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Reply #180 posted 03/11/05 6:43pm

SammiJ

jw1914 said:

SammiJ said:


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If you are so bored or annoyed by this thread, then why do you keep coming back and repling? Could it be the emotional side of you that just can't let it go, in other words, got to have the last say. I can see that that nuke button would have been pushed a long time ago with you at the helm.
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if you're trying to insult me, you've failed.
you're a sexist homophobe who feels the need to provoke people and see it all as if we're in the wrong.
fuck you.
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Reply #181 posted 03/11/05 6:47pm

TheOrgerFormer
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SammiJ said:

jw1914 said:



If you are so bored or annoyed by this thread, then why do you keep coming back and repling? Could it be the emotional side of you that just can't let it go, in other words, got to have the last say. I can see that that nuke button would have been pushed a long time ago with you at the helm.
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if you're trying to insult me, you've failed.
you're a sexist homophobe who feels the need to provoke people and see it all as if we're in the wrong.
fuck you.
You soooo rawk!!! hug
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Reply #182 posted 03/11/05 6:52pm

SammiJ

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SammiJ said:


if you're trying to insult me, you've failed.
you're a sexist homophobe who feels the need to provoke people and see it all as if we're in the wrong.
fuck you.
You soooo rawk!!! hug

*takes bow*
thank u, it needed 2 b said...dude was tripping over his own damn ego
can we end this now please?!



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Reply #183 posted 03/11/05 7:00pm

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please no...don't close...great thread
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Reply #184 posted 03/11/05 7:43pm

tackam

jw1914 said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


you really only started appologizing after she posted her comment.


My suggestion to review all my comments were not to look for apologies in my comments but to see my views on the subject that she obviously missed by her comments. Emotions running high can also cloud vision as well.


I read the whole thing, and the only emotions I really feel are amusement and appreciation of my fellow orgers and pity for you. comfort


Oh, and I'm a queer too. I fuck men AND women! Geezus. . .what am I supposed to do when I'm a relationship with a woman. . .who will lead. . . hmmm . . .if I'm the one who wears the strapon most of the time, do I get to make the decisions? What if we trade off equally? What if our dildos aren't actually shaped like cocks, do they still determine our leadership capability? And how will we navigate the swamp of female emotion and actually accomplish anything in life? lol rainbow
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Reply #185 posted 03/11/05 7:46pm

SammiJ

tackam said:

jw1914 said:



My suggestion to review all my comments were not to look for apologies in my comments but to see my views on the subject that she obviously missed by her comments. Emotions running high can also cloud vision as well.


I read the whole thing, and the only emotions I really feel are amusement and appreciation of my fellow orgers and pity for you. comfort


Oh, and I'm a queer too. I fuck men AND women! Geezus. . .what am I supposed to do when I'm a relationship with a woman. . .who will lead. . . hmmm . . .if I'm the one who wears the strapon most of the time, do I get to make the decisions? What if we trade off equally? What if our dildos aren't actually shaped like cocks, do they still determine our leadership capability? And how will we navigate the swamp of female emotion and actually accomplish anything in life? lol rainbow

falloff righteous!
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Reply #186 posted 03/11/05 7:47pm

TheOrgerFormer
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tackam said:

jw1914 said:



My suggestion to review all my comments were not to look for apologies in my comments but to see my views on the subject that she obviously missed by her comments. Emotions running high can also cloud vision as well.


I read the whole thing, and the only emotions I really feel are amusement and appreciation of my fellow orgers and pity for you. comfort


Oh, and I'm a queer too. I fuck men AND women! Geezus. . .what am I supposed to do when I'm a relationship with a woman. . .who will lead. . . hmmm . . .if I'm the one who wears the strapon most of the time, do I get to make the decisions? What if we trade off equally? What if our dildos aren't actually shaped like cocks, do they still determine our leadership capability? And how will we navigate the swamp of female emotion and actually accomplish anything in life? lol rainbow
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Reply #187 posted 03/12/05 4:28pm

jw1914

It is certainly clear to me now why some of you take offense to this thread. Some of you have no idea as to who you are. "Am I man? , am I women?" With questions like that running around in your head, there no wonder why you could not understand my comments.Discussions on relationships between men and women, one would find hard to relate to if one did not know which role they themselves fit into.
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Reply #188 posted 03/12/05 4:35pm

SammiJ

jw1914 said:

It is certainly clear to me now why some of you take offense to this thread. Some of you have no idea as to who you are. "Am I man? , am I women?" With questions like that running around in your head, there no wonder why you could not understand my comments.Discussions on relationships between men and women, one would find hard to relate to if one did not know which role they themselves fit into.

wacky you're an ass, ok?
i dont fit in2 any role but human...and i happen 2 have a vagina - which would make me a woman...other than that i follow no other role path than the one i make myself.
and do keep in mind....you're on Prince.Org... "i'm not a woman, i'm not a man, i am something that you'll never understand"-don't make me give u a lesson now.
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Reply #189 posted 03/12/05 4:43pm

TheOrgerFormer
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jw1914 said:

It is certainly clear to me now why some of you take offense to this thread. Some of you have no idea as to who you are. "Am I man? , am I women?" With questions like that running around in your head, there no wonder why you could not understand my comments.Discussions on relationships between men and women, one would find hard to relate to if one did not know which role they themselves fit into.
I couldn't really care less if you are a man or a woman. Doesn't make what you said any less stupid either way.
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Reply #190 posted 03/12/05 4:54pm

jw1914

SammiJ, why does the thought of being classified into role/group disturb you so much? Does it somehow make you feel that your freedom is limited. Does it make you feel that your personality now has boundary lines? Restrictions from total freedom is what keeps us humans living.Just try and disobey the laws of gravity and the point will be made for you. Animals have no problem accepting this fact, why do some persons that belong to the species that have the capability to reason (humans) have a problem with this fact?
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Reply #191 posted 03/12/05 4:58pm

jw1914

This thread has certainly taken a turn for the worst, so I'll be the wiser one to end it. Later folks.
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Reply #192 posted 03/12/05 5:02pm

Fauxie

Is this thread gay? confuse
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Reply #193 posted 03/12/05 5:03pm

Fauxie

Now that everyone's gone home I'm going to jump up and down on this thread like it's a bouncy castle! nutty
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Reply #194 posted 03/12/05 5:05pm

SammiJ

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Is this thread gay? confuse

i dont think it knows, and therefore it can't fit in2 a specific role because it doesn't know if its man or woman... eek

hell i'll join in on the jumping nutty
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Reply #195 posted 03/12/05 5:07pm

Fauxie

SammiJ said:

Fauxie said:

Is this thread gay? confuse

i dont think it knows, and therefore it can't fit in2 a specific role because it doesn't know if its man or woman... eek

hell i'll join in on the jumping nutty



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Reply #196 posted 03/12/05 7:55pm

June19

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1. Men cheated on their mates back then like they cheat now. Only difference is that now men leave their mates...back then society would look down on men for doing that...don't get it twisted...


2. The women's liberation movement has NOTHING to do with why men cheat on women or vice versus. If it weren't for women's lib many of us probably would be out in the fields some where, we probably wouldnt even be allowed to use a computer....

3. In the 1950's they also hung folks from trees and openly beat women. It took couragous individuals to fight so that the greater society could live with a better understanding of each other and to love each other.

And finally 4...


I aint naming no names...but 2 a certain posting person here? I hope u don't have any boys for kids in the future, cuz if you do, he is gonna get his ass kicked by a strong independent socially aware lil girl....thats not going 2 tolerate being under someone's "control or leadership" its 2005 even Beaver Clever got divorced when he grew up.... neutral
June 19's Pop Culture Commentary - Beyonce'
- "Besides as much as I love her...she's still a 2 piece, biscuit, hot pepper and strawberry soda away from blowin up... So yes...she's a plain jane like the rest of us..."
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Reply #197 posted 03/12/05 8:25pm

CptMorgan

jw1914 said:

Just judging from the promo commercials, I always view Oprah daytime show as a "men bashing" show. Today I was home and working on my computer and Oprah was on the tv, now I truly convinced that it is a "men bashing" show. Most men don't cheat with men, they have affairs with other women. When a man seeks the attention of another woman, 9 out 10 situations there exist a problem in the relationship. Not trying to be Dr. Phil here but women need to understand men. Somehow women use sex to attract men into marring them and then they don't want have sex after the wedding day,["I got him now"] then they want to cry the victum when their "sex starved" husbands satifies himself elsewhere. What to you think women?


I came in on the end of this but I would say that if your wife is not wanting sex. You should probably need to check yourself. You need to start doing the things you did to get her attention in the first place. This problem usually stems from a man taking his wife for granted. IMHO.
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Reply #198 posted 03/12/05 9:45pm

tackam

Don't know who I am? Why, sure I do! I'm a better man than you are and a better woman than you deserve.

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Reply #199 posted 03/12/05 11:37pm

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AsianBoi777 said:

jw1914 said:



Being a man has nothing to do with being an adult male. Being a real man implies taking on the responsible role as taking the lead, setting the example for the family. If a husband has allowed his wife to be in position of "doing everything" then is he truly being a man?



patriarchal benevolance. disbelief

I'm a man. I like being a man. I'm proud of being a man.
But I have more than a thousand times in my life, would've preferred
my mom being the "head" of the house.

Is this a failing with my father? Yes. But its oh so common.
Men are more flawed then women morally, me thinks. We've had 3 million years
to get the traditional family right, and it ain't looking so hot--it's about time we let nontraditional family show us a thing or two.


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AMEN!
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Reply #200 posted 03/13/05 8:25am

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CoJones said:

Sweeny79 said:




omfg It's a partnership there should be no "head". disbelief


I agree that it's a partnership, but "no head" well that's just mean.


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Reply #201 posted 03/13/05 9:30am

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jw1914 said:

AnotherLoverToo said:



Ok, so let's go over this again.

The title of your thread is: "Oprah's Men Bashing". I asked you to give me examples of how she man-bashed on that show. You aren't. You're saying that because the "root problem" (in YOUR opinion, it's WOMEN who force men into it) of why men cheat wasn't addressed, that means Oprah man bashed. Is this correct?

I also asked you why studies of men and infidelity show that women withholding sex is not the reason for cheating. You didn't answer that.

And remember, this topic isn't about homosexuality. Please try not to let your disgust (a strong emotion) blind you to what the real issues are, here.

hug



See again read all the replies. Men who cheat are men having sex outside the marriage. Withholding sex from your partner can lead to infidelity. But the root of the problem is before the withholding of sex. Remember I stressed lack of communication. This problem exist way before the infidelity. What has broken down the couple's communication? What has caused the wife to not want to engage in sex anymore? These were issues not addressed on Oprah's show.



Ya have to dig deep down why a woman is withholding sex..... obviously there may be a problem with the relationship itself. My 2 cents.

This oprah topic has really gotten sidetracked.....
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Reply #202 posted 03/13/05 9:36am

JasmineFire

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Ok I'm confused.... What woman only wants to have sex twice a month? I need sex like food and water too. I thought that was a human thing not a man/ woman thing. confuse

that's what i'm saying! twice a month! que barbarity!
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