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Out with the Old??? How many of you still keep in touch with your "ex's"? Do you think it is wise to allow that old energy into your world or future, even if you both have moved on amicably?
I feel it is a maturity and integrity level ones self must possess in order to sustain such a relationship with someone of significance from the past. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: How many of you still keep in touch with your "ex's"? Do you think it is wise to allow that old energy into your world or future, even if you both have moved on amicably?
I feel it is a maturity and integrity level ones self must possess in order to sustain such a relationship with someone of significance from the past.  I agree   | |
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I never kept in touch with my ex's. My husband has never met one of my former boyfriends and probably never will because I couldn't tell you where they were if their houses were on fire.
I think part of it was that I was never in a SERIOUS relationship before my hubby. I did some exclusive dating etc, but for me, once it was over it was over and I had no interest in keeping in touch. Don't get me wrong, it's not like any of them were beating down my door trying to stay in touch with me  I think it was a mutal thing that it was over and so be it.I'm firmly planted in denial |
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I have stayed in touch with all of my ex's to a certain extent except the last one cause it hurts too much  | |
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I don't have contact with most of my exes. Mainly because they hurt me and I need to move on. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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when i kick it to the curb, i don't visit it at the landfill! | |
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Natisse said: DexMSR said: How many of you still keep in touch with your "ex's"? Do you think it is wise to allow that old energy into your world or future, even if you both have moved on amicably?
I feel it is a maturity and integrity level ones self must possess in order to sustain such a relationship with someone of significance from the past. I agree Whap! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
BOB JOHNSON IS PART OF THE PROBLEM!! | |
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well, i do, but, i think that has to do with the fact that i have their kid. One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift 
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 i'm flying to buffalo to do what ?
yes... i am friends with X's ( not all )
thy add to my now life in great ways ... if they didnt ... there would be no need for the friendships  | |
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Some I do.....some I don't. I found it better to just have a clean break from them. | |
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I find that keeping a close friendship with an ex lover can work but not in all cases. Sometimes there are too many passionate feelings left over after a breakup to sustain any type of civil friendship. It depends. | |
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No one rule covers all relationships in my life, past and present...Let your soul guide you.  | |
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Byron said: No one rule covers all relationships in my life, past and present...Let your soul guide you.
this is really more my attitude, though the i like saying the curb-kicking thing so i can bob my neck around like they do on ricki lake.  | |
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Anxiety said: Byron said: No one rule covers all relationships in my life, past and present...Let your soul guide you.
this is really more my attitude, though the i like saying the curb-kicking thing so i can bob my neck around like they do on ricki lake. ROFL!!  | |
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One I do since we're still friends, the others I haven't bothered to contact since things ended. | |
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