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Life's too short... to live it just for you
I just heared this song from Nelly Fortado (Powerless) and I really need to cut off some ppl in my life It's painfull but it's necessarily Tips? Anyone? Powerless edit [Edited 2/25/05 0:50am] | |
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I'm sorry to hear that sweetie...hope you're ok | |
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Why ? | |
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AndGodCreatedMe said: to live it just for you
I just heared this song from Nelly Fortado and I really need to cut off some ppl in my life It's painfull but it's necessarily Tips? Anyone? I usually stop contacting the person(s) involved and eventually they don't contact me either. It's like a friend test and they end up failing if they don't take any first steps to get in contact with me. | |
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Nothing serious ppl I'm ok Natisse...it's just that sometimes you have to cut off some ppl to be a little more happy in life
It still hurts though | |
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But why ? | |
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Dewrede said: But why ?
She's not answering you. You must be one of them. | |
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Dewrede said: But why ?
I'm talking abt so called 'friends'. Some ppl just use you if you know what i mean and it takes a while before you realize that, that's all, no drama, happens all the time | |
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MrJoker said: Dewrede said: But why ?
She's not answering you. You must be one of them. he's not | |
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OK | |
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AndGodCreatedMe said: Nothing serious ppl I'm ok Natisse...it's just that sometimes you have to cut off some ppl to be a little more happy in life
It still hurts though I understand | |
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Dewrede said: OK
just an ok huh? | |
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No , i was replying to your previous post ! [Edited 2/24/05 23:27pm] | |
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In a time of my life... I had to do just that, difficult... yes and it brought a huge sense of guilt... for many, many years.
Now... well, I still live the same way (seperated from much of my family)... although I have peace among all, they live their life the same and I live mine in all ways they are not. Sometimes you can reunite... and other times you find closure in the ways you see fit... and continue down the very path you are on. We are in control of our own journey... and others, well... it's the journey they have chosen, most importantly... don't let them take you on their ride. Pure awareness is the most difficult part of life. | |
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AndGodCreatedMe said: to live it just for you
I just heared this song from Nelly Fortado and I really need to cut off some ppl in my life It's painfull but it's necessarily Tips? Anyone? Its so true, I have been in ur situation b4 , and I found it really hard,and frustrating. I was always the 1 to be there for them, and listened to them and helped them any which way I could if it would make them happy,Id of gone to the end of the earth for them, and it took a while to realise but when it came to me needing them , for a shoulder to cry on or just a listening ear, and an understanding nod , where the hell were they ..anyway. I did it, I cut them off, sigh: and it wasnt easy, I felt very mean, but soon after I felt stronger about myself, and thought Id never have close friends again, but an old, old friend appeared, whom I had never been as close to as I am now, and my life couldnt be better, So be strong, get rid of the dead wood in your life, and someday some 1 who truely cares, and reciprocates ur love and appreciates ur being will one day make it to u Pardon me for living', but this is my world too! | |
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be careful not to burn too many bridges. i've found it's often the case that you shouldn't take it personally if people don't always contact you....people just get busy - it doesn't always mean they don't care. | |
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mrdespues said: be careful not to burn too many bridges. i've found it's often the case that you shouldn't take it personally if people don't always contact you....people just get busy - it doesn't always mean they don't care.
Yep, like some people that are in bed with heavy flu and forget all about your b-day Sorry!! | |
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Whateva said: mrdespues said: be careful not to burn too many bridges. i've found it's often the case that you shouldn't take it personally if people don't always contact you....people just get busy - it doesn't always mean they don't care.
Yep, like some people that are in bed with heavy flu and forget all about your b-day Sorry!! awww I'm sorry Don't worry abt my b-day, hope you get well soon At least you give me a respons now unlike some others who i now oficilly hate, Ben | |
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luv4u said: Cut out any negative people, trouble makers
that's exactly what I'm gonna do, starting today | |
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Freespirit said: In a time of my life... I had to do just that, difficult... yes and it brought a huge sense of guilt... for many, many years.
Now... well, I still live the same way (seperated from much of my family)... although I have peace among all, they live their life the same and I live mine in all ways they are not. Sometimes you can reunite... and other times you find closure in the ways you see fit... and continue down the very path you are on. We are in control of our own journey... and others, well... it's the journey they have chosen, most importantly... don't let them take you on their ride. Pure awareness is the most difficult part of life. The guilt that's another issue Some ppl do mean well but they're just not good for you in your life right now. | |
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damnedifido05 said: AndGodCreatedMe said: to live it just for you
I just heared this song from Nelly Fortado and I really need to cut off some ppl in my life It's painfull but it's necessarily Tips? Anyone? Its so true, I have been in ur situation b4 , and I found it really hard,and frustrating. I was always the 1 to be there for them, and listened to them and helped them any which way I could if it would make them happy,Id of gone to the end of the earth for them, and it took a while to realise but when it came to me needing them , for a shoulder to cry on or just a listening ear, and an understanding nod , where the hell were they ..anyway. I did it, I cut them off, sigh: and it wasnt easy, I felt very mean, but soon after I felt stronger about myself, and thought Id never have close friends again, but an old, old friend appeared, whom I had never been as close to as I am now, and my life couldnt be better, So be strong, get rid of the dead wood in your life, and someday some 1 who truely cares, and reciprocates ur love and appreciates ur being will one day make it to u I understand where you're coming from (that alone is a miracle huh ) | |
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mrdespues said: be careful not to burn too many bridges. i've found it's often the case that you shouldn't take it personally if people don't always contact you....people just get busy - it doesn't always mean they don't care.
It's not abt contacting me but some ppl use you and like damnedifido said you would travel to the end of the world for them but when you need them they're nowhere to find So why chase something they're not able to give you? thx for carrying | |
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AndGodCreatedMe said: Whateva said: Yep, like some people that are in bed with heavy flu and forget all about your b-day Sorry!! awww I'm sorry Don't worry abt my b-day, hope you get well soon At least you give me a respons now unlike some others who i now oficilly hate, Ben Aw poor guy | |
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Whateva said: AndGodCreatedMe said: awww I'm sorry Don't worry abt my b-day, hope you get well soon At least you give me a respons now unlike some others who i now oficilly hate, Ben Aw poor guy He's scared I will be in London this summer so.... | |
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Powerless (Say What You Want) Lyrics
by Nelly Furtado Paint my face in your magazines Make it look whiter than it seems Paint me over with your dreams Shove away my ethnicity Burn every notion that I may have a flame inside to fight And say just what is on my mind Without offending your might Cuz this life is too short to live it just for you But when you feel so powerless what are you gonna do So say what you want Say what you want I saw her face outside today Weatherworn, looking all the rage They took her passion and her gaze and made a poster Now it’s moccasins we sport We take the culture and contort Perhaps only to distort what we are hiding Cuz this life is too short to live it just for you But when you feel so powerless what are you gonna do But say what you want Say what you want Hey you, the one outside, are you ever gonna get in, get in Hey you, the one that don’t fit in, how ya, how ya gonna get in Hey you, the one outside, are you ever gonna get in with your Broken teeth, broken jaw, broken mojo Yeah, this life is too short to live it just for you But when you feel so powerless, what are you gonna do Cuz this life is too short to live it just for you But when you feel so powerless, what are you gonna do | |
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Helloooo Anyone?? Don't let this thread die | |
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Dewrede said: Voel me een beetje vreemd vandaag, denk dat het de spanning is voor de vakantie | |
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