I SOOOOO do not get men. I dunno.

If you like a guy and you let him know, and he knows that you are expecting some type of a yes or no from him but he doesn't give a yes or a no, what the hell does that mean?? At one point I just got mad at him, cuz I don't want to seem aggressive and say "TELL ME ALREADY!" so I just stopped talking to him.

He knows that I am waiting for some type of feedback. And what does he do? he sees I stop talking to him and he still befriends me, I ignore him and he comes around like nothing is wrong. I keep ignoring him and being sorta rude and he still acts all buddy buddy with me..... What the hell is up with that???

can someone translate this Manaenese language????

i got nuthin

we call it entertainment.

sinisterpentatonic said:

It means he doesn't want you, but likes to stay friends. Simple as that.

He doesn't feel the same way about you.

I think he's avoiding having to say it to you.

AsianBoi777 said:

yeah, he doesn't want to fuck up his booty call.

sinisterpentatonic said:

What are you saying. He likes the attention but not me?

DenverMoon said:

sinisterpentatonic said:

I was about to say that, but people think I'm full of shit so I thought I'd let someone else do it.

heybaby said:

No, you're wrong. He likes to keep the booty call option open.

DenverMoon said:

immaturity THAT's what

DenverMoon said:

I had such a long answer for you DenverMoon but I lost it coz this stupid computer wouldn't let me post it properly

anyway, the gist of it was it can be very hurtful if there are mixed messages and the guy plainly sees that you like him but still kinda acts as if it isn't happening...

then it blows back up in your face if you are brave enough to try and bring it up...

hope it works out for you just remember Men are from Mars Women are from Venus

eikonoklastes said:

okay, you guys are better at giving this type of advice anyways

Natisse said:

Seriously, how are those mixed messages? He enjoys the friendship and obviously doesn't want a relationship.

eikonoklastes said:

it can be mixed messages because signals are given that he may or does feel the same way so you think "oh ok...here goes nothing" and pluck up the courage to bring it out in the open...

only to find it's not at all what you thought

eikonoklastes said:

unrequited love this friendship will not work out

charlottegelin said:

EEEEEXACTLY!

Natisse said:

When a man wants you, he lets you know.

This guy just doesn't want to hurt your feelings--or deal with your feelings at all, actually. He's hoping if you two don't talk about it, the issue will just go away and things will go back to the way they were--comfortable for him.

AnotherLoverToo said:

Most men are hard to read

CarrieMpls said:

His friends tell me that he likes me. He flirts like crazy. He's always volunteering to work with me in projects. I just don't get it. He won't make a move or at least say NO

charlottegelin said:

There's still hope though. She might fall for another guy...but then he will probably end up wanting her after all.

DenverMoon said:

He doesn't know what he wants. I think he's more into the chase than anything else.
But it could be this.....He's not sure he wants you, so he doesn't give you a yes answer. But he won't give you a no because he's still looking around. Sorry.....that might have come out a bit blunt. But it's what he's doing.

DenverMoon said:

oh god, I can't believe I'm doing this....

CarrieMpls said:

LOL

Ocean said:

I don't think so at all--I think they're usually much more simple (not "dumb"--simple!) than women are. They just avoid unpleasant emotional things AT ALL COSTS, unless we totally pin them to the wall on it, and so when they don't respond the way we (as women) do, then we think they're playing really complicated mind games. They're usually not, they usually just don't know what to say or do, so they avoid. Being silent makes them look more complicated than they are!

((clause: most gay men are excluded from every single thing I just said. Those muffuggas is some complicated bitches. ))
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DenverMoon said:

CarrieMpls said:

I really want to read that