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aggressive women can be 100% worse than an aggressive man I've lived with both and I'd take the man anyday of the week  | |
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heybaby said: what i'm sayin' is it a turnoff for men for women to be aggressive?
NO.  | |
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p0pRocks said: I live with the most aggressive dominering woman in the world....
aggressive women can be 100% worse than an aggressive man I've lived with both and I'd take the man anyday of the week You're pretty aggressive when u want to be. I can't stand it!  | |
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Fauxie said: p0pRocks said: I live with the most aggressive dominering woman in the world....
aggressive women can be 100% worse than an aggressive man I've lived with both and I'd take the man anyday of the week You're pretty aggressive when u want to be. I can't stand it! 
I hate to disapoint you but in person I'm a pussy cat
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CarrieMpls said: heybaby said: no i didn't take it like that i want to here everybody's opinion. i hope he does grow with me 'cause if he doesn't there are some decisions i'm gonna have to make that may be hard but i know i have to do.I honestly think that must be the toughest part of getting together with someone so young and staying through it for the long haul. We change SO MUCH as people from that age to now (I'll be 30 this year, too). Most folks don't really know who they are at 18-20, etc, even though we think we do. Of course, through my 20's I'd reflect back and often think I've finally figured myself out only to look back a year later and still see how much I'm learning and changing. So I'm thinking now its a never-ending process. At least, I hope so. So its a matter of being able to grow together and work through the growing pains along the way.I think that's why it's so rare for people's relationships to survive when they start out so young. I'm different from 2 years ago, let alone 10   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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lollyp0p said: Fauxie said: You're pretty aggressive when u want to be. I can't stand it!
I hate to disapoint you but in person I'm a pussy cat
you would LOVE my mom. (hands over ears) la la la la la la la la la la... can't hear you. Just fishslap me or something and don't break my heart.  | |
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Fauxie said: lollyp0p said:
I hate to disapoint you but in person I'm a pussy cat
you would LOVE my mom. (hands over ears) la la la la la la la la la la... can't hear you. Just fishslap me or something and don't break my heart. 
i want to hear your heart break 
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If a man feels turned off or threatened by a woman for being who she is they are not good enough for her? Huh? No, they are just not turned on be her.
I like women to be agressive but only when it comes to making the first move and sex. Big mouth women are a turn off. Femininity is very important. | |
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Spats said: If a man feels turned off or threatened by a woman for being who she is they are not good enough for her? Huh? No, they are just not turned on be her.
I like women to be agressive but only when it comes to making the first move and sex. Big mouth women are a turn off. Femininity is very important. So having a big mouth is masculine?  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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lollyp0p said: Fauxie said: (hands over ears) la la la la la la la la la la... can't hear you. Just fishslap me or something and don't break my heart.
i want to hear your heart break
That's the medicine I need.  | |
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Fauxie said: lollyp0p said:
i want to hear your heart break
That's the medicine I need. 
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lollyp0p said: Fauxie said: That's the medicine I need.
I don't know why I ever let Starkitty be the special mordacious org lady in my life. Nobody throws a brick like you. It's a thing of immense beauty, and not inconsiderable fracturing of the skull, which I take simply to be your tough love.  | |
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Fauxie said: lollyp0p said:
I don't know why I ever let Starkitty be the special mordacious org lady in my life. Nobody throws a brick like you. It's a thing of immense beauty, and not inconsiderable fracturing of the skull, which I take simply to be your tough love. I have indeed spent a long time in training and i know my brick skills are of grade A quality
I have to thank rocknrolldave and alive for the practice they gave me in the early days now my bricks sent with love and vengence are all for you my dear | |
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CalhounSq said: CarrieMpls said: I honestly think that must be the toughest part of getting together with someone so young and staying through it for the long haul. We change SO MUCH as people from that age to now (I'll be 30 this year, too). Most folks don't really know who they are at 18-20, etc, even though we think we do. Of course, through my 20's I'd reflect back and often think I've finally figured myself out only to look back a year later and still see how much I'm learning and changing. So I'm thinking now its a never-ending process. At least, I hope so. So its a matter of being able to grow together and work through the growing pains along the way.I think that's why it's so rare for people's relationships to survive when they start out so young. I'm different from 2 years ago, let alone 10 yeah and i love him so, we've been through a lot where we were on the verge
of breaking up | |
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Fauxie said: meow85 said: Any man who is threatened or turned off because of who you are isn't good enough for you.
Perfect!
There's some good responsibility dodging there. With this philosophy you can be all kinds of ways and any guy that is threatened or turned off is out the door! What if 'who you are' isn't good enough for them? The problem is that aggression in this vague sense that you've put forward is unhelpful and only aggressive, whereas a woman who speaks her mind fully and articulately as doctamario and orignmnd are alluding to is in my mind definitely a good thing. So for me an aggressive woman would be a turn-off. An assertive, articulate woman would be a turn-on. You know damn well what I meant. If who you are naturally turns off someone else they simply aren't good enough for you providing you don't have some serious character flaw, then you need to get your shit together. Didn't think I had to spell it out...  [Edited 3/28/05 4:51am] "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Spats said: If a man feels turned off or threatened by a woman for being who she is they are not good enough for her? Huh? No, they are just not turned on be her.
I like women to be agressive but only when it comes to making the first move and sex. Big mouth women are a turn off. Femininity is very important. So keeping quiet is feminine?
Fuck that. I'll speak my mind, thankyouverymuch. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: Spats said: If a man feels turned off or threatened by a woman for being who she is they are not good enough for her? Huh? No, they are just not turned on be her.
I like women to be agressive but only when it comes to making the first move and sex. Big mouth women are a turn off. Femininity is very important. So keeping quiet is feminine?
Fuck that. I'll speak my mind, thankyouverymuch. exactly | |
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Who said keeping quiet? If you want to do the "I am woman ,hear me roar" routine then have fun. But soft spoken, polite, feminine women are more attractive. Big mouth women are not.
And the whole thing about a man not being good enough for a women if he is not attracted to her for the way she is ,is B.S. People that think that need to get over themselves. | |
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Spats said: Who said keeping quiet? If you want to do the "I am woman ,hear me roar" routine then have fun. But soft spoken, polite, feminine women are more attractive. Big mouth women are not.
And the whole thing about a man not being good enough for a women if he is not attracted to her for the way she is ,is B.S. People that think that need to get over themselves. Maybe "not good enough" isn't the best way to state it. How about "not the right match"? Maybe "not worth your time"? No point trying to go against who you are to please someone. Sure, we all have personality flaws here and there (though I must say assertiveness isn't a "flaw"), but I'd rather be with someone who accepts me for who I am, flaws and all, than with someone who constantly wishes I were different. And women can be polite and feminine without being soft-spoken. I know I can definitely "roar" politely. As for attractivity (if I can make that into a word), everyone's got their own idea of what they find attractive. One person's trash is another person's treasure. If you're not attracted to "big mouth" women, then great! Don't date one. It's that easy. |
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just because a woman is ascertive doesn't mean she's loud mouthed-i dont like a loud mouth either. i'm just saying as far as being clear and to the point about likes and dislikes. you can do that without unnecessaryly (sp) mouthing off. i can't stand a loud mouth man. thats when i get loud and i don't want to do that | |
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AsianBomb777 said: It's a big turn off to me that a woman is agressive. I like girls who have what I call "Sexual Tourette syndrome". That is, she's nice and sweet--almost innocent. But, all of a sudden, unprovoked, just like a nervous tic, she breaks out and does something just plain nasty. "sexual tourette syndrome" I love that.
I'm sexually pschysophrenic.  [Edited 3/28/05 9:39am] MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: AsianBomb777 said: It's a big turn off to me that a woman is agressive. I like girls who have what I call "Sexual Tourette syndrome". That is, she's nice and sweet--almost innocent. But, all of a sudden, unprovoked, just like a nervous tic, she breaks out and does something just plain nasty. "sexual tourette syndrome" I love that.
I'm sexually pschysophrenic.
[Edited 3/28/05 9:39am] sounds like she's just plain crazy | |
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There ya go. "Not the right match" is a lot better than "not good enough". | |
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Spats said: Who said keeping quiet? If you want to do the "I am woman ,hear me roar" routine then have fun. But soft spoken, polite, feminine women are more attractive.Big mouth women are not.
And the whole thing about a man not being good enough for a women if he is not attracted to her for the way she is ,is B.S. People that think that need to get over themselves. I'm glad the men (and gay women) I know don't think like you. afterthought edit: I'm curious, where do you draw the line between assertive and aggresive? I ask because to some people there's a BIG difference, but to others they're nearly the same thing. [Edited 3/28/05 20:34pm] "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Spats said: There ya go. "Not the right match" is a lot better than "not good enough".
I stand by what I said. Anyone who wants to change who you are to meet their standards is not good enough for you. A person that selfish doesn't deserve to clean up after your dog. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Is there such a thing as a non-aggressive woman?  When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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meow85 said: Fauxie said: Perfect!
There's some good responsibility dodging there. With this philosophy you can be all kinds of ways and any guy that is threatened or turned off is out the door! What if 'who you are' isn't good enough for them? The problem is that aggression in this vague sense that you've put forward is unhelpful and only aggressive, whereas a woman who speaks her mind fully and articulately as doctamario and orignmnd are alluding to is in my mind definitely a good thing. So for me an aggressive woman would be a turn-off. An assertive, articulate woman would be a turn-on. You know damn well what I meant. If who you are naturally turns off someone else they simply aren't good enough for you providing you don't have some serious character flaw, then you need to get your shit together. Didn't think I had to spell it out...
[Edited 3/28/05 4:51am] I understand what you mean. By 'spelling out' do you mean being articulate and succinct about the point you're making? I'm sorry I made you do that. | |
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Fauxie said: meow85 said: You know damn well what I meant. If who you are naturally turns off someone else they simply aren't good enough for you providing you don't have some serious character flaw, then you need to get your shit together. Didn't think I had to spell it out...
[Edited 3/28/05 4:51am] I understand what you mean. By 'spelling out' do you mean being articulate and succinct about the point you're making? I'm sorry I made you do that.
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Spats said: Who said keeping quiet? If you want to do the "I am woman ,hear me roar" routine then have fun. But soft spoken, polite, feminine women are more attractive. Big mouth women are not.
And the whole thing about a man not being good enough for a women if he is not attracted to her for the way she is ,is B.S. People that think that need to get over themselves. Sounds like someone had a "big mouth woman" they couldn't handle
j/k Like CarrieM said, everyone has a perference. Yours is pretty narrow though, I gotta say - how many demure chicks are there left in the world?
Assertive Women UNITE! 
. [Edited 3/28/05 22:32pm] I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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