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althom said: HEY!!!! I did a serious post and everybody just ignored it!
I read it and tend to agree | |
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althom said: HEY!!!! I did a serious post and everybody just ignored it!
No replies is usually a good thing at the org.  | |
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Natisse said: I really want to read that  eh, most of it is rubbish, but in this case it rings true. |
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althom said: DenverMoon said: I SOOOOO do not get men. I dunno.
If you like a guy and you let him know, and he knows that you are expecting some type of a yes or no from him but he doesn't give a yes or a no, what the hell does that mean?? At one point I just got mad at him, cuz I don't want to seem aggressive and say "TELL ME ALREADY!" so I just stopped talking to him. He knows that I am waiting for some type of feedback. And what does he do? he sees I stop talking to him and he still befriends me, I ignore him and he comes around like nothing is wrong. I keep ignoring him and being sorta rude and he still acts all buddy buddy with me..... What the hell is up with that??? can someone translate this Manaenese language???? He doesn't know what he wants. I think he's more into the chase than anything else. But it could be this.....He's not sure he wants you, so he doesn't give you a yes answer. But he won't give you a no because he's still looking around. Sorry.....that might have come out a bit blunt. But it's what he's doing.  so your saying he's keeping me on hold to see if he can get something better and if not he'll settle for me???? No, I'm pretty hot, so I doubt that. But it could be true, u never know. Can you elaborate so I can think about it? | |
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DenverMoon said: so your saying he's keeping me on hold to see if he can get something better and if not he'll settle for me???? No, I'm pretty hot, so I doubt that. But it could be true, u never know. Can you elaborate so I can think about it?  Krystal666? | |
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CarrieMpls said: Natisse said: I really want to read that eh, most of it is rubbish, but in this case it rings true. lol trust me Carrie I'm so clueless when it comes to men ANYTHING like that would be good for me to know | |
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Natisse said: CarrieMpls said: eh, most of it is rubbish, but in this case it rings true. lol trust me Carrie I'm so clueless when it comes to men ANYTHING like that would be good for me to know Join the club | |
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Ocean said: Natisse said: lol trust me Carrie I'm so clueless when it comes to men ANYTHING like that would be good for me to know Join the club yeah but you're good with knowing and talking to men, hon...you should give me lessons | |
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DenverMoon said: althom said: He doesn't know what he wants. I think he's more into the chase than anything else. But it could be this.....He's not sure he wants you, so he doesn't give you a yes answer. But he won't give you a no because he's still looking around. Sorry.....that might have come out a bit blunt. But it's what he's doing. so your saying he's keeping me on hold to see if he can get something better and if not he'll settle for me???? No, I'm pretty hot, so I doubt that. But it could be true, u never know. Can you elaborate so I can think about it? No!!! I can't elaborate becuse I don't know the situation personaly.
Just take my word for it.....he's put you on hold until he finds out if he can get something else. | |
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Natisse said: Ocean said: Join the club yeah but you're good with knowing and talking to men, hon...you should give me lessons  | |
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Ocean said: Natisse said: yeah but you're good with knowing and talking to men, hon...you should give me lessons  you are! it's one thing I admire about you I've told you that before | |
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althom said: DenverMoon said: so your saying he's keeping me on hold to see if he can get something better and if not he'll settle for me???? No, I'm pretty hot, so I doubt that. But it could be true, u never know. Can you elaborate so I can think about it? No!!! I can't elaborate becuse I don't know the situation personaly.
Just take my word for it.....he's put you on hold until he finds out if he can get something else. Ok  thanks 4 ur input  Thanks to everyone  | |
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althom said: DenverMoon said: so your saying he's keeping me on hold to see if he can get something better and if not he'll settle for me???? No, I'm pretty hot, so I doubt that. But it could be true, u never know. Can you elaborate so I can think about it? No!!! I can't elaborate becuse I don't know the situation personaly.
Just take my word for it.....he's put you on hold until he finds out if he can get something else. man that sucks | |
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Natisse said: Ocean said: you are! it's one thing I admire about you I've told you that before No I'm not hun ...I'm a bumbling idiot!!! ....Male friends are fine ...thats from having 4 brothers *grin* | |
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Ocean said: Natisse said: you are! it's one thing I admire about you I've told you that before No I'm not hun ...I'm a bumbling idiot!!! ....Male friends are fine ...thats from having 4 brothers *grin*  | |
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Natisse said: Ocean said: you are! it's one thing I admire about you I've told you that before She is a bit of a lush, isn't she? | |
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heybaby said: althom said: No!!! I can't elaborate becuse I don't know the situation personaly.
Just take my word for it.....he's put you on hold until he finds out if he can get something else. man that sucks bloody men!  | |
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althom said: Natisse said: you are! it's one thing I admire about you I've told you that before She is a bit of a lush, isn't she?  | |
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althom said: Natisse said: you are! it's one thing I admire about you I've told you that before She is a bit of a lush, isn't she? that's SOOOOO not how I meant it and you know it  | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: DenverMoon said: so your saying he's keeping me on hold to see if he can get something better and if not he'll settle for me???? No, I'm pretty hot, so I doubt that. But it could be true, u never know. Can you elaborate so I can think about it? Krystal666?The poor man probably just doesn't want to be tied down with a stripper. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: AnotherLoverToo said: Krystal666?The poor man probably just doesn't want to be tied down with a stripper.  I'm not a stripper!!!!  and I dont' know who Krystal is, so don't confusue me! | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: When a man wants you, he lets you know.
This guy just doesn't want to hurt your feelings--or deal with your feelings at all, actually. He's hoping if you two don't talk about it, the issue will just go away and things will go back to the way they were--comfortable for him. Well there is more to the story, with what I've given you that's probably a good assessment but I don't think ur right and writing down more of the story is too time consuming LOL He's actually brought up the subject so it's not like he avoids it completely. Like once, we had a video shoot together and he was like "You texted message me some mean things..." but I just shrug it off and did not continue the conversation cuz I was mad at him and not talking to him. (BTW, the text messages I sent was telling him that I thought he should open up and to stop pretending he didn't like me cuz he has always flirted with me in the past even when he was with his girlfriend who is now his ex) | |
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DenverMoon said:[quote] AnotherLoverToo said: When a man wants you, he lets you know.
This guy just doesn't want to hurt your feelings--or deal with your feelings at all, actually. He's hoping if you two don't talk about it, the issue will just go away and things will go back to the way they were--comfortable for him. Well there is more to the story, with what I've given you that's probably a good assessment but I don't think ur right and writing down more of the story is too time consuming LOL He's actually brought up the subject so it's not like he avoids it completely. Like once, we had a video shoot together and he was like "You texted message me some mean things..." but I just shrug it off and did not continue the conversation cuz I was mad at him and not talking to him. (BTW, the text messages I sent was telling him that I thought he should open up and to stop pretending he didn't like me cuz he has always flirted with me in the past even when he was with his girlfriend who is now his ex) He brought up the subject in an inappropiate setting/time anyways so I could not really follow up with his statement | |
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What is your name about? The moon over Denver, or mooning people in Denver?  | |
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Natisse said: eikonoklastes said: Seriously, how are those mixed messages? He enjoys the friendship and obviously doesn't want a relationship. it can be mixed messages because signals are given that he may or does feel the same way so you think "oh ok...here goes nothing" and pluck up the courage to bring it out in the open... only to find it's not at all what you thought  I also think that if you really like someone you can read into things too much and make yourself believe that they really like you too. Its has happened to me before (someone liked me and I didn't feel the same way) and I wasn't leading them on or anything - he was a friend from uni that I had known for about 4 years. I had to tell him that I didn't feel the same way, it was awful. Its really hard to tell someone that you don't feel the same way without hurting them. I think this guy really likes you as a friend but doesn't want a relationship and finds it hard to tell you that. He doesn't want to hurt you by telling you that he doesn't feel the same way. I'll leave graffiti where you've never been kissed | |
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FamousBluRaincoat said: What is your name about? The moon over Denver, or mooning people in Denver?
I'm from Denver, I miss the way the moon looks from my denver home, it's quite a site, I have spot in the wilderness | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: When a man wants you, he lets you know.
This guy just doesn't want to hurt your feelings--or deal with your feelings at all, actually. He's hoping if you two don't talk about it, the issue will just go away and things will go back to the way they were--comfortable for him. and... AnotherLoverToo said: Ocean said: Most men are hard to read
I don't think so at all--I think they're usually much more simple (not "dumb"--simple!) than women are. They just avoid unpleasant emotional things AT ALL COSTS, unless we totally pin them to the wall on it, and so when they don't respond the way we (as women) do, then we think they're playing really complicated mind games. They're usually not, they usually just don't know what to say or do, so they avoid. Being silent makes them look more complicated than they are!
((clause: most gay men are excluded from every single thing I just said. Those muffuggas is some complicated bitches. ))
[Edited 4/13/05 19:47pm] Wise words In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: AnotherLoverToo said: When a man wants you, he lets you know.
This guy just doesn't want to hurt your feelings--or deal with your feelings at all, actually. He's hoping if you two don't talk about it, the issue will just go away and things will go back to the way they were--comfortable for him. and... I don't think so at all--I think they're usually much more simple (not "dumb"--simple!) than women are. They just avoid unpleasant emotional things AT ALL COSTS, unless we totally pin them to the wall on it, and so when they don't respond the way we (as women) do, then we think they're playing really complicated mind games. They're usually not, they usually just don't know what to say or do, so they avoid. Being silent makes them look more complicated than they are!
((clause: most gay men are excluded from every single thing I just said. Those muffuggas is some complicated bitches. ))
[Edited 4/13/05 19:47pm] Wise words [/quote]
Okay, so why does he still hang out with me, why doesn't he ignore me or whatever. | |
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DenverMoon said: I SOOOOO do not get men. I dunno.
If you like a guy and you let him know, and he knows that you are expecting some type of a yes or no from him but he doesn't give a yes or a no, what the hell does that mean?? At one point I just got mad at him, cuz I don't want to seem aggressive and say "TELL ME ALREADY!" so I just stopped talking to him. He knows that I am waiting for some type of feedback. And what does he do? he sees I stop talking to him and he still befriends me, I ignore him and he comes around like nothing is wrong. I keep ignoring him and being sorta rude and he still acts all buddy buddy with me..... What the hell is up with that??? can someone translate this Manaenese language???? OMG.....the same thing is happening to me...but a lil more intense..you see..theres this kid in school..and we were pretty good friends point is I had the hots for him so badly its not even funny, but I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend and I broke up. He knew that I had broken up with my boyfriend and was bein a real flirt. His best friend and I are really good friends and it sorta slipped that I really badly liked him, so of course guys being guys he told him back. Anyway the flirtation began to get really noticeable and one night after class we were walking together and he kissed me...ok it was amazing right. He stopped talking to me....after that and im like OMG!?!?!?!?!?!? did i kiss bad did i what u know...turns out it was none of that..he said he was scared... yea...uhuh...so like u said up there hes giving me no answer..I really REALLY like him and I can't stop thinking about him whatever I do. He still doesnt talk to me and that drives me nuts and I feel horrible so I guess I should just give up already. What do you think??? [Edited 4/16/05 17:23pm] | |
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