independent and unofficial
Prince fan community
Welcome! Sign up or enter username and password to remember me
Forum jump
Forums > General Discussion > Newbies
« Previous topic  Next topic »
Page 2 of 4 <1234>
  New topic   Printable     (Log in to 'subscribe' to this topic)
Reply #30 posted 03/24/05 5:04pm

2the9s

JasmineFire said:

2the9s said:



Puhhlleeeaze!

love i love it when you tease! wink


booty!
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #31 posted 03/24/05 5:06pm

minneapolisgen
ius

avatar

2the9s said:

I agree MarieLouise, and it certainly should not be institutionally condoned. Like this at HouseQuake for example:

http://www.housequake.com...adid=37666

It's actually a sticky in their GD forum! That seems incredibly uninviting to me. It surprised me because I've always thought that HQ was in some ways a more inviting forum for new users. But I don't know it that well.

Of course this stuff goes on as part of any social dynamic and I don't know if it can be regulated, but I hardly see it as the sign of a healthy and growing community.

By the way, do you see that in this forum or PM&M?

Good thread.

hehehe....that video is funny. It's also a STICKY at another music site I frequent *coughzeppelinsiteofcoursecough* biggrin but mostly just as a funny thing. They also have a Newbie Forum there, which I think is great because people can come and ask questions about the band, that may be common knowledge to most, but not to people new to their music and the band members, etc. nod
"I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #32 posted 03/24/05 5:07pm

JasmineFire

2the9s said:

JasmineFire said:


love i love it when you tease! wink


booty!

shake
I'M BLIND! FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY! MAKE IT STOP!
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #33 posted 03/24/05 5:08pm

MarieLouise

avatar

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

2the9s said:



But my time around here and my thinking has led me to see this as a very average site that is supporting an extraordinary community.

As you know, it's not the "site" that keeps me around.

wink

same here...in fact i've never thought of this place as a website because of that very thing.


That's true. The feelings of friendship and community are rather big here. Which is of course a great thing. But it also adds to the fact that it's more intimidating for 'newbies' to start posting. I've been lurking around for two years, I just recently I've started to post some ideas and questions.

For those wondering, I haven't been bashed or attacked or something. Nor have I seen cruel examples recently. It's just a general thing I was wondering about, and I wanted to know your opinions. Because there is really this tendency, and yes, it's normal, and it occurs on every site I guess, but still... We can think about it, can't we?
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #34 posted 03/24/05 5:11pm

Anxiety

i like to think of the org as being like mel's diner. we got our regulars, and we also have people who are IRregulars and then there are the folks who are just passing through. everyone gets served out of the same coffee pot, as far as i'm concerned.










oh, and everyone can KISS MY GRITS! lol
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #35 posted 03/24/05 5:13pm

Handclapsfinga
snapz

JasmineFire said:

2the9s said:



booty!

shake
I'M BLIND! FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY! MAKE IT STOP!

THE BURNING! THE BURNINGGGGG!!!!! eek
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #36 posted 03/24/05 5:14pm

2the9s

MarieLouise said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:


same here...in fact i've never thought of this place as a website because of that very thing.


That's true. The feelings of friendship and community are rather big here. Which is of course a great thing. But it also adds to the fact that it's more intimidating for 'newbies' to start posting. I've been lurking around for two years, I just recently I've started to post some ideas and questions.

For those wondering, I haven't been bashed or attacked or something. Nor have I seen cruel examples recently. It's just a general thing I was wondering about, and I wanted to know your opinions. Because there is really this tendency, and yes, it's normal, and it occurs on every site I guess, but still... We can think about it, can't we?


This is a good point Marie. Because of my own history here I've been sort of steering this towards issues of site management, but "newbie bashing" is as much an issue for site members themselves as anyone.

And sometimes its just a matter of a shift in perception. It's easy to drop in a few comments that are easily recognizable by a few folks and not realize that this can also be offputting to people unfamiliar with the banter; not in an aggressive way, but it can still be offputting.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #37 posted 03/24/05 5:16pm

2the9s

  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #38 posted 03/24/05 5:18pm

2the9s

How can my above post have NO comment?

eek
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #39 posted 03/24/05 5:18pm

2the9s

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

JasmineFire said:


shake
I'M BLIND! FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY! MAKE IT STOP!

THE BURNING! THE BURNINGGGGG!!!!! eek


You know you both love it!

booty!
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #40 posted 03/24/05 5:18pm

MarieLouise

avatar

2the9s said:

MarieLouise said:



That's true. The feelings of friendship and community are rather big here. Which is of course a great thing. But it also adds to the fact that it's more intimidating for 'newbies' to start posting. I've been lurking around for two years, I just recently I've started to post some ideas and questions.

For those wondering, I haven't been bashed or attacked or something. Nor have I seen cruel examples recently. It's just a general thing I was wondering about, and I wanted to know your opinions. Because there is really this tendency, and yes, it's normal, and it occurs on every site I guess, but still... We can think about it, can't we?


This is a good point Marie. Because of my own history here I've been sort of steering this towards issues of site management, but "newbie bashing" is as much an issue for site members themselves as anyone.

And sometimes its just a matter of a shift in perception. It's easy to drop in a few comments that are easily recognizable by a few folks and not realize that this can also be offputting to people unfamiliar with the banter; not in an aggressive way, but it can still be offputting.


Uhm... Exactly !
You've got to admit I'm a quick learning newbie... lol
[Edited 3/24/05 9:55am]
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #41 posted 03/24/05 5:20pm

MarieLouise

avatar

2the9s said:

MarieLouise said:



That's true. The feelings of friendship and community are rather big here. Which is of course a great thing. But it also adds to the fact that it's more intimidating for 'newbies' to start posting. I've been lurking around for two years, I just recently I've started to post some ideas and questions.

For those wondering, I haven't been bashed or attacked or something. Nor have I seen cruel examples recently. It's just a general thing I was wondering about, and I wanted to know your opinions. Because there is really this tendency, and yes, it's normal, and it occurs on every site I guess, but still... We can think about it, can't we?


This is a good point Marie. Because of my own history here I've been sort of steering this towards issues of site management, but "newbie bashing" is as much an issue for site members themselves as anyone.


And sometimes its just a matter of a shift in perception. It's easy to drop in a few comments that are easily recognizable by a few folks and not realize that this can also be offputting to people unfamiliar with the banter; not in an aggressive way, but it can still be offputting.


And I meant...exactly lol

Can someone please explain me how to edit posts? confused I'm a newbie, sorry...
wink
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #42 posted 03/24/05 5:20pm

Handclapsfinga
snapz

2the9s said:

How can my above post have NO comment?

eek

because the site server hates your guts.

giggle
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #43 posted 03/24/05 5:21pm

2the9s

MarieLouise said:

2the9s said:



This is a good point Marie. Because of my own history here I've been sort of steering this towards issues of site management, but "newbie bashing" is as much an issue for site members themselves as anyone.


And sometimes its just a matter of a shift in perception. It's easy to drop in a few comments that are easily recognizable by a few folks and not realize that this can also be offputting to people unfamiliar with the banter; not in an aggressive way, but it can still be offputting.


And I meant...exactly lol

Can someone please explain me how to edit posts? confused I'm a newbie, sorry...
wink


http://www.prince.org/faq/

smile
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #44 posted 03/24/05 5:24pm

JasmineFire

MarieLouise said:

2the9s said:



This is a good point Marie. Because of my own history here I've been sort of steering this towards issues of site management, but "newbie bashing" is as much an issue for site members themselves as anyone.


And sometimes its just a matter of a shift in perception. It's easy to drop in a few comments that are easily recognizable by a few folks and not realize that this can also be offputting to people unfamiliar with the banter; not in an aggressive way, but it can still be offputting.


And I meant...exactly lol

Can someone please explain me how to edit posts? confused I'm a newbie, sorry...
wink

you hit the edit link that will only appear at the bottom of your posts.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #45 posted 03/24/05 5:26pm

p0pRocks

I still feel like a newbie with the abuse i get mad
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #46 posted 03/24/05 5:27pm

2the9s

p0pRocks said:

I still feel like a newbie with the abuse i get mad


Did I say you could post?
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #47 posted 03/24/05 5:37pm

p0pRocks

2the9s said:

p0pRocks said:

I still feel like a newbie with the abuse i get mad


Did I say you could post?


Did I say you could breath?
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #48 posted 03/24/05 6:26pm

IstenSzek

avatar

you're all a bunch of bitches here

the new ones and the old ones. if i

had enough orgnotes i'd give you

all a brick to the head

mad
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #49 posted 03/24/05 6:28pm

Mach

IstenSzek said:

you're all a bunch of bitches here

the new ones and the old ones. if i

had enough orgnotes i'd give you

all a brick to the head

mad


eek
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #50 posted 03/24/05 6:29pm

IstenSzek

avatar

Mach said:

IstenSzek said:

you're all a bunch of bitches here

the new ones and the old ones. if i

had enough orgnotes i'd give you

all a brick to the head

mad


eek



except for you. i like you

smile
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #51 posted 03/24/05 6:29pm

lollyp0p

IstenSzek said:

you're all a bunch of bitches here

the new ones and the old ones. if i

had enough orgnotes i'd give you

all a brick to the head

mad



woot!

hug

can i have the first brick please batting eyes
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #52 posted 03/24/05 6:48pm

fishbellyblack

what's a newbie biggrin
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #53 posted 03/24/05 6:53pm

heybaby

when i first came here, asianbomb was the only one would answer my silly questions lol
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #54 posted 03/24/05 7:06pm

emm

avatar

what would your definition of a newbie be???

to me it is someone new to the site shrug


however i had a new sign up go all postal on my ass because i said something like "because you're a newbie you won't be able to post your question for the first five days so you might want to try...."

and then they started insulting everyone in the chat. now that gets my back up... we were trying to be helpful
doveShe couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay dove
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #55 posted 03/24/05 7:39pm

Mach

2the9s said:

Mach said:



just food for thought ya know nod

we are all each others mirriors ( sp ? )

it may not all be about the reflection we see but the image behind, holding up the mirrior


eek


Okay, you went a little too far...

razz



eek my boyfriends always said i went alittle too far rolleyes
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #56 posted 03/24/05 7:40pm

Mach

IstenSzek said:

Mach said:



eek



except for you. i like you

smile


biggrin hug
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #57 posted 03/24/05 9:00pm

Rhondab

Well, its always some newbie that has something smart ass to say to me.


No offense to those sweet, wonderfully sexy newbies who understand their flyness will be appreciated by me. smile hug
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #58 posted 03/24/05 9:14pm

fishbellyblack

Rhondab said:

Well, its always some newbie that has something smart ass to say to me.


No offense to those sweet, wonderfully sexy newbies who understand their flyness will be appreciated by me. smile hug


razz
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #59 posted 03/24/05 9:39pm

IstenSzek

avatar

lollyp0p said:

IstenSzek said:

you're all a bunch of bitches here

the new ones and the old ones. if i

had enough orgnotes i'd give you

all a brick to the head

mad



woot!

hug

can i have the first brick please batting eyes



no!

only meanies get a brick

batting eyes
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Page 2 of 4 <1234>
  New topic   Printable     (Log in to 'subscribe' to this topic)
« Previous topic  Next topic »
Forums > General Discussion > Newbies