have you ever trusted someone but they prove themselves as not trustworthy








have you ever had a friend who refuses to face problems and work out differences that you both share?







if your ex-friend died tomorrow would you miss them more because they are gone for good or would miss them as much as you do now?







would you go to the funeral?

I have and no comment on the rest of the questions

what's a best friend?

AB and I have never been friends.

irresistibleb1tch said:

I guess sometimes this is not possible for whatever reason, sometimes you just grow estranged from another.....I know it happened to me on one occasion. Life goes on, we all have to live for tomorrow!

I am MY OWN WORST ENEMY

I have had people I thought were my best friends turn on me for some reason. I'd never allow them to be my worst enemy. I have too much respect for myself.

jerseykrs said:

I haven't been getting along with myself for quite sometime now.

There's a fine line between love and hate.

Yea-- my ex.
One of the bestest friends.
Mad because i said remaining friends after we were together wouldn't happen, he started to date a mutual friend of ours who doesn't know we were dealing.

She wonders y I dont talk to her.
I wonder y he dont tell her.

Very awkward--
cause i was the last to know.

He was stalking me at some birthday party a couple weeks ago. I refused to talk to him.
He proceeds to step all over my feet in the party...I still refused contact after his drama.
He got drunk and made out with her in front of me.
He then threw up.


I now hate him.

Best friend turned into my worst enemy.
The end

cinnamonjo said:

yeah....the everlasting ex.....I guess I'm her worst enemy, she's not mine, though.....

Her name was Angie.

In 1995, she turned against me because I suddenly got too popular in this clique that we were both members of. So she said a terrible lie about me and got two of her friends to beat the shit out of me.

I still have the scar on my eyebrow...10 years later...and I STILL hate her.

Case said:

I hate her too! This is what I'd do to her if I ever saw her!

applekisses said:

C'mere, you....

Thanks for always having my back like scoliosis...

jerseykrs said:

phew at least it wasnt me this time

My best friend of 15 years is now just a part of my past. I cant say she is my worst enemy, but i can say that our relationship was very rocky.....I wish her luck and happiness.....

Mentally unstable bi girls who fall in love with their best friend who is gay is never a good combination. Likewise when they sleep with their best friend's boyfriend.

jerseykrs said:

That means....you sleep with the enemy

irresistibleb1tch said:

I think I know who you mean and I think one of them cares more than the other...so sad but true

It happened to me a few months ago. Very close friends for 9 years until I got involved with her brother. At first I was hesitant because of my friendship with her so I told him no. Then she started to push me into to it, saying it would make her so happy for her brother and best friend to be together.

Then she got jealous.

She made up stories about me and him and told everyone and just turned into a bitch about it. I ended up getting my ass beat by a pretty big guy. I ended up losing another good friend over it too! I never thought she would do something like that but now that I know, I'm glad she's out of my life! She's called so many times to apologize but I would never be friends with her again!

No, that's never happened to me. All my friends are wonderful people who I'm grateful to have in my life.

The only experience I've had which comes close is a friend of mine who was on drugs. I tried to help him give it up but, to be honest, I think I was naive to think I could really help.

Anyhow, the last time I saw him, I was angry with him and told him to get out of my house. It's the only time I've ever said that to anyone. Within a few months, he was dead. I still don't know what happened, other than he was in hospital suffering from a drug-induced psychosis and then was hit by a train after he was released.

I wish I'd helped more. I wish I'd been more understanding of his problems. Most of all, I wish I hadn't told him to get out of my house that last time I saw him.

His mum called me, asking me to help him and I didn't; I wish I had.

So, for what it's worth, I would ask that you judge your friends kindly - even those who do you wrong. People have reasons for their behaviour and it's rarely a clear-cut case of good versus evil. It takes two to tango.

I've had many friends but there was one who I had known for over one decade and we always got along until more recent times a few problems occured and we were done....

EverSoLesa said:

you are such a cheeseball

bluesbaby said:

orgasmatron said:

i figured you might know who i was referring to...

sounds like the other person needs some more time, since they have distanced themselves from other contacts as well. still, this was too important a relationship to just drop like a hot potato.

both of them know where to find me, if they want to talk...

Reincarnate said:

i'm sorry you had to experience this.

Fauxie said:

irresistibleb1tch said:

unfortunately that may never happen

EverSoLesa said:

lesa your signature is so true!!!