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Printabletesticleman said:  basically.
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analbolique said: AndGodCreatedMe said:    | |
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MrDespuez said: so unlikely in my situation, but it'd be over in a second if it happened. it's a "trust" thing.
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eikonoklastes said: suzysue said: I really wouldn't want to know a g/f or b/f's past.
 Yeah, but what do you do when you do find out?  it would be a serious problem. My kitty wants to play... | |
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EvilWhiteMale said: eikonoklastes said: I ahve no idea what you're talking about. In the film Chasing Amy, Ben Afleck's character destroys a good relationship with a girl (who he converted from lesbianism) because he found out years ago she had once fucked two guys together. He couldn't handle it, so the relationship fell apart. I think he (Ben) felt betrayed being that she was a lesbian, he assumed she had never been w/ a man. I think he asked her in the movie but she evaded the question which created the betrayal "be glad that you are free, many a man is not" | |
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CoJones said: EvilWhiteMale said: In the film Chasing Amy, Ben Afleck's character destroys a good relationship with a girl (who he converted from lesbianism) because he found out years ago she had once fucked two guys together. He couldn't handle it, so the relationship fell apart. I think he (Ben) felt betrayed being that she was a lesbian, he assumed she had never been w/ a man. I think he asked her in the movie but she evaded the question which created the betrayal I suppose. Though I think a major point of it was that it's hard to live with the knowledge that your girlfriend did some raunchy shit in the past. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: CoJones said: I think he (Ben) felt betrayed being that she was a lesbian, he assumed she had never been w/ a man. I think he asked her in the movie but she evaded the question which created the betrayal I suppose. Though I think a major point of it was that it's hard to live with the knowledge that your girlfriend did some raunchy shit in the past. I agree EWM, that's the message I got from the film. I think the betrayal was important, but the fact that she engaged in that type of behavior freaked him out. Hence him asking her to do that with him and his friend as a way for him to feel free or on her level. Despite what most men try to say, we would not and do not REALLY want to know what our GF/Wife did in the past. And running across a porn with your lady pleasuring another man/men would destroy most fellas and kill any hopes of a serious relationship. | |
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DorothyParkerWasCool said: EvilWhiteMale said: I suppose. Though I think a major point of it was that it's hard to live with the knowledge that your girlfriend did some raunchy shit in the past. I agree EWM, that's the message I got from the film. I think the betrayal was important, but the fact that she engaged in that type of behavior freaked him out. Hence him asking her to do that with him and his friend as a way for him to feel free or on her level. Despite what most men try to say, we would not and do not REALLY want to know what our GF/Wife did in the past. And running across a porn with your lady pleasuring another man/men would destroy most fellas and kill any hopes of a serious relationship. Sad but true DPWC, if you may not like the answer, then think twice before asking anything about a lover's past. I don't know why we get hung up on shit like that, it shouldn't change anything about how we deel about the person with us today, but that shit does. "be glad that you are free, many a man is not" | |
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I know this really doesn't awnser your question but when I was little I used to look at my dad's Penthouse magazines and fantasie about being a Penthouse Pet. I would look in the mirror and make those sex faces and poses...and I was FIVE! I really wanted to grow up to be the girl that men fantasied about and masterbated to, or imagined having sex with while they fucked their wives...maybe that is one of the reasons I enjoy being a stripper so much...I used to tell my dad I wanted ot be a stripper/porn star and he would go BALISTIC on me..but I didn't care I just wanted all the men in the world wanting to fuck me...  | |
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CoJones said: Sad but true DPWC, if you may not like the answer, then think twice before asking anything about a lover's past. I don't know why we get hung up on shit like that, it shouldn't change anything about how we deel about the person with us today, but that shit does. It's true - but why is that I wonder? And it seems to be the same for women and men. Even though you know your b/f has been with other women in the past - you don't really want to know the raunchy details that went on. Do you think it's the prince/princess fantasy that when we meet someone and fall in love, we want them to fit that perfect fantasy? VOTE....EARLY | |
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DiminutiveRocker said: CoJones said: Sad but true DPWC, if you may not like the answer, then think twice before asking anything about a lover's past. I don't know why we get hung up on shit like that, it shouldn't change anything about how we deel about the person with us today, but that shit does. It's true - but why is that I wonder? And it seems to be the same for women and men. Even though you know your b/f has been with other women in the past - you don't really want to know the raunchy details that went on. Do you think it's the prince/princess fantasy that when we meet someone and fall in love, we want them to fit that perfect fantasy? Yes to some degree I believe that we put those that we love on pedestals sometimes and we can't believe that they would behave any differently than what we envision. Finding out the truth about one's past may damage that ideal, more often than not it does, so it's better to not ask the question if you're in this position "be glad that you are free, many a man is not" | |
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EvilWhiteMale said:.
(In Keanu Reeve's voice) What do you do?.....What, do you do?[/quote] LMAO!!!! thanx for a great laugh on a crappy night | |
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DiminutiveRocker said: It's true - but why is that I wonder? And it seems to be the same for women and men. Even though you know your b/f has been with other women in the past - you don't really want to know the raunchy details that went on. Do you think it's the prince/princess fantasy that when we meet someone and fall in love, we want them to fit that perfect fantasy? I never ask girls how many guys they've been with cuz if we end up getting serious, I'll never forget that number. I also don't wanna know what kind of nasty shit she's done in the past. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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AcutenPetiteGrl said: EvilWhiteMale said:.
(In Keanu Reeve's voice) What do you do?.....What, do you do? LMAO!!!! thanx for a great laugh on a crappy night[/quote] "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: DiminutiveRocker said: It's true - but why is that I wonder? And it seems to be the same for women and men. Even though you know your b/f has been with other women in the past - you don't really want to know the raunchy details that went on. Do you think it's the prince/princess fantasy that when we meet someone and fall in love, we want them to fit that perfect fantasy? I never ask girls how many guys they've been with cuz if we end up getting serious, I'll never forget that number. I also don't wanna know what kind of nasty shit she's done in the past.
I feel the exact same way. People say I shouldn't and stuff, but at least I know my flaws and I know how to work around 'em...meaning as long as I don't know there's no problem. | |
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