Why do fat, ugly miserable women give pretty women additude????? I am so sick of it. Why don't they work on improving themselves as they would feel better about themselves!

Ok so there is this front desk lady at the gym always gives me additude for no reason! I usually just give her a friendly smile but she just glares at me for no reason. From the first time I saw here I would hand her my membership card, smile and say hi. No hi back, no smile, never. I always though nothing of it untill it started happening all the time then I was like WTF is her damange????? So I just ignore her. Sometimes I practice some ballet/hip hop dance moves and she just would glare at me. It made me really uncomfortable. But I just tried to ignore her.

Anyway I was on the stepmill tonight and working out hard. Usually when they close they turn off the lights and let you finnish up your workout within a minute. I had a minute left and I assmed she would just be cool with me finnishing it out like every other employee there.

She walks by me and with a bitchy, sarcastic tone is like "Ummm excuse me but were closed!" Complete with the neck roll. I said ok and didn't finnish up my minute. I understand she wanted to get going and I probably shouldn't of pushed it but since every other person on diffrent nights allows it I was under the impression it was cool. But she could of said it polietly. I mean how unproffessional.

I was walking out with a man at the same time and he is like "Sorry to hold you up : And all sweetly she says "Oh no problem" Complete with a big smile I was like .

Why are some bitches so bitchy to hot women?????

Guys can you imagine if fat ugly men got sarcastic and testy with you for being fine???? Even when you are friendly and poliet back????

Who told you you were fine?

I cant imagine why anyone would give you attitude.

Right on fatty!!!!

EvilNatisse said:

Awww shit

Krystal666 said:

Maybe she likes you
And I think it works both ways; (not necessarily in this case) but so called "hot women" or "hot men" treat the "fat ugly " with much disrespect as well. Not saying it's acceptable either way..but, another reason may be she's lashing out at you for how other "hot women" may have treated her.
My advise: Ask her directly. *unless you think she can beat you down*
Good Luck with that!

Krystal666 said:

measurements please !

Women are always hating on other women.

Don't hate em Feel sorry for themz!! But you may be misinterpreting their actionz. Ya never knowz

it's been said that women would rule the world if they'd stop hating eachother so much.



Women rule my world though.

Chico319 said:

I agree I hate catty women like that...I wanna bitch slap em.

damosbeautifulgrlndaworld said:

and the cycle continues

I know you'd like to think your shit don't stank
But lean a little bit closer, see
Roses really smell like BOO-BOO-OO [POO-POO-OO]
Yeah, roses really smell like BOO-BOO-OO [POO-POO-OO]

Chico319 said:

I mean seriously...why those who think they the shit....gotta make everyone else feel like shit, to make themselves feel better.

damosbeautifulgrlndaworld said:

Is that a song by OutKast? A co-worker was singing that and I asked her wtf?? She said she thought it as a song by them.

Chico319 said:

Yup its outkast.

damosbeautifulgrlndaworld said:

Welcome to the org!


and I agree!

Maybe she has a horrible life. Maybe her kid is on crack & her mother is dying. Maybe she's clinically depressed. Maybe the smell of the gym gives her a headache. Does it really matter? Why give it your energy?

I know I know. It is just upsetting to me when others are mean to me. I hate it!

Krystal666 said:

hang out with men

oooh I like em big and mean

Well give me a pic so I can give it to this lady. You'd like her!

Don't you know the rules of GD yet? You can't call a fat person fat, an ugly person ugly or a dumbass a dumbass. We're all wonderful people with each our very own special talents and we're beautiful in our own way.

analbolique said:

hata

CalhounSq said:

exactly. i don't understand the cattiness in other women myself...love whatcha got and don't worry about what the girl next door has/doesn't have, and you'll be cool.

lilgish said:

Krystal666 said:

co-...

I think if someone was chocolate, they would eat themselves

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Agreed!

When someone treats you rudely, its easy to blame it on whatever you want, too pretty, too ugly, too bitchy, what have you. And while I'd love to believe we're all one big sisterhood fighting the good fight together I know there's a lot of discension within the ranks. When its a complete stranger like this, best to just ignore and let it go. Or if it continues, tell the manager of the gym. I make it known when I get poor service at a business I support. If things don't change, I stop supporting it.

EvilNatisse said:

well, i dont know how to say this, and i dont know you OR the woman in question, so bear with me...

but, dont you think that while you think shes 'fat, ugly and miserable' - she might think that youre a bit stuck on yourself ???? i mean, really, who calls themselves 'hot' ????? and who assumes that the woman behind a counter cant get along with you because you are just THAT hot and she can hardley stand it. also, who in their right mind goes and starts practicing dancing shit just in the middle of anywhere they please ??? so what, youre just hanging out at the counter, and break out in a little dance session ???? no wonder shes lookin at you like that i grew up with a friend JUST like that... and you know what, looking back, she was SO stuck on herself.

anyway, just another way to look at it, good luck

nakedpianoplayer said:

Have I told you how much I loved you lately