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What are the best/worst things about YOU It's a hard question to answer, the question of your own personal worth. There are criteria to consider such as how well you interact with people, what you give to others and give to yourself, and how you rate your successes and failures in life.
Just today two people said I was one of the most intelligent people they know, so that got me thinking about how well I have done for myself up till now. Now I'm not trying to come off as "I love me, who do you love?", or self-absorbed, but sometimes it's important to recognise your strengths and weaknesses. So here are a few of mine, post yours if you like... Strengths: Do my best to be friendly to everyone I meet, especially to those who are close to me. I am good at intimacy and close relationships with people who are on a similar wavelength. Good musician. Dedicated worker (prodividing the job is worth doing). Dedicated to achieving goals in life while having reasonable expectations of what I can achieve. Have an "eccentric, witty" sense of humour (so I've been told) Weaknesses: Sometimes stubborn. Sometimes lacking confidence. Sometimes intolerant of others. Sometimes self-absorbed. Okay, your turn! . [Edited 3/15/05 19:20pm] | |
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No good things about me, only bad. The worst is that I'm an asshole. | |
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worst: im a pessimist. | |
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Best:
Incredibly loving Compassionate Dedicated/Ambitious Sensitive Understanding Worst: Sensitive Low self-esteem Insecure Painfully shy Jealous | |
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Strengths
Im the man I am great I am better than nearly everyone I meet I am a sexy beast Weaknesses Im TOO good Im TOO much better than nearly everyone I meet I am an assclown magnet People hate me cause Im beautiful.... clever clever quotation - attention getting quote - sad yet witty remark - look at me! Im deep quote- song lyric about my ex cause that bitch stole my mp3 player! - line from movie I liked - Prince lyric - not very clever sig mocking other sigs | |
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Sinister said: Strengths
Im the man I am great I am better than nearly everyone I meet I am a sexy beast Weaknesses Im TOO good Im TOO much better than nearly everyone I meet I am an assclown magnet People hate me cause Im beautiful.... LMAO sounds like something I would write | |
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i suck.
that could be a strength or a weakness, it's not for me to decide. | |
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Best:
Loveable Caring Passionate Sweet Flirty Joyful Good writer- as told. Worst: Lazy!! Moody I like to be left alone. Somewhat antisocial Sarcastic <<< I like to consider this one as one of my best qualities. I enjoy angering people. | |
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Best...
I'm friendly I'm honest I'm very loyal I'm a good listener I'm adaptable Worst... I'm impatient I'm impulsive I take things way too seriously sometimes and forget to have a laugh ...but by far the worst is that at times I can be very selfcentred | |
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Anxiety said: i suck.
that could be a strength or a weakness, it's not for me to decide. U cheeky chappie "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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worst: i'm messy, clumsy, naive, always late, and rushes into things,can get fiery angry, can say things without thinking.
best: very passionate(thus i rush into things), very generous,loving,kind,determined,independent,positive and intelligent. | |
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heybaby said: worst: i'm messy, clumsy, naive, always late, and rushes into things,can get fiery angry, can say things without thinking.
best: very passionate(thus i rush into things), very generous,loving,kind,determined,independent,positive and intelligent. Is it me or has your avvie picked up a tan? "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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Good:
Being honest. Bad: Being unfunny. Being unclever. Thinking I'm funny. Thinking I'm clever. Suck in bed. Can't do any one thing exceptionally. Being a hermit. being mean. | |
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senik said: heybaby said: worst: i'm messy, clumsy, naive, always late, and rushes into things,can get fiery angry, can say things without thinking.
best: very passionate(thus i rush into things), very generous,loving,kind,determined,independent,positive and intelligent. Is it me or has your avvie picked up a tan? yeah charlie's darker now | |
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Anxiety said: i suck.
that could be a strength or a weakness, it's not for me to decide. | |
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NoodleSoup said: Good:
Being honest. Bad: Being unfunny. Being unclever. Thinking I'm funny. Thinking I'm clever. Suck in bed. Can't do any one thing exceptionally. Being a hermit. being mean. I love you... clever clever quotation - attention getting quote - sad yet witty remark - look at me! Im deep quote- song lyric about my ex cause that bitch stole my mp3 player! - line from movie I liked - Prince lyric - not very clever sig mocking other sigs | |
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heybaby said: senik said: Is it me or has your avvie picked up a tan? yeah charlie's darker now Where did you send him on holiday? "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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senik said: heybaby said: yeah charlie's darker now Where did you send him on holiday? cancun | |
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Strengths:
Sensitive. My loving parents. My siblings. My late maternal grandmother. I love writing and the act of putting pen to paper. Knowledge of the world around me. Independent, college educated black male. Open-minded. Over-analytical. Optimistic. I have a strong sense of self -- ethnically, individually, academically, intellectually. Magazine model. I run, on average, 6.24 miles a day. Knowledge of my ancestors' struggle. I am a descendant of American slaves. Great love for family. I'm emotional. Non-violent. Won't let someone "run over me" or "violate me." When I know a situation or person is shitty, I will identify it and quickly remove myself from it. I can see the evil in certain people or things. Ambition -- When someone tells me "I can't do" something, I'll strive to make it a reality. Regardless of setbacks, I still manage to put priorities first and finish them through without giving up. I love dancing. Romantic. Weaknesses: Sensitive. Harsh words stick to me stronger than compliments. I don't have a strong sense of self -- emotionally and in matters of the heart. Defeatist attitude. I tend to dwell on past mistakes, regrets or missteps. Over-analytical. Uncontrollable bouts of crying. Insecure. Self-loathing. Low self-esteem. Negative self-image. Due to these things, I've started developing skin color issues in the last 18 months. Even though I know a situation or person can be potentially harmful, I'll rush into it knowing the ill consequences due to the aforementioned. Wow. These threads are very cleansing and theraputic. [Edited 3/16/05 0:34am] | |
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Sinister said: Strengths
Im the man I am great I am better than nearly everyone I meet I am a sexy beast Weaknesses Im TOO good Im TOO much better than nearly everyone I meet I am an assclown magnet People hate me cause Im beautiful.... You forgot the part about being a jackass. Now "Lick Me" | |
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heybaby said: senik said: Where did you send him on holiday? cancun Dirty lil Snoopy told me "He still has some white bits!" "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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best:
got plenty of love to give (limitless) quick wit memory my kids think I'm fun to be around smart good at speling worst: pedantic stresshead insomniac when I'm hungry I'm a real pain in the arse defer decisions to others so I don't get the blame for a bad idea | |
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animalistic said: No good things about me, only bad. The worst is that I'm an asshole.
Thats not the worst | |
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REDFEATHERS said: animalistic said: No good things about me, only bad. The worst is that I'm an asshole.
Thats not the worst Don't worry son , everyone has an asshole <--- for your bird..... from me "..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.." | |
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Wow! What an interesting topic! I guess I would have to rely on what alot of people have told me to accuratly represent myself So here it goes
Strengths Intelligent-People always tell me I don't give myself enough credit in that area. But I think I secretly know it I just don't want to come off arrogent. Funny-People tell me I am funny alot. Well the ones who get my sense of humor. Which is very bizzarre. In fact alot of people think my sense of humor is kinda werid and I get alot of blank looks when I tell something funny-which makes me laugh even harder. Poliet/Manners-I used to get teased for saying "Please" and "Thank you" and "Ma'am" and "Sir" When I was a kid. But all those who teased me were low class twits. I am still very poliet.Rude people get under my skin. Compassionate-I overheard my father talking to my boyfriend and he said "Krystal is the most compassionate person you will ever meet" Which shocked me because my father NEVER says anything like that about me. So it must be true. Weaknesses Spendaholic=I spend wayyyy too much money. I need to learn to budget and save. I have had that problem ever since my first job. I am hard to get to know-If people bore me I don't want to spend any time getting to know them. Which is kinda judgemental on my part. Everyone who became my friends later on always said "When I fist met you I though you were a snobby bitch that thought you were better than everyone eles" Which couldn't be farther than the truth. I am a sweetheart. I just don't like to waste enery making small talk with people I feel no connection to. I get depressed alot-Serious problem. I don't know why but I get so moody. I can be on top of the world one week and then the next I cry for no reason. It sux and I hate it. I am so moody, beyond moody actually I get sad for no reason. Anyway you sound cool=keep up the good work improving your strengths and working on your weaknesses. | |
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thescandalouslife said: Worst: Painfully shy Same here Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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animalistic said: No good things about me, only bad. The worst is that I'm an asshole.
that's why I kinda like you..... | |
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GOOD:
I can drink a lot I can be funny if I want to I take joy out of skiing I'm actually nice I'm a romantic BAD: sometimes I drink too much I have no real reason to be funny but myself I don't ski enough I never satisfied | |
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I have been doing so much of this style excercise over the last week and a bit....
best things empathetic compassionate good listener loving open minded friendly (honest) worst things Gullible Introspective easily distracted undesisive generally too soft | |
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I dont know. That's for other people to decide. | |
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