Well..i've been trying to buy a house for a few months now and today it hit me that it's not going to happen.
it's actually soooo frustrating - the banks and the ppl in charge really don't make it easy for you. they really don't.
to be honest i was doing this for my folks who don't own a house and i wanted them to be able to live comfortably when they retire - now i'm worried that that won't happen.
there still is a chance but it's a slim chance. i do have approval for a loan from the bank but i have find $300,000 from somewhere.

Milty said:

Wanting to do that for your parents is really nice Milty.

Milty said:

~Hugs. Never say never...

Freespirit said:

ditto...

Milty said:

stay positive man!


remember you're intentions are good and you mean well! keep trying!
If you lived in Cali I could've helped you!!! I manage a loan/mortgage office!

PEJ said:

thanks ppl, it frustrating as hell but suppose if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

Milty said:

with in you milty

a million rivers flow

Wish I could help you with that. But all I can afford right now is probably a paper house. a recycled paper house.
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Heavenly said:

hah
well at least it is recycled.

Milty said:

Well yeah. I still care for the enviroment

Heavenly said:

as we all should.

try a house here hun... they go for a lot cheaper.

it's not bermuda but...

It is very sweet of you to want to do this for your parents
Hopefully you can do it...if not now...at some point in the near future

I know How U feel.


My dad left my mom a comfortable life, but I want to do more for her.


Very stressful.

that sucks man I thought I was going to get out of my friends place twice and the places fell though.
Lucky I moved this week I hope things look up for you.

Milty said:

u have to find 300,000? eye don't understand. The same thing happened 2 my sister a few months ago, she wanted 2 buy my mom a house the banks pre-approved her and then she found the perfect house and the bank ended up saying no... eye feel 4 ya. Maybe u can get ur parents a condo or something. It's actually better eye think. Houses have high taxes and maintenance fees etc etc that r ridiculous..... Paying an association at a nice condo place don't sound that bad

Keep ya head up....


I've been unemployed for a year, my momma died last year, I've had to fight my brother over my momma's house and i'm probably going to be evicted in the next month BUT with everyday I'm alive, there is hope.


Stay hopeful.

Rhondab said:

there is always hope it's the only thing that keeps us here.

Didn't you just have a great date Milty? That should cheer you up man!

Are you coming to Miami or what?

Milty said:

if it was meant to be ...it WILL be

good luck