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Need Advice: Breast Redcuction SUrgery

Have any of the girls on the org had breast reduction surgery? I had a consultation this morning by a plastic surgeon but I sort of left freaking out. I have some back and shoulder pain and really want to do this to eliminate the discomfort. I knew going into the consultation that scars are involved but apparently there are a lot more scars than I thought.

I made a surgery appt. in the fall (Hoping that my insurance covers it b/c I can't afford it if it doesn't) but I'm sort of nervous about the whole thing and I'm hoping anyone who has had it can give me insight. Now I"m wondering if I should cancel. But oh.....the back pain!
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Reply #1 posted 05/20/05 7:38am

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Have a donut, or smoke a pipe.
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Reply #2 posted 05/20/05 7:44am

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Reply #3 posted 05/20/05 7:50am

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purplegypsy said:

Have any of the girls on the org had breast reduction surgery? I had a consultation this morning by a plastic surgeon but I sort of left freaking out. I have some back and shoulder pain and really want to do this to eliminate the discomfort. I knew going into the consultation that scars are involved but apparently there are a lot more scars than I thought.

I made a surgery appt. in the fall (Hoping that my insurance covers it b/c I can't afford it if it doesn't) but I'm sort of nervous about the whole thing and I'm hoping anyone who has had it can give me insight. Now I"m wondering if I should cancel. But oh.....the back pain!
Every celebrity that has had it done that I know of: Latifah, Punky Brewster, etc., says it made them feel better. In real life, I know one woman who had it and feels much better but she did have scars and over time, those scars spread and her boyfriend was turned off to the 'twins'. Ultimately, it boils down to whether you have a greater fear of vanity or a greatesr need for pain relief.

Is it possible that you could buy specially made bras that could support your back and eliminate shoulder pain?
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Reply #4 posted 05/20/05 7:52am

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get my message? biggrin



thank u - i did
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Reply #5 posted 05/20/05 7:55am

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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:


Is it possible that you could buy specially made bras that could support your back and eliminate shoulder pain?



i have...i think you hit the nail on vanity vs. pain - i'm nervous about the aftermath look
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Reply #6 posted 05/20/05 8:00am

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purplegypsy said:

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:


Is it possible that you could buy specially made bras that could support your back and eliminate shoulder pain?



i have...i think you hit the nail on vanity vs. pain - i'm nervous about the aftermath look
[Edited 5/20/05 7:55am]


what i was talking about regarding scars:



will fade over time, but never "100%"
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Reply #7 posted 05/20/05 8:33am

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Gypsy ~
I had this surgery on Feb 2nd of this year and it is the best thing I ever did.
I feel like I'm 15 again, in that respect. You know, wearing cute t-shirts, cute bras, going braless if I want.
The best part of breast reduction is that they don't just get smaller, they get higher!!!

I'm telling you - you won't regret it.
Just make sure you thoroughly check out the surgeon.
He should be able to show you pictures of patients before and after and he should have a list of patients that he worked on who will speak to his ability.

Go for it! (*)(*)
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Reply #8 posted 05/20/05 8:37am

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Fleshofmyflesh said:

Gypsy ~
I had this surgery on Feb 2nd of this year and it is the best thing I ever did.
I feel like I'm 15 again, in that respect. You know, wearing cute t-shirts, cute bras, going braless if I want.
The best part of breast reduction is that they don't just get smaller, they get higher!!!

I'm telling you - you won't regret it.
Just make sure you thoroughly check out the surgeon.
He should be able to show you pictures of patients before and after and he should have a list of patients that he worked on who will speak to his ability.

Go for it! (*)(*)

you almost have me ready to sign up !

seriously, if its necessary (and im seriously considering it) then go ahead.

the thing that bothers me about it is, do they really cut the nipples off and then reattach ??? i would be concerned about sensitivity issues after that - seems everywhere i have had surgery, the feeling rarely comes back over the scar area.
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Reply #9 posted 05/20/05 8:45am

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nakedpianoplayer said:

Fleshofmyflesh said:

Gypsy ~
I had this surgery on Feb 2nd of this year and it is the best thing I ever did.
I feel like I'm 15 again, in that respect. You know, wearing cute t-shirts, cute bras, going braless if I want.
The best part of breast reduction is that they don't just get smaller, they get higher!!!

I'm telling you - you won't regret it.
Just make sure you thoroughly check out the surgeon.
He should be able to show you pictures of patients before and after and he should have a list of patients that he worked on who will speak to his ability.

Go for it! (*)(*)

you almost have me ready to sign up !

seriously, if its necessary (and im seriously considering it) then go ahead.

the thing that bothers me about it is, do they really cut the nipples off and then reattach ??? i would be concerned about sensitivity issues after that - seems everywhere i have had surgery, the feeling rarely comes back over the scar area.


the doctor said 1 in 30 have minor sensitivity issues in their breasts...
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Reply #10 posted 05/20/05 8:47am

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purplegypsy said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


you almost have me ready to sign up !

seriously, if its necessary (and im seriously considering it) then go ahead.

the thing that bothers me about it is, do they really cut the nipples off and then reattach ??? i would be concerned about sensitivity issues after that - seems everywhere i have had surgery, the feeling rarely comes back over the scar area.


the doctor said 1 in 30 have minor sensitivity issues in their breasts...


nerve damage uncommon, feeling returns within months
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Reply #11 posted 05/20/05 8:52am

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purplegypsy said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


you almost have me ready to sign up !

seriously, if its necessary (and im seriously considering it) then go ahead.

the thing that bothers me about it is, do they really cut the nipples off and then reattach ??? i would be concerned about sensitivity issues after that - seems everywhere i have had surgery, the feeling rarely comes back over the scar area.


the doctor said 1 in 30 have minor sensitivity issues in their breasts...



I'm with the 29.
Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.
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Reply #12 posted 05/20/05 8:56am

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I had it done 7 years ago, and I don't regret it. I was a size 0 with 38DD's...I had really bad scaring at first, but over time the scars have faded. You can also use cocoa butter to help them fade. Overall, I'm happy with the procedure.
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Reply #13 posted 05/20/05 9:02am

Fleshofmyflesh

By the way, Redcuction is much more painful than simple Reduction lol
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

purplegypsy said:



the doctor said 1 in 30 have minor sensitivity issues in their breasts...



I'm with the 29.
Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.
[Edited 5/20/05 8:52am]

well, that makes it easier to think about having done then nod

does anyone know the ways to get insurance to cover it ??? like, what does it take ??? i have struggled with back problems now for about 11 years i think. i have scars from where my bras have dug into my skin sad whatelse do i need before a doctor would say its medically necessary ?
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Reply #15 posted 05/20/05 9:07am

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nakedpianoplayer said:

Fleshofmyflesh said:




I'm with the 29.
Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.
[Edited 5/20/05 8:52am]

well, that makes it easier to think about having done then nod

does anyone know the ways to get insurance to cover it ??? like, what does it take ??? i have struggled with back problems now for about 11 years i think. i have scars from where my bras have dug into my skin sad whatelse do i need before a doctor would say its medically necessary ?



It all depends on the insurance company.
Cigna denied it outright, even though the DR wrote that it was a medical necessity.
I was fortunate to have another insurance company to tap - Blue Cross - and they approved it within a week.
What they look for is length of time you've had either pain or a rash underneath your breasts...what have you done to alleviate symptoms and has it worked..etc.
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


well, that makes it easier to think about having done then nod

does anyone know the ways to get insurance to cover it ??? like, what does it take ??? i have struggled with back problems now for about 11 years i think. i have scars from where my bras have dug into my skin sad whatelse do i need before a doctor would say its medically necessary ?



It all depends on the insurance company.
Cigna denied it outright, even though the DR wrote that it was a medical necessity.
I was fortunate to have another insurance company to tap - Blue Cross - and they approved it within a week.
What they look for is length of time you've had either pain or a rash underneath your breasts...what have you done to alleviate symptoms and has it worked..etc.

taking notes

thanks hun hug
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Reply #17 posted 05/20/05 9:11am

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Fleshofmyflesh said:




It all depends on the insurance company.
Cigna denied it outright, even though the DR wrote that it was a medical necessity.
I was fortunate to have another insurance company to tap - Blue Cross - and they approved it within a week.
What they look for is length of time you've had either pain or a rash underneath your breasts...what have you done to alleviate symptoms and has it worked..etc.

taking notes

thanks hun hug



You're welcome!
Keep me abreast, okay ? lol
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Reply #18 posted 05/20/05 9:13am

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Fleshofmyflesh said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


taking notes

thanks hun hug



You're welcome!
Keep me abreast, okay ? lol

lol sure thing !

and i do have just one more question.. when its all over, do you look like you have 'young' boobs again ??? cuz, you know, pregnancy and nursing have really taken a toll on the twins sigh
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Reply #19 posted 05/20/05 9:21am

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nakedpianoplayer said:

Fleshofmyflesh said:




You're welcome!
Keep me abreast, okay ? lol

lol sure thing !

and i do have just one more question.. when its all over, do you look like you have 'young' boobs again ??? cuz, you know, pregnancy and nursing have really taken a toll on the twins sigh



Tell me about it!
I'm telling you, you won't believe it.
You'll feel like a teenager.
Now, I have to warn you.....at least for me.....at first when I saw them after surgery I was terrified. I felt like I had a mastectomy. I missed my breasts very much and was almost grieving over the loss.
I talked to my DR and he understood and encouraged me to allow the healing process to do it's magic.
I went from a double D to a C. My DR told me they would be a C and I had my doubts for the first few weeks but now it's been nearly 4 months and I could not be happier.
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


lol sure thing !

and i do have just one more question.. when its all over, do you look like you have 'young' boobs again ??? cuz, you know, pregnancy and nursing have really taken a toll on the twins sigh



Tell me about it!
I'm telling you, you won't believe it.
You'll feel like a teenager.
Now, I have to warn you.....at least for me.....at first when I saw them after surgery I was terrified. I felt like I had a mastectomy. I missed my breasts very much and was almost grieving over the loss.
I talked to my DR and he understood and encouraged me to allow the healing process to do it's magic.
I went from a double D to a C. My DR told me they would be a C and I had my doubts for the first few weeks but now it's been nearly 4 months and I could not be happier.

woot! well, im in a DD - DDD now, and think a nice full C would be great !! like you said... the OPTION to go braless has to be a great feeling, im guilty of sleeping in a bra most nights redface
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Reply #21 posted 05/20/05 9:28am

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nakedpianoplayer said:

Fleshofmyflesh said:




Tell me about it!
I'm telling you, you won't believe it.
You'll feel like a teenager.
Now, I have to warn you.....at least for me.....at first when I saw them after surgery I was terrified. I felt like I had a mastectomy. I missed my breasts very much and was almost grieving over the loss.
I talked to my DR and he understood and encouraged me to allow the healing process to do it's magic.
I went from a double D to a C. My DR told me they would be a C and I had my doubts for the first few weeks but now it's been nearly 4 months and I could not be happier.

woot! well, im in a DD - DDD now, and think a nice full C would be great !! like you said... the OPTION to go braless has to be a great feeling, im guilty of sleeping in a bra most nights redface



You know what's cool--
If you put a pencil under my breasts right now, it would fall.
Before, you could have put a box of crayolas under there (the 64 size) and I coulda walked around all day.

I am SO looking forward to summer now, and to not having that itchy sweaty thing going on under them.
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


woot! well, im in a DD - DDD now, and think a nice full C would be great !! like you said... the OPTION to go braless has to be a great feeling, im guilty of sleeping in a bra most nights redface



You know what's cool--
If you put a pencil under my breasts right now, it would fall.
Before, you could have put a box of crayolas under there (the 64 size) and I coulda walked around all day.

I am SO looking forward to summer now, and to not having that itchy sweaty thing going on under them.

A PENCIL would fall eek

girl, sign me up !!!!! woot!

and youre right, summer is rough sad
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Reply #23 posted 05/20/05 9:32am

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nakedpianoplayer said:

Fleshofmyflesh said:




You know what's cool--
If you put a pencil under my breasts right now, it would fall.
Before, you could have put a box of crayolas under there (the 64 size) and I coulda walked around all day.

I am SO looking forward to summer now, and to not having that itchy sweaty thing going on under them.

A PENCIL would fall eek

girl, sign me up !!!!! woot!

and youre right, summer is rough sad



Just imagine your nipples facing forward again, instead of to the floor !
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

purplegypsy said:



the doctor said 1 in 30 have minor sensitivity issues in their breasts...



I'm with the 29.
Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.
[Edited 5/20/05 8:52am]



Same here. I was 21 when i got mine and never felt sorry for one day, i'm now 38:)
the scarves are there and they're not nice because i was pregnant at the time i was having the surgery (unknowingly) so after the surgury my breasts grew again neutral
But still I never had any regret doing it. no more back pain woot! no more pain in my shoulders biggrin walking straight up instead of trying to cover up nod

Good luck with your decision rose
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Fleshofmyflesh said:




I'm with the 29.
Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.
[Edited 5/20/05 8:52am]



Same here. I was 21 when i got mine and never felt sorry for one day, i'm now 38:)
the scarves are there and they're not nice because i was pregnant at the time i was having the surgery (unknowingly) so after the surgury my breasts grew again neutral
But still I never had any regret doing it. no more back pain woot! no more pain in my shoulders biggrin walking straight up instead of trying to cover up nod

Good luck with your decision rose


And after 17 years, are they still high and perky ?
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

nakedpianoplayer said:


A PENCIL would fall eek

girl, sign me up !!!!! woot!

and youre right, summer is rough sad



Just imagine your nipples facing forward again, instead of to the floor !

sigh
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.


omfg no way!!!

that is my biggest worry too... (other than the whole surgery thing rolleyes )
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Reply #28 posted 05/20/05 9:57am

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Fleshofmyflesh said:

Mine are MORE sensitive than before. I sware.
And this was my biggest concern going in.


omfg no way!!!

that is my biggest worry too... (other than the whole surgery thing rolleyes )



Yep - for the first few weeks after surgery they were hyper-sensitive which was really unpleasant actually. They were on high alert 24/7.
But things have calmed down and now they are definitely new and improved in that way too.
I'm enjoying them like a new toy!
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Fleshofmyflesh said:

emm said:



omfg no way!!!

that is my biggest worry too... (other than the whole surgery thing rolleyes )



Yep - for the first few weeks after surgery they were hyper-sensitive which was really unpleasant actually. They were on high alert 24/7.
But things have calmed down and now they are definitely new and improved in that way too.
I'm enjoying them like a new toy!

i wonder how that works really, i mean, isnt it all because of nerves and whatnot that makes the nipples sensitive ?? if you cut them 'off' bawl then how do they still get to have all that feeling ???

i mean, do they work while they're on the table waiting to get put back on us ?? eek that would be very weird !!!
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