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PrintableHamsterHuey said: All of a sudden I remember this movie where this woman confesses she wants a man to come up to her and be HONEST and say; I fancy your ass, let's go find a room.
A man overhears this and tries the line, then gets slapped in the face. And yeah, I know movies aint real, but I always liked that scene.  I could easily believe that would happen 
here's another reason why men are so careful about what they say: When men say something, it is clear what they mean and what they intend to get out of saying it. When women say something, oh God, you have to learn how to read what she meant by it, what she was implying, whether she said the opposite of what she really meant, just to see if you would pick up on it etc etc. Crafty fuckers! | |
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mrdespues said: HamsterHuey said: Don't tell me I have bumped into TWO oversensitive metrosexuals immediately...
Jeeez. Okay, let's pretend. Men LIKE doing all the fancy shit to get some.  stop giving homos a bad name. not everyone shares your apparently vacuous viewpoint, huey. and i don't think you believe it yourself, really. btw, i am not a "metrosexual". you're just saying that 'cause i won't be gay with you.  Common, let me pluck your brow. Pleassssse? I hear Bon Jovi now; "You give homo's a baaaad name!" LoL Thanks for the beautiful thoughts and now lemme get offa yer leg. It's too short to pull, obviously. |
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HamsterHuey said: mrdespues said: stop giving homos a bad name. not everyone shares your apparently vacuous viewpoint, huey. and i don't think you believe it yourself, really. btw, i am not a "metrosexual". you're just saying that 'cause i won't be gay with you. Common, let me pluck your brow. Pleassssse? I hear Bon Jovi now; "You give homo's a baaaad name!" LoL Thanks for the beautiful thoughts and now lemme get offa yer leg. It's too short to pull, obviously. ooohhhh i am so sorry huey for speaking my mind! how horrid! 
you really have a love-hate relationship with me, don'tcha just!  | |
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HamsterHuey said: I hear Bon Jovi now; "You give homo's a baaaad name!" LoL that was good. 
now i am off to bed... | |
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HamsterHuey said: RocknRollDave said: Maybe men can have complex issues to get thru too, eh?
"Mmmm. She bought the wrong beer brand" You obviously haven't met my Emma! She has worked in pubs for years and takes pride in stockingup at homeas if she were running a bar. Believe me, if there's a brand of beer we ain't got at home, it ain't worth having! | |
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HamsterHuey said: mrdespues said: stop giving homos a bad name. not everyone shares your apparently vacuous viewpoint, huey. and i don't think you believe it yourself, really. btw, i am not a "metrosexual". you're just saying that 'cause i won't be gay with you. Common, let me pluck your brow. Pleassssse? I hear Bon Jovi now; "You give homo's a baaaad name!" LoL Thanks for the beautiful thoughts and now lemme get offa yer leg. It's too short to pull, obviously. Erm.....ahem...That isn't his leg...  | |
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RocknRollDave said: You obviously haven't met my Emma! Nope. If she is ALL that, I would not have a problem telling her I wanna do the dirty deed with her! Any woman brining the right keg is worth worshipping. |
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mrdespues said: you really have a love-hate relationship with me, don'tcha just!
It seems I love you and you hate me!  |
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Byron said: There are 5 different ways in which we feel loved and appreciated/valued:
1) Words 2) Gifts 3) Actions 4) Space 5) Touch You are obviously a "Words" person, and words make you feel loved and valued by your partner...however, your partner may be an "Actions" type, who feels love thru the actions others do for him. The thing is, we tend to show our love in the ways in which we feel loved...so if your partner is indeed an "Actions" type, he will express his love first by actions. None of the five catagories listed are any better than the other...which is hard to keep in mind at times. Probably just best if we understand what we are, understand what our partners are, and try to keep these things in mind when expressing and receiving what our lovers give to us. Oh Lord! Don't even turn this chit into a literal/figurative debate! 
Gay men aren't that much better, or at least not from what I've experienced. Although I do tend to be attracted to more masculine guys. As chickish as I am, I have no problem ever expressing myself to my partner. Never. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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HamsterHuey said: mrdespues said: don't perpetuate a stereotype. perhaps many, but not most. You see, lying already. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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HamsterHuey said: mrdespues said: you really have a love-hate relationship with me, don'tcha just!
It seems I love you and you hate me! it seems you're paranoid, mate. . [Edited 4/16/05 21:38pm] | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: HamsterHuey said: You see, lying already. It took him two seconds, heheeh. |
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RocknRollDave said: HamsterHuey said: Don't tell me I have bumped into TWO oversensitive metrosexuals immediately...
Jeeez. Okay, let's pretend. Men LIKE doing all the fancy shit to get some. Not oversensitive, just fucked off that men get all the bad press in relationships. Sometimes my wife keeps more bottled up than the fucking Coca Cola warehouse, but somehow when a woman does it, it is OK, when a man does it, it is "insensitive" and "thoughtless". Maybe men can have complex issues to get thru too, eh?  I'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed | |
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I say it every day, more than once.
I've nothing else to do.  | |
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Fauxie said: I say it every day, more than once.
I've nothing else to do.  | |
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analbolique said: Fauxie said: I say it every day, more than once.
I've nothing else to do.
I read your comments. What you and Lolly said about showing it over just saying it is spot on. If you can do both then that's great. I guess there's just a problem where one sides expectations aren't met. I'm sure if you've told someone you love them a million times and shown the love too, only to have everything fall apart, it must make it harder to say those words in future. | |
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Just read this thread in full...
And I always thought heterosexuals had no clue about the ways and thoughts of homosexuals. The ignorance is mutual, it seems.  | |
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analbolique said: Words are overrated, actions are much more important. At least, they are to me, but maybe that's because I've been with two lying ass bitches.
 Seems like you're a little bitter. You have have found the right one and that's your problem. | |
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Actions are more important than words. We are getting back to the topic of insecure women again. Enter the dating world and you will see it all over. I want a man to make me feel special, secure and loved, blah, blah, blah. | |
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