Wait a minute...you got Spike!!..lol

YEAH! He's nothing to sneeze at!

YEAH! He's nothing to sneeze at!

OK, Apples, you got the first chuckle out of me.

I helped...lol

OK, Apples, you got the first chuckle out of me.

You were the set-up...I just went in for the hit...

I am 36 no kids and don't have the desire, because I was born and Aunt. However the little boys and Girls at Big Brother and Sisters will aprreciate you. You can be a brother or sister to whatever age you want. Personally I would never dream of being a single mom, I am totally against it. But these little peeps really aprreciate your time. I do it sometimes, or chapperon events for them. They love it i love it. Think about it. These kids are starved for attention and to be taken to and shown diffrent things. There mind is an open book and their emotions are so pure, no bullshit at all. Just try it and tell me how you like it.

I had a single Mom live next to me for 2 years and I loved her 2 girls. Took them out, bought clothes, taught them manners, it was great!!! I am still in contact with them now. The oldest one her teacher send a note home saying she is the best well-mannered child she has seen in ages. Yea thanks to Aunt Ray she is!!!

Far be it for me to criticize you at all and I feel sad that you're unhappy but I guess you can always help yourself. Perhaps by going out more or something like that? Meeting new people you know. It's just a thought but I guess if someone has really hurt you it makes you conscious and sceptical of other people. I guess what I'm trying to say is, there are people who would absolutely adore you no matter you're opinion of yourself, sometimes your lucky and they find you but you increase your chances by you going and finding them. Hope that makes sense. Anyway... is for you x

OMG JD,you think its that easy???

No. I think you like having a dig at me of late though.

No,I am not having a dig at YOU, just your post.

Ok tmrw, I will go out find the love of my life, get married have lots of babies and live happily ever after..

Get real!

Fine. Thats what I'd do. And try and let me feel like your my friend eh?

It's not that easy, JD.

No,I am not having a dig at YOU, just your post.

Ok tmrw, I will go out find the love of my life, get married have lots of babies and live happily ever after..

Get real!

Fine. Thats what I'd do. And try and let me feel like your my friend eh?

Then why dont you? I just thought your post was deeply patronising,so dont turn the tables onto me or friens#dhsip..I am just talking about the topic

lets please go back to the topic,ok?

Far be it for me to criticize you at all and I feel sad that you're unhappy but I guess you can always help yourself. Perhaps by going out more or something like that? Meeting new people you know. It's just a thought but I guess if someone has really hurt you it makes you conscious and sceptical of other people. I guess what I'm trying to say is, there are people who would absolutely adore you no matter you're opinion of yourself, sometimes your lucky and they find you but you increase your chances by you going and finding them. Hope that makes sense. Anyway... is for you x

I didn't mean to sound patronising. I was just trying to make her feel better was all.

Aw, Apples, I love ya!

Thanks for the rose JD, I do try to meet people and make a connection, but it's not the easiest thing in the world.

I love you too, honey...now stop making me cry...my co-workers are gonna think I've flipped out!

I know. After people hurt you so much you do indeed get sceptical I find. Well as far as Im concerned. All the best anyway.

I know. After people hurt you so much you do indeed get sceptical I find. Well as far as Im concerned. All the best anyway.

OK, guys, no fighting on the thread - and Redbaby is right, it's so not easy.

Sometimes it has nothing to do with becoming sceptical and more to do with the fact that people suck.