I never been in this situation before. I usually have people coming after me but now the shoes are on the other feet.We saw each other everyday for 2 and a haf years. How do you get over someone. Sould i wait hope and pray for once in my life, be depress and go in a recession, or should i find someone else? One thing i do know if there is another person, i will tell them i love them everyday and treat them like they are a queen. I will never do anything that caused me lover i thought for life. I just hope its the person i am still in love with who i can treat like a queen and tell them i love em everyday. I sound like a sick psycho puppy!

You don't. Truthfully.


You just learn to live AROUND it.

It's not easy

Some things in life you never get over, you just learn how to live with it. It takes time, a lot of time, but eventually you will because you have to.

animal said:

well said

jerseykrs said:

co-sign.

Picture her in the toilet. You know what I mean. It's a great healer.

Time heals all.

saintsation said:

Yes. Or be desireless.

Was it something you did to cause a break-up? If so, depending on the severity of what you may have done, you still might have a chance. When someone is hurt by someone they loved and trsuted, it takes time for them to be able to talk and think rationally or without getting enraged (well, some people, not all).

If there's no chance in getting back together, then time is your only answer. You'll probably go through a grieving process, and eventually it will get easier. I know it's easy for me to say, but time is really the main factor in getting over a lost love. Maybe you won't totally get over it and it may sting at odd times years down the road, but at least it won't be a deep depression.

It sounds like this happened pretty recently, so there may still be hope.

You move on and find someone else to love, and love you back.

Picture the muthafucka hugged up in the back of the club jerking off with some shirtless, 7-foot-tall black dude.

Also, picture the muthafucka not calling you for an entire week and then seeing his ass at the club looking for "new hotties."

That'll get 'cha over the person QUICKLY.

And, oh yeah, I disagree with that (you never get over someone) sentiment. "Love" can turn to hate/despise.

Oh yeah, here's how you can really get over "someone u still love..."

Learn to love yourself. Cause like RuPaul said, HOW IN THE HELL YOU GONNA LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE?! Peace.

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CarrieLee said:

REAL TALK, people.

Number23 said:

Grim!

Drugs, and lots of them.

Impressed said:

I agree with this also.....fucking gemini characteristics that I have.....

Cloudbuster said:

It was actually my old friend Big Keith who gave me this advice a long time ago. My take was the edit. What he actually said was 'Bill, joost picture the bitch wipin' the splashed diaoreah aff her flaps when she's oan the pan wi' a hangover.'
But I wouldn't write that because it's disgusting.
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Idon't know, but the following lyrics have some suggestions.

I don't want to get over you.
I guess I could take a sleeping pill and sleep at will
And not have to go through what I go through.
I guess I should take Prozac, right,
And just smile all night at somebody new,
Somebody not too bright but sweet
And kind who would try to get you off my mind.
I could leave this agony behind which is just what I'd do if I wanted to,
But I don't want to get over you cause
I don't want to get over love.
I could listen to my therapist, pretend you don't exist
And not have to dream of what I dream of;

I could listen to all my friends and go out again and pretend it's enough,
Or I could make a career of being blue
I could dress in black and read Camus,
Smoke clove cigarettes and drink vermouth like I was 17 that would be a scream
But I don't want to get over you.

Number23 said:

Crikey! That image is gonna haunt me for days!

Cloudbuster said:

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Damn I posted on this thread and it acted stupid with me I swaer this computer gettin on my last nerve

My personal tip

get busy.

Go to new places, meet new people, learn new skills.

sometimes you don't truely "get over it" but you learn to live without them.

learn your triggers, There are somethings i still avoid because i know these are the triggers to making me feel low again, so i'll avoid them until i feel a little stronger, maybe i'll never be able to deal with those things but knowing what they are can save alot of heart ache. Don't punish yourself by exposing yourself to the things ie, places,songs and people that make the pain worse.



it took me to go out and get tipsy to realise i spelt "new" knew edit
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Have Wild sex with someone hot as many times as you possibly can.

Treat them like a Queen? No woman is that special. treat a woman like a Queen and she'll walk all over you.

I put my love to a box and placed it to a corner of my mind. Sometimes I open it and watch the love inside it. It's hard but it hurts less.

Kayleigh said:

Spats said:

dat dere's foolish talk from you, bumhole that you be.

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Number23 said: