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Printablelollyp0p said: i often think people are messing with my mind
most of the time i am just thinking too much hoping for something that isn't there reading too much into things well you know my situation 
fuck the lot of them honey   | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: REDFEATHERS said:
Some people are clever and make out all is ok with them.. I think I have to go with my gut feeling on this one.. but what if its wrong?  Like I said, you don't get gut feelings for no reason. Perhaps you should take a little more time to focus and discerne exactly what is happening here but I still say to leave it alone if it's causing you pain and or confusion. Relationships should be natural and not so laborious. Supa is right.  And putting distance between you can give you more objectivity about it.VOTE....EARLY | |
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DiminutiveRocker said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Like I said, you don't get gut feelings for no reason. Perhaps you should take a little more time to focus and discerne exactly what is happening here but I still say to leave it alone if it's causing you pain and or confusion. Relationships should be natural and not so laborious. Supa is right. And putting distance between you can give you more objectivity about it.Exactly. I made this analogy in the domestic abuse thread: Being in my abusive relationship, my mind was full of confusion and chaos and I had no idea if I was coming or going. Once I left, my mind became clear. I had time to focus. I had the emotional energy to heal myself. I had the will to live and to believe in myself. I think of it this way: if you are up with your face right directly in front of the TV screen, it's nearly impossible to tell what is going on. Once you pull back and away from the screen you can clearly see the picture. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Listen to Supa, honey - he knows what he's talking about.
I agree with him wholeheartedly with everything he said. I've been in a sistuation similar to his. This person is probably evil, manipulative and mean - but he wants YOU to think YOU'RE crazy and you know you're not. Go with your gut. | |
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yeah supa is right. i've been there before and it doesn't do much for your self esteem. | |
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