DenverMoon said:

did it ever occur to you that he hugged you because it is your money that is being spent?? You have to be careful because then he might go AWOL and leave you with the full bill. I don't think that this is a break through, just because he hugged you based on a condition...he needed something and you are getting ready to provide for it, now it sounds like he might be using you. At least to me that is....

I have to agree with Miss Fee. He does sound like he is using you a little. I think you deserve much better than this. Please don't let this person take you for a ride. Leave him well alone, get on with doing stuff that is important to you and eventually you will meet someone who is worth your love.


Take care of yourself Denver

missfee said:

UPDATE:



okay you guys, this is the final update on this man.....



He refused to take the $200, he said it was okay, that he would handle it but that thanks for the support. He understands that when we check out equipment at school that everyone is responsible for the payment but he still he broke it so he wants to deal with it.


Second:

There was an individual project that was given to us yesterday, and he wants me to help him with it cuz he knows I can get all the info he needs to get a good grade - He's was soooo sweet. When he wants something is super nice.

I think he gets a kick out of how much I like him. I don't think he cares about hurting my feelings or how it makes me feel.

Lately all he does is talk about how he can't get a girl cuz he don't have a nice car. And how this particular teacher is school is so fine.... Or how his friend is going to get married in my country and he's going to fly down there for the wedding and hook up with women in my country. {{{ I'm like SHIT, you got a local one right here}}} I didn't say that, but of course I thought it.

He likes being friends with me, and he likes the fact that I like him SO much. But he doesn't CARE about me..... I'm done. He's not worth my time.

"if a man wants you he will let you know"

That is the thinking of those women magazines. Not reality. A lot of guys are afraid of rejection. If women stepped up more and made the first move they would know what most guys go through every damn day.

Women throw out mixed messages as well. They should make it clear to you when they just like you as a friend and when they want more. They need to put their ass on the line as well. If they made it clear then the guy would not have the fear of rejection. Unless a guy is playing games with the girl, you can tell when he has the hots for a girl with out him saying it so the rejection factor for a woman is a lot less.

DenverMoon said:

Congratulations on being a sensible young women Well done you

If he likes being friends with you then he does care about you. Just not the way you would like him to.

Spats said:

you just happen to be right...

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DenverMoon said:

I hate when that happens, hi Natisse

LISTEN TO THIS YOU GUYS!!!!!


He wants me to e-mail him links for the project. He's not good with computers. I said well since we're in the same team I can try to assist you a bit. and he was like "email me" and I was like well, email me cuz I'm busy and I'll forget, and he was like NOW YOU KNOW you not going to forget about me! and he laughed. and I said, well your not on my mind like you think your on my mind. He got all serious after that! LOL

Then the next day, he said how come you haven't e-mailed me, and I said well I told you, you need to email me YOUR the one that needs the help not me... and he was like my comcast was down all day yesterday. He still has not e-mailed me and neither have I!

DenverMoon said:

If he bloody wants something then he can make the effort. Seems like he wants you to run around and wipe his ass for him. He needs to get over himself

yeah but now you are playing games. That's not good.

eikonoklastes said:

And THERE IT IS people only want what they can't have. Then when they get it they move on. Just save yourself the worries and move on

Spats said:

Who is playing games?

George Michael - Move On
Written by George Michael

I've been in and out of favour with lady luck
I gotta tell you
I've seen things I never wanted to see

I've got to get back on my feet
I feel like I've been sleeping
Sweet, sweet time
Has been a real good friend of mine

Waiting for that change of season
Oh the winter's been so long
Searching for that rhyme or reason
You've just got to

Move on
Hold it together, move on
Life's so short, move on
Only time will set you free

You put your fears behind you
Better get yourself where you wanna be
I think of all the days and nights I spent crying
And I move on

I've been in and out of favour with love
Because I gotta tell you
I've been things I never wanted to be
And then some angel called me up
He told me I was sleeping
Said "Don't waste time
'Cos even angels say goodbye"

Waiting for that change of season
Oh the winter's been so long
Searching for that rhyme or reason
You've just got to

Chorus

You put your fears behind you
Better get yourself where you wanna be
I think of all the days and nights I spent crying
And I move on

And oh, there goes another season
Getting hard to find a decent song to play
But oh, I guess I got my reasons
Everybody thinks I'm doing a.o.k
They ought to know by now

Chorus

You put your tears behind you
Better get yourself where you wanna be
I think of all the days and nights I spent crying
Before my angel set me free

I'm gonna be lucky in love someday