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PrintableNatisse said: charlottegelin said: althom is saying all the right things again - watch out!   Hell must have frozen over again. | |
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althom said: Natisse said: Hell must have frozen over again. good lord! a  just flew past! | |
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I think that all of the thirtysomething org women who are waiting for a decent guy to have babies with should get together, buy a house and a vial of sperm to share (perhaps Supa would contribute the latter  ), have a turkeybaster party followed by a huge baby shower a few months later, and raise your kids together. Then you won't be single mothers, you'll be org mothers!  | |
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tackam said: I think that all of the thirtysomething org women who are waiting for a decent guy to have babies with should get together, buy a house and a vial of sperm to share (perhaps Supa would contribute the latter
), have a turkeybaster party followed by a huge baby shower a few months later, and raise your kids together. Then you won't be single mothers, you'll be org mothers!
I love it!
Anyway - I'm in a bit of a different circumstance cause I've just never wanted children. So I don't really know what you're going through. However, I really do believe in the power of positive thinking. Though, I know this may not be the time for it. Sometimes you have to let yourself mourn for what you may not have. And let yourself be upset and purge and all of that. But - what if you don't ever get those things? Does that mean you can never be happy in life? I should say not. Doesn't mean you should stop trying, but it also means you shouldn't hang so much up on one goal in life. I'm not a christian (in fact I'm basically an atheist), nor an alcoholic, but I always find peace in the serenity prayer. The whole "god grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference." I do my best to change the things I don't like and learn to be happy with the things I can't change. My circumstance that's similar to yours is all our lives we're told we're not complete, we're not living life to our fullest unless we're in love and in a lasting relationship. For various reasons, I just never saw myself ever having that. And I spent years wallowing in self pity, held on to relationships that were not good for me and finally just came to accept it. If I'm single for the rest of my life, I can still be happy. In fact, I've been quite happy for the last several years of my life as a single gal. Sure, sometimes I get lonely but I'm still surrounded by people who love me. And if the "right man" comes along, I'm open to whatever life brings me. But if it doesn't happen, it won't change how fulfilling my life is. It will just be different. You gotta make do with what ya got. |
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tackam said: I think that all of the thirtysomething org women who are waiting for a decent guy to have babies with should get together, buy a house and a vial of sperm to share (perhaps Supa would contribute the latter
), have a turkeybaster party followed by a huge baby shower a few months later, and raise your kids together. Then you won't be single mothers, you'll be org mothers! Sounds like a plan to me! Or, we could forget the turkey baster and do it the fun way! (sans Supa, of course ) | |
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applekisses said: tackam said: I think that all of the thirtysomething org women who are waiting for a decent guy to have babies with should get together, buy a house and a vial of sperm to share (perhaps Supa would contribute the latter
), have a turkeybaster party followed by a huge baby shower a few months later, and raise your kids together. Then you won't be single mothers, you'll be org mothers! Sounds like a plan to me! Or, we could forget the turkey baster and do it the fun way! (sans Supa, of course )Well, sure, an orgy is a possibility too. And you'd have such a great conception story for the kids! "Well, we don't know for sure who your individual dads are, but we know it's one of 7 guys from the org. . ."  | |
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tackam said: applekisses said: Sounds like a plan to me! Or, we could forget the turkey baster and do it the fun way! (sans Supa, of course )Well, sure, an orgy is a possibility too. And you'd have such a great conception story for the kids! "Well, we don't know for sure who your individual dads are, but we know it's one of 7 guys from the org. . ."  I'm sure we'd be able to match them up by resemblence. The one who would want his photo taken all the time would be Matt's...the one who wanted to take photos all the time would be Byron's...the metal one would be althom's...the one with a penguin fetish would be Subby's...etc... | |
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applekisses said: tackam said: Well, sure, an orgy is a possibility too. And you'd have such a great conception story for the kids! "Well, we don't know for sure who your individual dads are, but we know it's one of 7 guys from the org. . ." I'm sure we'd be able to match them up by resemblence. The one who would want his photo taken all the time would be Matt's...the one who wanted to take photos all the time would be Byron's...the metal one would be althom's...the one with a penguin fetish would be Subby's...etc... | |
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applekisses said: tackam said: Well, sure, an orgy is a possibility too. And you'd have such a great conception story for the kids! "Well, we don't know for sure who your individual dads are, but we know it's one of 7 guys from the org. . ." I'm sure we'd be able to match them up by resemblence. The one who would want his photo taken all the time would be Matt's...the one who wanted to take photos all the time would be Byron's...the metal one would be althom's...the one with a penguin fetish would be Subby's...etc...Who has sex with who?  | |
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charlottegelin said: althom said: You girls are making me sad!
I hope you all do get the chance to experiance this. It's the most amazing and scariest thing I've ever gone through. You girls all seem very lovely and sweet and would make great mothers. yes, but they need to find some great potential fathers to hook up with first. Not at the cryobank | |
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althom said: charlottegelin said: yes, but they need to find some great potential fathers to hook up with first. Not really! I think a woman can do it alone without a guy these days. Obviously the guys haven't been that interested or committed to the relationship to even think about that stage.....but I can see these girl managing by themselves. Who said they need a man by their side? 
I have to agree with althom here, I am a single mother, and yes its hard but its also hard for any couple. My daughter and I have a wonderful life together, I wasnt , in theory, supposed to be able to have kids, and she is my blessing. I am a good mother, and enjoy every minute of her, even now when she has gone froom calling me mommmy to Eve there is nothing wrong with being a single mother, in fact at times Im glad I am | |
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Sexymf... I think it's time that you forgive yourself for staying in that relationship. I was in one too and it took me three years to leave!
You can't change the past! Now (19yrs later)I'm a single mom. My son Tim is six years old and was diagnosed as an Authistic (Active but Odd) child with an IQ of 126, just a couple of days ago.. Yes it is hard..but the joy he gives me...And the love you can give your own child!! Nothing compares to that. Don't want to make you sad again...just trying to explain that beeing a single mom is beautiful!! I wish you all the best!!
Tim... 
[Edited 2/24/05 9:47am] [Edited 2/24/05 9:48am] The Borg... Partypoopers of the galaxy.. ( Medical Hologram )
------------------------------------------------- ..Where is my lovelife.. where can it be?? There must be something wrong with the machinery.. | |
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applekisses said: tackam said: I think that all of the thirtysomething org women who are waiting for a decent guy to have babies with should get together, buy a house and a vial of sperm to share (perhaps Supa would contribute the latter
), have a turkeybaster party followed by a huge baby shower a few months later, and raise your kids together. Then you won't be single mothers, you'll be org mothers! Sounds like a plan to me! Or, we could forget the turkey baster and do it the fun way! (sans Supa, of course )If it involved me, the words "roofies", "viagra" and "raped in his sleep" would have something to do with it
. [Edited 2/24/05 11:48am] 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: applekisses said: Sounds like a plan to me! Or, we could forget the turkey baster and do it the fun way! (sans Supa, of course )If it involved me the words "roofies", "viagra" and "raped in his sleep" would have something to do with it | |
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