Just judging from the promo commercials, I always view Oprah daytime show as a "men bashing" show. Today I was home and working on my computer and Oprah was on the tv, now I truly convinced that it is a "men bashing" show. Most men don't cheat with men, they have affairs with other women. When a man seeks the attention of another woman, 9 out 10 situations there exist a problem in the relationship. Not trying to be Dr. Phil here but women need to understand men. Somehow women use sex to attract men into marring them and then they don't want have sex after the wedding day,["I got him now"] then they want to cry the victum when their "sex starved" husbands satifies himself elsewhere. What to you think women?

Better question:

Why is it that every strong powerful woman must be viewed as a "man basher"?

Sweeny79 said:

Yeah! And why do some people hate Oprah so much? She's worked her ass off to get to where she is. Women should be very proud of her accomplishments instead of putting her down or making fun of her.

jw1914 said:

And men need to understand women.

On the issue of withholding sex, I don't agree with that. Men shouldn't be unfairly expecting their wives to be at their beck and call, but at the same time women, men need sex more than twice a month and if you don't face that reality there are likely to be consequences.

Somehow women use sex to attract men into marring them and then they don't want have sex after the wedding day,["I got him now"] then they want to cry the victum when their "sex starved" husbands satifies himself elsewhere. What to you think women?


This is so passe'!

I never knew a woman who used sex to attract a man into marriage..

The couple married because they found common ground. Love, respect, communication, love, sex.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

In most cases sex really isn't the issue. A lot of times men who are in a relationship are attracted to other women and their primary goal is not to have sex with them. They like the attention, they like the fact that this other person is showing appreciation for whatever they do.
Edit: typo
[Edited 3/10/05 13:48pm]

animal said:

I couldn't agree more! It's not about sex it's about feeling validated.

Sweeny79 said:

Sometimes the motivation for women to suceed in a "man dominating" world would be to degrade men so as to elevate themselves. Oprah is a "wealthy" woman who has a tv show thus allowing her opinion to be heard nationwide. Not all powerful women are men bashers. My mother was a powerful woman but she never overstep my dad's authority as head of the house. Men don't cheat just to cheat. There is a problem to face.

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jw1914 said:

It's a partnership there should be no "head".

what the fuck ever happened to marrying for love?
fuck, im never getting married now if thats what guys think about us....

SammiJ said:

I know what you mean hon.

Sweeny79 said:

EXACTLY.

Sweeny79 said:

In every sucessful team effort there has to be recongition of authority. That is necessary because of all the different opinions that will be voiced. That is why there is a person appointed as a judge in court cases who sees to it that thing stay orderly.A good "head of household" will take into consideration the views of his/her wmate and all members of the household. Seeing this the members of the household will trust his/her decisions to be to the good of the team[marriage,family].
[Edited 3/10/05 14:00pm]

jw1914 said:

if you say so

jw1914 said:

where do you come from?
prince...is that you?

jw1914 said:

My ex has always been the head of the household, but that doesn't mean I didn't have a veto.

SammiJ said:

SammiJ said:

No, it's Larry.

animal said:

Sweeny79 said:

co-sign! HAHAHAHHA


wow that was righteous

jw1914 said:

Whatever dude. Men aren't the end all be all decision makers. Women deserve every part of the process and shouldn't be delegated as having to fill a role to trust that her husband will make the right decisions. This is not solely a man's responsibility, it's a couple's responsibility and any man that balks at that is weak.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I love ya Supa

Show me a cheating husband and I will show you a sex deprived husband who is having a difficult time talking with his wife.

If you think Oprah is bad, try watching Lifetime...

jw1914 said:

This is the last time we gonna tell u....

Cheating is about MORE THAN SEX.

jw1914 said:

you got some serious issues.
lay off the jesus juice...please.

jw1914 said:

Show me a cheating husband and I'll show you a sex addict who couldn't keep his dick in his pants if you stapled his dick to his balls. It goes both ways. Men have serious problems

The problem many women have with their partners is that their partners only care about themselves. It would help men to be more open and understanding of where their women are coming from. Most guys want to ram it in thinking that because they can get their rocks off in 2 seconds that a woman should be fine with that. Women are different than men and men need to realize that.

That said, women need to understand that men need sex like they need to eat and drink. I know, I gotta dick. It's all about being connected to your partner and any woman who has sex like a fiend before the marriage and then puts her husband on a twice a month regimine should look in the mirror when her husband goes out looking for what he used to have.

Ok I'm confused.... What woman only wants to have sex twice a month? I need sex like food and water too. I thought that was a human thing not a man/ woman thing.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

@ least u show both sides
the two month thing...well...im still a virgin so i dont know how sexlives really work, but im prett sure (cuz i am horny very often) id want it more than that, even after im married lol