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What Happens in the past should stay in the past Have you ever made a mistake and wanted to take it back? Have you ever hurt someone and wanted to make it right? Has someone ever asked for your forgiveness and you gave it without conditions? Everyone is guilty at one point or another of hurting someone without doing it on purpose. No one is innocent of that. People who want to heal and get past hurt feelings can't do that when they are reminded everyday of what happened. So when you get hurt or know someone who got hurt, don't talk about it. Don't remind that person of what happened. When someone forgives a person or people don't make them feel like they made a mistake. And please don't get involved. It only causes more hurt and then lies get created. Be a soothing salve for that person and help them focus on something else. Don't back bite the person that may have hurt someone else, because 90% of the time we don't always know the whole story. Just think how you would feel if this was you so that you won't hurt someone else. So keep what happened in the past where it belongs, in the past. Steph | |
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the past is something I have trouble dealing with sometimes, as we all do it IS the past for a reason tho...
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Learn from the past, but don't dwell on it.
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subhuman09 said: Learn from the past, but don't dwell on it.
so simply and perfectly put AMEN to that! | |
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The point I am really trying to make is this...things happen for a reason, no one is to blame. So before someone speaks about someone elses problems we should think how would we feel if we were one of the people involved. How would we want to work it out ourselves. | |
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very thought provoking. a good lesson for the day, thanks. | |
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Natisse said: subhuman09 said: Learn from the past, but don't dwell on it.
so simply and perfectly put AMEN to that! | |
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The only thing I've ever learned from my mistakes is how to cover them up better, the next time I make them. | |
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BinaryJustin said: The only thing I've ever learned from my mistakes is how to cover them up better, the next time I make them.
you are hopeless maybe that's why I like you | |
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EverSoLesa said: you are hopeless maybe that's why I like you
Awwwww... I like you too! | |
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The only mistake you can make is the one from which you learn nothing. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: The only mistake you can make is the one from which you learn nothing.
AMEN | |
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great story hun and its nice to see such a positive approach to dealing with something like this.... HOWEVER....
sometimes, folks do things... really, really dumb hurtful things... with or without thinking about it, it really makes no difference. they end up hurting others and stepping on others feelings, trust, and affections just to get to where they want to be. in most situations, i try to take the high road... but, in other situations i use them to be able to see my way out of a nasty situation. somethings i have seen in my little life blow me away... just the ability to mishandle another persons emotions in that way makes me physically ill. people just shouldnt be that god damn mean.... One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: great story hun and its nice to see such a positive approach to dealing with something like this.... HOWEVER....
sometimes, folks do things... really, really dumb hurtful things... with or without thinking about it, it really makes no difference. they end up hurting others and stepping on others feelings, trust, and affections just to get to where they want to be. in most situations, i try to take the high road... but, in other situations i use them to be able to see my way out of a nasty situation. somethings i have seen in my little life blow me away... just the ability to mishandle another persons emotions in that way makes me physically ill. people just shouldnt be that god damn mean.... Things happen for a reason....the reason will come to light one day | |
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EverSoLesa said: nakedpianoplayer said: great story hun and its nice to see such a positive approach to dealing with something like this.... HOWEVER....
sometimes, folks do things... really, really dumb hurtful things... with or without thinking about it, it really makes no difference. they end up hurting others and stepping on others feelings, trust, and affections just to get to where they want to be. in most situations, i try to take the high road... but, in other situations i use them to be able to see my way out of a nasty situation. somethings i have seen in my little life blow me away... just the ability to mishandle another persons emotions in that way makes me physically ill. people just shouldnt be that god damn mean.... Things happen for a reason....the reason will come to light one day yes it will . sorry, youre trying to be positive here - so i will too.... yeah, one day it'll all come together - my way was more fun [Edited 2/2/05 14:43pm] One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: EverSoLesa said: Things happen for a reason....the reason will come to light one day yes it will . sorry, youre trying to be positive here - so i will too.... yeah, one day it'll all come together - my way was more fun [Edited 2/2/05 14:43pm] you are too funny.....that's why I love ya girl | |
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EverSoLesa said: nakedpianoplayer said: yes it will . sorry, youre trying to be positive here - so i will too.... yeah, one day it'll all come together - my way was more fun [Edited 2/2/05 14:43pm] you are too funny.....that's why I love ya girl lovin you back One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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For every uncomfortable event that happens is an opportunity to learn and grow. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown | |
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sag10 said: For every uncomfortable event that happens is an opportunity to learn and grow.
very true | |
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I write everything down in my "hate diary".
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althom said: I write everything down in my "hate diary".
I never thought about that do you burn the pages after to cleanse your soul of nagativity? | |
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superspaceboy said: The only mistake you can make is the one from which you learn nothing.
Sounds like someone went out to eat for Chinese again. | |
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MrJoker said: superspaceboy said: The only mistake you can make is the one from which you learn nothing.
Sounds like someone went out to eat for Chinese again. HOW DID YOU KNOW????? | |
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Aselosreve said: althom said: I write everything down in my "hate diary".
I never thought about that do you burn the pages after to cleanse your soul of nagativity? No! I frame the pages on my bedroom wall. | |
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Aselosreve said: MrJoker said: Sounds like someone went out to eat for Chinese again. HOW DID YOU KNOW????? I cannot tell you. | |
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MrJoker said: Aselosreve said: HOW DID YOU KNOW????? I cannot tell you. see this is how it all starts | |
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I hope no one provoked this ever. Hope all is well. | |
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superspaceboy said: The only mistake you can make is the one from which you learn nothing.
I want to meet you. | |
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Steph... your words hold much truth. | |
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