Zou ik denk ik ook hebben

Komt omdat je weer een jaartje ouder bent! haha
Ga je steeds meer over het leven nadenken...

there is an old saying it goes something to this effect:
"some people are in your life for a reason, a season, a lifetime"

its hard cutting people out of your life but maybe just say it as a "see ya later" effect, cause you never know if they are going to re appear at a later time and if they do it maybe for a reason or lesson or just a pop in.
I have had this happen when old friends disappeared and then reappeared later down the track and things change and its like getting new friends in the circle again.
Good Luck hope all goes well, don't forget sometimes its "out with the old, in with the new"
Life Can Be So Nice.....

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Some people, like you it seems, look at their lives as if it were a train. People might get on and off but the train is locked onto its own track and heading in its own direction no matter what the passengers say or do. It's enjoyable to have them on board, sure, but the train keeps its course.

Train people are proud to stay on track. If they would change direction they would feel either hijacked or derailed.

Other people, like me, see their lives more as if it were a hippie mini-van. If you happen to meet a nice dude or chick on the way, they might join you on your way to whatever your destination might be for the moment. But you might as well drive off to see their grandma's for a while and then maybe take off for the coast to smoke some pot and...okay this metaphor is getting a bit strained now.

Anyway, there seem to be way more train people out there than hippie mini-van people. This fact has created a lot of grief in my life. And confusion. At least you can be happy to be part of the majority.

You'll probably feel that I'm drawing way too many conclusions from your post and that I, indeed, is off track. Maybe you're right. But your post stirred up a lot of frustrating memories. Not of being cut off, but of feeling like I'm the only one who doesn't feel like I'm "betraying my own cause" if I from time to time become a part of other people's lives instead of making/letting them be part of mine.

Speaking of life being to short I have to say this.....You never know what tomorrow will bring. You could end up sick and there maybe no tomorrow. So I say...Live everyday like it's your last and don't let negativity into your heart... Love people for who they are not what they portray they are....Believe everyone is good even when they have hurt you and know that only God can judge people for their actions....BUT that is just my

catharsis said:

you're right you're making some conclusions in wich i don't recognize myself but that's ok
We also have an old saying here and freely translated it's :
Live and Let other's live (oh dear it sounds really shitty in english
)

But I understand what you're saying I've never been a person that fitted in popular groups or something but as HowComeYou said, you're getting older and realize that life is really too short to be used and manipulated.
I'm not bitter just realistic

ok enough serious talk now, let's party
My holiday started

thx for your respons

EverSoLesa said:

I hear you and experienced the 'there will be no tmrw'

So....party ppl like it's 1999

AndGodCreatedMe said:

damnedifido05 said:

Sad as it is, there are times where you have to decide whether friendships are finally over. There was a period of years where I would drift through groups of friends and move on to new groups every year or so as I outgrew them. I sort of assumed that would happen all of my life and to an extent it still happens to some extent, but I've now settled in to a group of firends that I think will be around for a good long time now. At least most of them. But some I have just sorta changed the degree of friendship. People I was once close to, I realize aren't good for me in that capacity, but I can keep liking them (and keep them from hurting me) if I keep it on a real casual, mostly social basis. Then there are those you must cut out completely. It happens.

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Dish out as many of these as possible --->

They feel great let me tell ya

Making new friends is hard, realize that. U can get rid of them bij simply not anwsering their calls, and by not attending at their party's.

That's what i do.

I feel populair now!

dawn74 said:

But you are popular I never was, and believe me, I don't want to be popular
It's just nice to know who you're friends are, that's all

I'm lucky in this respect. I have no friends!

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

I agree!

The simple jist of it is, the true friends will always remain with you I think. They love you as much as you love them.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

True but you would be suprised if you could take a look in their brains sometimes they really are just your friend as long as you give and you don't feel the need to receive anything


Oh dear, do I sound bitter? I'm not

Tyson said:

I know what you mean Tyson. But a bit of respect is all you ask for.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

you touched my soul now

ok seriously now, you're right!

who would have thought that? I'm starting to like you

Tyson said:

Don't believe what people think I am.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I'll never go on hearsay

But you really are nice

Is this thread about me?

althom said:

Yes dammit! it's always abt you

Tyson said:

Amazing what the smallest of things can put the biggest of smiles on your face. Thankyou so much. I won't forget what you've said on this thread.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Still it feels silly posting as a male

Tyson said:

althom said:

don't be sad I meant it in a positive way

AndGodCreatedMe said:

I hear you loud and clear. The fact that it still hurts you might mean that you are not heartless! that's a good thing!

PEJ said:

Thx

hello