I like this person
This person claims to have a crush on me too
I asked that person to be part of one of my projects for school
they said they would do it to e-mail them the mini script
I emailed them the mini script and have not heard from them again
Meanwhile I'm left wondering if they are going to do it or if I have to find someone else!!!
I don't want to call and find out cuz I don't want to be all pushy

Is this person being intentionally rude or playing games or what?! I don't know what to think, Let me ask YOU, what would it mean if YOU did that to someone? Are you sending them some type of message and if so what is the message? Or am I jus overreacting?

Fuck 'em apparently they are irresponsible and not worth your time.

Sounds like you're being used, but hey, what do I know..

lecoq said:

being used for what?



Yeah sweeney, that's what I'm thinking!

DenverMoon said:

Let me rephrase that. This person has a crush on you and will have you do most of the project on your own...if you let 'em.

DenverMoon said:

I think what my buddy is saying what I was thinking(and what I was trying to say without just saying it) is that this person knows you like them so they are using you to get the work done. They are banking on the idea that you'll think to yourself they aint gonna do it so I should cuz I dont wanna fail....so in the end you'll do all the work and they will reap the rewards of your hardwork.


As a teacher I can say, this is why I HATE groupwork. This shit always happens.

lecoq said:

I don't know what you guys mean, it is my project and I asked them for the help. I thought it would be fun to work with them so we can get to know each other better, they said they would do the project but I sent them what they needed and they never got back to me

DenverMoon said:

then fuck'em.

yup yup

DenverMoon said:

My bad, thought it was something you had to work on as a team for a grade. Like Sweeny said, fuck 'em.

no its my project, I just asked them to help, thanks 2 both of u I think he is saying "don't ever depend on me, specially if we start dating" How can you treat someone like this if you like them? how rude! thank u both =)

Sweeny79 said:

LOVE that in a teacher.

DenverMoon said:

Just pick up the phone and call the person in question. That's not being pushy. Who knows, maybe they never even got your e-mail? Right now you're wasting both your time and your mental health on useless speculation.

catharsis said:

after all, who knows, maybe this person is reading the script over and over
and is just like you, waiting for the other one to call. perhaps, like you
they don't want to seem pushy either.

or maybe they have some problems with the content of the script or second
thoughts about working with you when you're obviously both attracted to
each other. perhaps they fear this getting in the way of that.

who knows? just call them and find out for sure.

i wouldnt do that to someone #1 ... and #2 ...ask them ...


thats how mature relations work... ya have a question or doubts ASK...if they take it as pushy...thats their issue ( as long as you are not actually being pushy )

are you concerned bout seeming pushy cuz you still would like to hook up with a person that has been rude and blew you off ??

DenverMoon said:

They dont' feel the same way about you.
Otherwise that person would be updating you frequently about the progress.


Fuck 'em.

Mach said:

You need to talk. It could be something simple like your email didn't arrive, or once it did, it was more work than expected or the person didn't understand what they had to do.

Talk it through and hopefully you'll be able to sort it out

Sweeny79 said:

Co-sign

turns out they were being an ass. I called, I asked why they didn't emaill me back if they got it they was like "I didn't know I had to e-mail you back hahahaha" I wish I never called them. what a dick head. Thank you ALL, u all been VERY HELPFUL.
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