What is this called? Swapping partners and stuff like that?

Do you believe in it?

Do you know of anyone who does it?

i think you need to just get some stuff out of your system.

If anyone wants to loan me their wife for a little love makin, I'd be happy to oblige. In return, I will make both of you ham sandwiches.

Nope nope and nope

Solaris said:

Yes, they have swingers club for that too. I guess those are couples who don't like each other enough cause i know i wouldn't be able to stand to see my partner, girlfriend , being done by somebody else in my face. I would get buckwild mad and kick the persons ass if i saw that.

Anxiety said:

I'm not sure what this is called ...switching?

I had this couple invite me to their nudist colony....

My friend told me they wanted to do a threesome...

I'm like wtf...bitch I ain't no hoe.

That's what I said.

I just didn't know people really did that.

No , i could never live with the idea that my girlfriend is another

saintsation said:

buckwild mad....i like that word

Solaris said:

no no and NO

PhonkydudeAKADewrede said:

exactly

PhonkydudeAKADewrede said:

You do this?

Uhm ,?

PhonkydudeAKADewrede said:

At least you're keeping it real.

Seriously , i didn't understand your question
Where you asking if i fuck girls that have boyfriends ?
If so , no i have never

Swapping partners.. isnt' that swinging??? If so, then no i dont believe in it, nor do i think its a good idea! Its destroys relationships!!!!!

PhonkydudeAKADewrede said:

no, do you swing?

Now, I know alot of people swing on the org.

That's what's going to happen in Chicago.

No , i don't

It's not my thing but I do know people/couples who do that. It's totally couples own choice and they must be strong enough to do that.

NO

Solaris said:

It's called swinging. I know some who do it. My Step sister and her husband do. It takes communication and want with both parties..and not just one partner doing so. I also think that anything is OK in a marriage as long as it's talked about and agreed upon...and in some situations revisited for further discussion.

A big part of me feels that Males and Females are VERY DIFFERENT when it comes to sexual needs and wants. Men tend to be much more inclined to want/need more sexual partners than women do. Women, for the most part can handle and want monogamy. Men...try to want monagamy. It's just that man and women fall into this monogamy thing that society has set up. Yet act all crazy and surprised when cheating happens. It's simply because men and women enter in this agreement that compromises both peoples sexuality. People rarely sit down and think about the monogamy part in a marriage. They just assume everyone will abide by the rules. The thing is men would gladly have this conversation if women could handle it. And I think most men would be ok without mongamy and most women wouldn't. Thing is it takes maturity and honesty on both ends...and that's a rare thing...at least in the conversation of sexual wants and needs.

I find it funny...that men though would be happy to cheat or have multiple partners..yet they would NOT want their women to fool around.

luv4u said:

superspaceboy said:

saintsation said:

That's not true. Different strokes for different folks. For some couples it makes their relationship stronger.

Sex is SO SO SOOOO over rated. It obsesses people to the point of madness.

Here a question...why do you think people cheat on each other? Many times it has nothing to do with the love they have for their partner. Many cheat and still love their spouses wholeheartedly.

See it when there is deceipt, that problems arise. That siad, couple need to be entirely honest in what they want. A friend of mine always had the deal with her partners that she would probably always have other sexual partners, but that they were just that sexual partners. She also wanted it to be caveated that her partner should feel free to do the same. It backfired when she didn't have control over what the other person did. In a nut shell she set the rules that she couldn't live by.

Swinging outside of your partner..or with your partner is a delacate thing. It takes maturity, honesty and communication. It helps if both parties don't have a jealous streak. It's not for everybody.

I'd do it if I was in a relationship that was strong enough to handle it.

i have fairly conflicted feelings about this whole subject, and i'm always interested in hearing the views of people who have a really secure view of it...normally, it's such a taboo in society that people automatically raise their shackle or hackles or whatever it's called, and they're instantly all like "oh NO, THAT'S WRONG, PERIOD!!! " and then, on the other end of the spectrum, you have the people who are full-on "in the lifestyle" that it seems as if they've overcompensated for their disregard for social norms to the extent that, well, frankly - they get a little weird.

really? honestly? sometimes i think people wanna stray, purely for physical reasons, and ideally speaking, i don't think that's shameful or wrong. i think it's natural to think about it. it doesn't necessarily say anything about the person you're in a committed relationship with, unless you think it does or unless you think it should.

i think this is one of those touchy subjects that people are quick to be very guarded about, because to really explore the discussion might touch on some areas that people don't wanna go around touching in themselves. that said, i really like a lot of what superspaceboy said. i think it's been the most insightful post on the topic.

Not my thing, but I'm sure it works for some people.

Fuck off and no freakin wayz i'm greedy!!! I don't share

lilmissmissy said:

i'm pretty much stingy myself