Solaris said:

Well you don't know if they want to, but some might actually think about it.

Chatting in a certain way could be cheating. It's all about the intent and I guess even if you're not really going to do anything you can still break someone's trust which can be just as damaging to them and the relationship.

Then there's the whole problem what to do after you find out you've been cheated on. In short, cheating doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship if you really love each other. However it is a last warning something really needs to change.

Don't give me that shit that if you really love someone you wouldn't have cheated in the first place. That's simply not always true. Love is a complex thing and sometimes you hurt the ones you love the most.

Best to end a relationship instead of cheating.

Only if you are cheating with Prince...otherwise

cheating is fine as long as it's only anal

CalhounSq said:

Solaris said:

What? Have I been cheating the wrong way?

analbolique said:

Damn straight.

TheFrog said:

CarrieMpls said:

we tend to hurt the ones you love the most?

I would guess so.

Those bastards are the closest to us huh?



Now, I'm wondering if masturbation is cheating. Like looking at the tube at some people getting down like that.

Solaris said:

How in the world could masturbation be cheating?

Solaris said:

How in the world could masturbation be cheating?

CalhounSq said:

For instance...

What if your loved one caught you jerking off to someone on video...

They got jealous cuz they didn't turn oyu on as much....

Woudl you feel guilty and shit?


Not sure if I would.

Solaris said:

If my loved one caught me jerking off to a video he better either sit there & watch or join in. Anyone who felt competitive w/ a DVD would concern me I would not feel guilty for that

CalhounSq said:

Have you ever been caught jerking off?

It's never OK to cheat. Talk about it or break up first.
Cheating is defined by doing whatever is outside the "rules" of your relationship. If you haven't specifically set up "rules" then I'd say its defined by whatever you wouldn't want your partner to do to you. If you'd feel guilty or they'd feel badly about it, it's cheating.

Solaris said:

No.

CalhounSq said:

Are you the CalhounSq from MN?

If so, I think I met you at Paisley Park.

Solaris said:

can't win with you huh? i've liked other people and thats just human nature, we have desires but we don't act on them. i can look but i don't have to fuck them geez

Maybe they said something to you to make you trip....

WTF is cheating....

Why is it called cheating?

Shoudl you ask before you sleep with someone else?

heybaby said:

Crackin up .... heybaby...u might can't win but i bet i can... tell mistah Solaris that #1 there are open relationships where partners are free to do whatever with whomeva and sometimes altogether.... and #2 there are committed relationships where both partners have agreed to a monogamous relationship ( 'n @ solaris...ummm can u spell monogamous mannnng ) but of far greater importance..... tell him...that the dark beaches aren't in Mexico ...me thinks they're in Miami .... if he keep peekin around the pumpkin patch..... Linus will tell him what's cheatin and what not tee hee ....my

I dont believe in cheating - never have, never will.

luv4u said:

I don't believe in it.

But aren't some things necessary?

Solaris said:

no! cheating is not a need, its a want

heybaby said:

I wonder what you're up 2?
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