.. I most always turn them down?




Is anyone else like this?

IF you're a woman, then that's normal--women like doing that kind of thing.

If you're a man, you're gay.

AsianBoi777 said:

Ur standards are too high.

U want a looker not a lover?

thesexofit said:

Not really..

AsianBoi777 said:

Actually that's pretty accurate

REDFEATHERS said:

You're asking US why YOU'RE always turning these guys down?

Is it because they're always ugly? Or stupid?

Be glad you even get asked though, some of us don't get asked out on a date...ever.

Maybe you are too picky Red

At this point, I am just not ready to date!

what's a date?

Are you a girl or a guy?

I Don't agree that if a man turns down a women for a date then he's gay. Could just mean the girl is ugly. I've done it. I wish more women would make the first move. Particularly pretty ones. Show some guts. Stop leaving it up to the men all the time. Don't women want equality?

If you are turning everyone down it could be high standards or you are subconciously not ready to. Nothing wrong with having high standards. Don't go out with just anybody.

it's easy for you to turn down men, they've been trying to fuck you since you were 12

now guys have been trying to get back in since they came out

I don't think I've ever been asked out on a date.




Man, the org is bumming me out today! I gotta leave.

Slave2daGroove said:

That is awful and so not true..

Spats said:

Female.

Rhondab said:

Well I am kinda in the same scenario, I just dont go on them now, cos I bum the guys out..

REDFEATHERS said:

Awful and not true? Yeah and guys just want to be friends and have no other intentions

Sometimes the truth is ugly and from my experience this is the truth but I'm a guy, what do I know?

Slave2daGroove said:

Either we have crossed wires here, or you just have taken the wrong route

REDFEATHERS said:

Are you a career woman? Then you are afraid of men. You are afraid of being judged and silently think you are better.

How come whenever I ask you for an Orgnote I don't get one?

REDFEATHERS said:

Nevermind, Red, it doesn't matter, I wasn't trying to be offensive.

Just say "yes" once in a while, what do you care? You're successful and attractive, what do you have to lose?

HamsterHuey said:

I can be snobby..

REDFEATHERS said:

Haughty?

HamsterHuey said:

That's grossly unfair.
Maybe the guys that ask her just aren't her type.
Nothing wrong with that.

I used to go out with a guy just because:
1. I didn't have anything better to do.
2. It's lunch time and I got $1.37
3. I could always drop the 'let's just be friends line on him'.

But why waste his time and yours if you know he doesn't have what your looking for, and you're not going to give him what he's hoping for? (whatever that is, sex or a relationship).

REDFEATHERS said:

I definitely need to start doing that. I've dated some weirdos in the past. You never know how people are, but I have the tendency (don't know if it has to do with being a gay man or never having a boyfriend), to want love so badly that I'll rush into a situation without truly weighing the pros and cons and without actually knowing WHO the person is or what he's about.

This one guy asked me to be his boyfriend within 48 hours of meeting me and I said, "Yes" on the second time. LOL. I know it's stupid, but I wanted to be in love so badly. Guess what... the relationship lasted a total of, I think, about 4 or 5 days before he ended it saying that he "rushed into things" and that we should be "friends."

What a perfect match were we. I was a college graduate, he was an on-again, off-again student that barely had enough credits to make it to the second-term of his First Year. I had a rose and Dean & Deluca chocolates waiting for him once he got off the train on Valentine's Day, he just brought himself and an umbrella. I hate cigarette smoke, he was a smoker (plus he did pot and got into an argument with his friends in front of me about "his girls stealing his buds"). I lived in an apartment in the city, he lived with his parents in the suburbs (sneaking me in and out of his house). I wanted to go to art museums, he wanted to go clubbing. I wanted to take him out to dinner, he was too scared to be seen eating with another man. I later find that the guy spouts off racial epithets and looks at me, like, "What? What did I do?"

(A straight girl would kill for these kinds of affections -- matter of fact, someone truly in love with me, would.)

I remember he hadn't called me in a week. I went out to a club with my friends and his ass was there alone roaming the bar for future prospects.

HAHA. Man, I need to start CHOOSING more rationally.

It's weird. I wasn't really in love with him. I was in love with the idea of "being in love" and he just happened to be there.

I don't consider him my first boyfriend either because the love was never reciprocated.

It was shortly after that, that I tried to "rebound" and hooked-up with some anonymous, random guy from the internet... and contracted crabs (my first time ever getting an STD).

Damn.

I remember the doctor's words the next weekday at the STD clinic when I described how I got the STD and my personal background: "...I don't understand why you're doing all this. You're too smart for that."

Maybe, I just need to love myself more.

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littlemissg said:[quote]Maybe guys just aren't her type./quote]



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