Sweeny... when I look at your avatar... all I can think of... is...




































OUCH!

Sweeny79 said:

Ok, so maybe you're not the consoling type...

Sweeny... when I look at your avatar... all I can think of... is...
OUCH!

Ok so I go to church almost every Sunday and the cantor in my church, (for you non Catholics, that's the person who sings the hymns and whatever) is a contestant on American Idol. If you watched it tonight he was the dark haired guy in room 3 with the black shirt with white lines on it who cried like a bitch when he got pushed to the next round.

I've had a crush on this guy for almost a year ( talk about tall dark and handsome ) and we kinda flirt during mass he started making eyes at me one day so I did it back and now it happens just about every week. BUT He's so nice looking and being in mass and all I never had the guts to just to up him and say hi. In fact I didn't even know his name until they said it on TV.


Well, I'm assuming this will be the last round for him because about 2 weeks ago he came back to church and is doing his old job. So now I'm even MORE scared to go say hi to him cuz now I look like an American Idol Groupie.


I suck .

Freespirit said:

That's not what I'm thinking.

Sweeny79 said:

no, your not a dork.....:hugs:

btw, nice avvie

amorbella said:

Yup I am and

Sweeny79 said:

dork or not, i love ya!!!!

amorbella said:

Sweeny79 said:

BTW, THANK YOU!!!!! LOVE IT!!! Made my day very special.....

Ask him out for coffee dork

luv4u said:

Could you ask him for me???? Please???

Sweeny79 said:

Sure I would

"Hi (fill in the blank). I know this person named Sweeney and she is just too nervous to ask you but she would like to go for a coffee date with you and talk. She thinks you are hot. She is fun to be with."

luv4u said:

Meet me at church at 10:30 am est on Sunday ok???

Sweeney, this Sunday sit right behind him. Next Sunday sit next to him. The Sunday after that hold hands

Sweeny79 said:

No kicking and screaming!! Dress nice, put lots of deodarent and perfume on, lipstick and smile, practice fluttering those eyelids.

I make a good matchmaker ya know

Don't be all shy he just gave you the best conversation starter that someone can have, I mean if I could walk up to some beautiful woman and say "American Idol, huh? Nice job, congrats, blah, blah, blah. You whined like a bitch" that would start a real conversation. Then there's the whole religious aspect which I think there's a philia for, like priest-aphilia or...

luv4u said:

The Sunday after that, they'll probably get kicked out of the church if they keep following your plan...

luv4u said:

The Sunday after that, they'll probably get kicked out of the church if they keep following your plan...

Byron said:

No, it's perfectly okay to hold hands, go for it Sweeney, whatcha waiting for girl - don't let this one get away.

Slave2daGroove said:

Yeah that would be great if I went up to him and said " HA! You cried like a bitch!!!! "

and he's not a cleric, just a layperson who works for the church.

luv4u said:

I really wish you could ask him for me.

Byron said:

No, it's perfectly okay to hold hands, go for it Sweeney, whatcha waiting for girl - don't let this one get away.

Sweeny79 said:

In sales its cslled "a foot in the door" or your opening line

luv4u said:

The pressure!!!!

Sweeny79 said:

Arright, arright!!!!, I will ask him for you. Don't make it obvious that your watching us talk, kay?