.....at the hockey-club and, man, it was devastating! It has been 2 and a half months since the last time and it just amazed me that people who shared so much with eachother at once, are able to not talk to eachother.....it hurt! I'm overwhelmed by this two-faced bitch (sorry, no other way to put it....), too much has happened, I still misss her.....but I'm drunk now.....and drunks speak the truth, don't they?

And man, she looked great.....though she schouldn't stuff toilet-paper in her bra.....you look great the way you are, Jacqueline.....

Been there killer I feel ya

Sweeny79 said:

thanks....New Jersey all the way!!!!! What can make this aching stop?

abierman said:

nada sweets just gotta grit your teeth and wait it out.

Sweeny79 said:

it's hitting me hard though.....harder than I had expected!

yup...all you need is time dude .

abierman said:

I'm such a sucker.....

abierman said:

no your not, everyone has been there.

brownsugar said:

yup

Sweeny79 said:

I feel like I've been there too many times.....this time it is hitting me especially hard....I feel that she was the one....I fucked things up, she did even more.....still, I feel like I have failed....looking at the unfortunate circumstamces.....I'm feeling desperate....a first timer!

abierman said:

all you can do is learn from your mistakes

brownsugar said:

wise words....thanx.....

Oh do I feel you on that one!

Stay strong... Your future will dull your past!

I sobered up now.....and this is not a very good thread........thanx for all the kind words anyway!!!

abierman said:

Just saw this!

abierman said:

i know what you mean buddy...i spent 3 plus years with my ex girlfriend and we were so close we used to talk for hours and hours on the phone when we were not together and not a day went by when we didnt tell each other "i love you" but she has not spoken to me since the day she broke up with me and its now 4 years this month! i totally find it amazing how a person can just stop talking to you like that especially when there was no major fight that caused the breakup..i know i could never do that to somebody

The only reasons I haven't spoken to some of my ex's is because either their new boyfriend was better looking than me, or because my ex has told me that they are better in bed. I feel your pain.

Well, you may be surprised that these feelings were overwhelming you while drunk, but try to look at it this way... One day you were hurt all the time, now these feelings only appear this strong when you're drunk and not controlling yourself any longer... and one day you'll wake up and realize you've lost the feeling.

You can't control things like this, it may take half a year of five years, but it will go away. If you left each other you were not bound to be together.

I wish you strength !

MarieLouise said:

good advice

Who dumped who, by the way?

abierman said:

i thought it was one of your better threads

i like realness in people

and a and

for your present hearthache

Been there too. Sometimes it just isn't our fault. The hurt will subside. It doesn't seem like it yet. It's too soon.

Don't give up on yourself or any woman that comes along.

If u love your ex and miss them as much, you should do something about it. I know i miss mines very much but i still see the person though and let them know i love them and need them. We lived together for almost a year and half and been together for 2 and half years and i am not ready to let that go and i know they not either but right now they having a hard time trusting me.

Go after your ex man.

MarieLouise said:

thanx, and you're right! I had not seen her for months, and actually the last time I saw her it was nice....However, she's decided to cut all ties, except she started playing at my hockey-club after I broke up with her. I was doing fine, she had disappeared....and then came yesterday!
It wasn't meant to be, that's clear to me.....but I wanted it (maybe too much).

Taureau said:

I dumped her, she wasn't willing (or able) to commit and I couldn't be indecisive, it got very complicated.....she's got serious issues, not involving me. First I thought it did involve me.

saintsation said:

it's not that I want her back necessarily, and it will not happen. I first thought I was able to change her.....see my last post!

What I really wish, is that she gets out of my system, but I will always be reminded as long as she keeps playing hockey at my club.


And she's evil, she stories about me which are not true, she's in denial about the relationship we once had.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

yeah man, and I'm doing that.....maybe I shouldn't get drunk anymore.....at least not when she's around!