Something just struck me. There's a lot of people out there who are nice, quiet people. Some appear to be loving, devoted husbands and wifes....but as soon as they get online they turn into the biggest whores, just to get some attention.

Then the ones who really are whores generally don't whore around online. Most appear to be prudes. I think it's because it's useless to them to get involved in some dirty talking or webcamming. They just go out and get some of the real stuff.
[Edited 2/17/05 22:08pm]

PurpleThunder said:

Maybe the girls on the org are easy?

althom said:

u wish

what purple thunder said.

Ocean said:

I DO!!!!!

PurpleThunder said:

I think their shyness has to do with the fact that deep down inside they know they should be ashamed of their behaviour. I'm not talking about people who just feel more comfortable online, I'm talking about the shameless pink shots sent out to anyone interested without even knowing more than the usual A/S/L.

althom said:

Oh plenty of them are, no doubt.

Ummm....So does anyone know where this cyber whoring can be found? I have this friend that wants to know.

althom said:

It's all going down in the chatroom. I'm not talking about what you actually see when you enter the chat. That's just playful sexual innuendo, but play along and you'll get the freakiest offers in PM.

PurpleThunder said:

Flirting is a way to test the water. If the other party flirts back there's a pretty good chance you could get some if you persued it.

I see people give others compliments, just to be nice, but when I talk to them their comments about those people aren't particular flattering and they admit they just wanted them to feel good. That's almost as bad as a sympathy fuck.

Can't say a comment (good or bad) from someone I don't (really) know makes or ruins my day. I'd think of that as rather shallow...or there's a deeper, more serious problem which should be addressed by some psychotherapy.

lecoq said:

Well most of the flirting online is harmless for the most part, and I dont think that because people compliment others or flirt they need psychotherapy cause there are alot worse things that happen online. If its something you dont agree with or dont see a point in doing then dont. Sometimes coming online is a way for people to get away from the norm for abit, but most of these people go on outside of cyber land with real lives etc. Everyone likes compliments and as for the people that you say compliment and dont mean it, thats their choice but as long as it doesnt make someone feel bad I guess there is no harm in it is there

PurpleThunder said:

They might need psychotherapy if a compliment is what they aim for because that will get them through the day. That's a serious lack of selfconfidence. Cyberland is real life. It's part of life. I see tons of people taking breaks from various websites because it can very well add stress to your "real" life. People with good jobs and families. It's a myth that people who spend a certain amount of time per day online don't have a real life. Everyone has a life period, they just do different things with their time.

There's a moral sense of good and bad and lying generally not considered to be a virtue. Not to mention that it's potentially devastating if those people find out they've been lied to.

Online flirting harmless? Depends on who's involved I guess, but it's definitely not as harmless as you might think. Been around long enough to know it causes some serious drama on a regular basis which affects people's "real" life.

People who act totally different online as they do offline are....hmm, how should I say it, emotionally immature and should work on their selfconfidence so they can be themselves at all times and don't need to hide behind a screen name to say or do what they can't IRL.

althom said:

The cyber red light district.

lecoq said:

Yeah and then there are people who can't decipher the serious flirting from the harmless flirting and become crazy over what they read which is really none of their business. People have the right to do what they please and they will have to suffer whatever consequences that come from it if they are married or involved in any way. Seems to me you are letting this get to you way to much since you yourself have been known to flirt!

PurpleThunder said:

PT you are spot on I couldn't agree more.....




...and I'm not just saying that cos I'm scared you're gonna box me, honest

It's easy to be something you're not when you are online. It's easy to lie and play with people's head. Personally I would never do that because how I am online is how I am in the real world but I have seen people do the minds games and the people that get played do get hurt. So how much fun is that? But that's just me,maybe I'm the fucked up one

EverSoLesa said:

nope, i dont think you are the fucked up one.. at least i hope not because, thats how i live my life

i try everyday to be real with everyone i come in contact with... when all is said and done, and i am a gone from here.... i want to be remembered as a real person with a real heart, one that doesnt hurt anyone on purpose, one that doesnt step on others to make my life better, one that people trust, and one that folks wouldnt mind saying.... 'yeah, she was a great friend.'

What's all this talk about cyber whoring?

nakedpianoplayer said:

This is exactly why I love you Because you and I are alot a like and too know how bad it hurts to be lied too. And why I would trust you with anything

ReturnOfDOOK said:

I still love that hat

EverSoLesa said:

thanks sweetie, that means a lot to me, and i feel the same about you

Can I be a cyber pimp?

Stax said:

I can't say

Webcamnow
my boyfriend is always in there 4 some reason its funny though ugly old people going online and doing things to themselves check it out ,very very funny
[Edited 2/18/05 12:05pm]

EverSoLesa said:

lecoq said:

I knew you would think I am fucked up just kidding