1 month +

or to be on the safe side NEVER

I'm sticking to Never in the future

what's the rush to define the relationship. Just date and enjoy the relationship. I would just say take your time and you'll know when you're ready to put that "boyfriend" label on it.

cant put a time frame on something of the heart ...

hush the mind and listen to you inner voice

it'll let ya know

p0pRocks said:

You know that scares me sometimes: the moment I refer to someone as "my man," I get burned.

I've never had a REAL relationship, so I'm anxious to get one, but I'm even more reluctant not to jump in it at the same time.

I want to ask REAL WOMEN this question. I am a gay man and I'm not seeking the advice of gay men on this question because that ain't gonna work.

I wanna know from WOMEN... how long should I date or talk to a man before you get comfortable in accepting their offer to be their boyfriend? I know less than a week is not cool and that's rushing things. Is it OK to accept the offer after 2 weeks of dating? A month of dating?

I definitely don't want to get burned again. I don't just call ANYONE my boyfriend, so I need to do this the best way I can.

Any help from the females would be appreciated.
[Edited 3/25/05 13:50pm]

1 month +

or to be on the safe side NEVER

I'm sticking to Never in the future

p0pRocks said:

I can remember looking down at the carpet and thinking life would never be
the same again

p0pRocks said:

I can remember looking down at the carpet and thinking life would never be
the same again

Sweetie, if you're a gay man, why are you asking women about this? Me and my other gay sisters on here would love to help you. I think you should wait a couple months and see how things are. Unless they're dead serious about it and you both can committ. Then it's all good.

glamslamkid said:

Because a lot of gay men are on some bullshit.

Well, i'm not one of them. Friends???









Trying to keep it as civil as I can, edit.
[Edited 3/25/05 16:42pm]

Impressed said:

glamslamkid said:

Friends, eh? Well, I need to GET TO KNOW YOU before I jump into something like that. Maybe I should wait a couple months and see how things are.

glamslamkid said:

Friends, eh? Well, I need to GET TO KNOW YOU before I jump into something like that. Maybe I should wait a couple months and see how things are.

shykitty said:

1 month +

or to be on the safe side NEVER

I'm sticking to Never in the future

No MC Hammer site exists

p0pRocks said:

If you'll agree to not have me, I'd like it very much to never be your boyfriend.

Thanks for the responses...

In conclusion, I'm DEFINITELY going to take my time.

A lot of men are on that bullshit. And I'll be damned before I get caught up in the game again.

what's the rush to define the relationship. Just date and enjoy the relationship. I would just say take your time and you'll know when you're ready to put that "boyfriend" label on it.