it, sex is an important part of a relationship to me, im just sayin, this isnt working and it needs to get better.... the rest of him is ok.

EvilWhiteMale said:

thanks sweetie

i dont mean to sound rude, but it IS important sex is normal, healthy, and welcomed in most relationships... isnt it ?

nakedpianoplayer said:

Of course.

Nekkidgrrrrrl!