Oh yes. Twice.

PEJ said:

hey pimp daddy

bluesbaby said:

As Chester Cheetah would say, "It's not easy bein' cheesy."

MrJoker said:

Yanno? He's right

irresistibleb1tch said:

girl, thankyou.

cutestgirlever said:

this wasn't about you

you should have never got involved
miss your eyes

Hello

PEJ said:

I am sure Jess would love to hear about how somebody once again assumed I was her or she was me.

cutestgirlever said:

This is Jess now!!!

Watch how and what you say to my little sister! I'm not kidding about this one!
You can fuck with and say whatever you want to me, but when it comes to my little boo, watch your ass.

this isn't a hard question for me to answer...it's something I've had happen a few times in my life...
...with that said...
the person who should've been my best friend for my entire life ended up becoming someone I can honestly say that I hate and could care less when he dies...
that person is my ex-brother

I'm not going to get into the details of it all...suffice to say that it's been around 13 years since it happened and now he's trying to get on my good side...
IMO, it's too late...he's had all this time to make things right and up until recently, the only things I've received from him are threats (gonna come back and beat me up (as if)...refuses to let me see my niece (can't make her do that))...

...anyway...

yeah...it tears my parents up that this is going on...and that hurts me...
...but...it's his bed and he's gonna have to lie in it the rest of his life...

cutestgirlever said:

ouch, I thought it was jess all along, my bad but I feel your anger !! I hate it when people say shit about or fuck with my family members!

I thought Mephistophiles was my friend.

TheMadMonkey said:

I feel for ya MM...

Here's my story: All throughout my 20's, one of my best friends was my brother
in law. We had lots in common, both being intesely competitive in sports. He was always a little selfish, but I ignored that quality in him. Well, we both grew older and had kids around the same time. They are now 9 and 7.

Being selfish when you are single is one thing, but my thought is that when you have children, you do what is right for them, at all times. He has never worked a real job in his life, instead getting by selling drugs and buying items to resell for a profit.

About 2 years ago, we were hanging out at his house watching a football game, when it hit me that he doesn't spend any quality time with his kids...there we
were, a group of 4 guys watching football, and his kids are shut-in their room,

This guy is used to getting his way...he's been spoiled by his mother and aunts his whole life. Just last year, he married a girl from Mexico, not for love, but to get her into the country. Now that she's here, he basically uses her as someone to watch is 4 kids and cook, while he's out on the street running his hussle.

I would'nt say I hate him...but I don't agree with his lifestyle and I try to keep my children away from their house, to avoid the bad element. I decided to take his number off my cellphone 2 years ago, and haven't talked to him directly in that time. Occasionally, I'll run into him during the holidays, when you can cut the tension with a knife.

It's not possible, not when people are truly friends. What is possible is that someone who presented themselves as a friend for whatever reason has now shown you their true self. It sucks to fall under that spell, to believe someone is a great friend to you & then BAM... NOT

In a sense, yes.

CalhounSq said:

AMEN

i dont know about worst enemies.....but i do know about best freinds turning out to not be freinds....or at least being something wayy different than originally thought...

i have several situations like that....

ive come to the conclusion that its me. trying to look inward and see what i have done....or what i could do to make it better....i have offered that olive branch several times in most of these situations...and right now....its to no avail.

its hard when you care about someone...and something comes between you that you just cant figure out....for whatever reason...

i think that i am my best friend which can be my worst enemy at times...

maybe not a worst enemy...but theres alot of hate there

Love your ennemies

CalhounSq said:

interesting post!

PEJ said:

The funny thing is I think we know when the person isn't being completely true. We get inklings, we just don't want to believe them b/c of some need we have that the person in question fulfills...


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CalhounSq said:

we sort of go in a state of denial...

BobGeorge909 said:

Hi!

PEJ said:

Kinda sad, huh? I've had this happen twice in a span of 4 years w/ people I thought were REALLY close to me. One was totally shocking, the other I knew was coming but tried to give the benefit of the doubt. Had I been my usual cynical self I'd have been better off but I think the shocking end of the other friendship got me all screwy, not trusting myself, my judgement.

I'm still trying to figure out what my "need" was w/ these people