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When is it okay to cheat in a relationship? Besides them cheating on you... Maybe they said something to you to make you trip....
WTF is cheating.... Why is it called cheating? Shoudl you ask before you sleep with someone else? "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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huh? | |
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Best to end a relationship instead of cheating. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: Best to end a relationship instead of cheating.
Not sure if most people do that... They just get busy. "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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no its not good to cheat-two wrongs don't make a right. sounds like your trying to convince yourself that its okay. you should just end it. | |
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EvilWhiteMale said: Best to end a relationship instead of cheating.
doesn't sound like much of a relationship if cheating looks like an attractive option | |
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heybaby said: no its not good to cheat-two wrongs don't make a right. sounds like your trying to convince yourself that its okay. you should just end it.
I ain't tryna convince myself nothing suga. Why women trip on men cheating when they do it all the time? "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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EvilWhiteMale said: Best to end a relationship instead of cheating.
Exactly. "We love you from the bottom of our hearts to the top of our souls...thank you!" Prince ~ Musicology Tour ~ Denver 8/2004 | |
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Solaris said: EvilWhiteMale said: Best to end a relationship instead of cheating.
Not sure if most people do that... They just get busy. That's the problem. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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Solaris said: heybaby said: no its not good to cheat-two wrongs don't make a right. sounds like your trying to convince yourself that its okay. you should just end it.
I ain't tryna convince myself nothing suga. Why women trip on men cheating when they do it all the time? some do some don't, women and men cheat. if your not happy you need to end it. cheating does nothing but cause problems | |
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nilegettolrahc said: EvilWhiteMale said: Best to end a relationship instead of cheating.
doesn't sound like much of a relationship if cheating looks like an attractive option Some people are too afraid to be honest. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: nilegettolrahc said: doesn't sound like much of a relationship if cheating looks like an attractive option Some people are too afraid to be honest. exactly | |
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Listen, I didn't say anything about me cheating...
I'm talking about individuals and stuff like that... "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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Freespirit said: ...
"I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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Solaris said: Listen, I didn't say anything about me cheating...
I'm talking about individuals and stuff like that... okay either way its not good. | |
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heybaby said: Solaris said: Listen, I didn't say anything about me cheating...
I'm talking about individuals and stuff like that... okay either way its not good. Oh yeah...like yall haven't sinned before. yeah right. "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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Solaris said: Listen, I didn't say anything about me cheating...
I'm talking about individuals and stuff like that... so it's a FRIEND of yours who is thinking about cheating, I see where you're coming from. And this friend, (whom we shall call Jeff) he is not happy? | |
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instead of investing the time, money & mental energy (to "plot & scheme") to be with someone OTHER than your partner..
it's easier - & RIGHT - to simply be SINGLE. in other words, there is no justifiable moment when it's "okay" to cheat in a relationship. I'll see you tonight..
in ALL MY DREAMS.. | |
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nilegettolrahc said: Solaris said: Listen, I didn't say anything about me cheating...
I'm talking about individuals and stuff like that... so it's a FRIEND of yours who is thinking about cheating, I see where you're coming from. And this friend, (whom we shall call Jeff) he is not happy? No...no...no...I don't know anyone who wants to cheat. By the way is chatting cheating? Do your spouses know you're chatting? "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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Solaris said: heybaby said: okay either way its not good. Oh yeah...like yall haven't sinned before. yeah right. thats not what i said, i haven't cheated on my man but its in me i know it. but i don't . just because other people do it doesn't make it right. | |
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heybaby said: Solaris said: Oh yeah...like yall haven't sinned before. yeah right. thats not what i said, i haven't cheated on my man but its in me i know it. but i don't . just because other people do it doesn't make it right. It's in you but you don't cheat... Maybe on a dark beach and you run into Ron Mexico... "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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Solaris said: heybaby said: thats not what i said, i haven't cheated on my man but its in me i know it. but i don't . just because other people do it doesn't make it right. It's in you but you don't cheat... Maybe on a dark beach and you run into Ron Mexico... can't win with you huh? i've liked other people and thats just human nature, we have desires but we don't act on them. i can look but i don't have to fuck them geez | |
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heybaby said: Solaris said: It's in you but you don't cheat... Maybe on a dark beach and you run into Ron Mexico... can't win with you huh? i've liked other people and thats just human nature, we have desires but we don't act on them. i can look but i don't have to fuck them geez "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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Solaris said: heybaby said: can't win with you huh? i've liked other people and thats just human nature, we have desires but we don't act on them. i can look but i don't have to fuck them geez damn what do you want me to say? that its okay? | |
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heybaby said: Solaris said: damn what do you want me to say? that its okay? Nope... Tee-Heee... "I'm trying to find myself amongst these Solar Babies. So wait until I do then I'll tell you where we're going." | |
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what ever dude! | |
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It's never okay to cheat in a relationship.
Just end it. Cheating because they've cheated on you is really weak. It's exactly the same as cheating in circumstances where your partner hasn't cheated. | |
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Never. | |
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Solaris said: No...no...no...I don't know anyone who wants to cheat.
By the way is chatting cheating? Do your spouses know you're chatting? Well you don't know if they want to, but some might actually think about it. Chatting in a certain way could be cheating. It's all about the intent and I guess even if you're not really going to do anything you can still break someone's trust which can be just as damaging to them and the relationship. Then there's the whole problem what to do after you find out you've been cheated on. In short, cheating doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship if you really love each other. However it is a last warning something really needs to change. Don't give me that shit that if you really love someone you wouldn't have cheated in the first place. That's simply not always true. Love is a complex thing and sometimes you hurt the ones you love the most. | |
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