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Reply #60 posted 01/20/05 9:36pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

HOMOSEXUALITY is neither socialistic or biological it's geographical....BLAME CANADA!!! lol lol It's K.D. LANG's fault.

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Reply #61 posted 01/20/05 9:36pm

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I'm certain that it is usually a biological thing. I cant be bothered explaining why but I will tell you that it is based on my own personal observations which have no scientific basis whatsoever. biggrin
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Reply #62 posted 01/20/05 9:37pm

glamslamkid

Fauxie said:

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Ahem...

The only other model with any emperical support behind of homosexuality being genetic is the idea that intra-uterine hormone fluxuations may affect fetuses' brain development. Food intake can affect hormone levels. Famine years actually have a slightly higher pecentage of GLBT births, accordingly. Genes however could also cause hormone fluxuations, so go figure.

A common objection to the genetic hypothesis is "why doesen't it just die out since gays don't reproduce". This can be answered with some experimental findings showing that when females carry the genotype for a male homosexual orientation, they simply end up being *even more* attracted to males than the rest of the heterosexual population. They are, in effect, "hyper-heterosexual". Thus, they make more babies than normal, ergo, the genotype is perpetuated.

Another possibility, and one that I sometimes entertain, is that, quite simply, The human brain is a complex organ in a complex organism, and sexual attraction is a difficult feature to construct reliably each time. It is possible that more or less random events in the internal development of the brain sometimes result in atypical structures which correspond to atypical sexual orientations.

A simple analogy is the growth patterns of trees. Even genetically identical trees will have differently-shaped branches. Many factors contribute to these differences - accidents in the formation of the seed, the randomness of Brownian motion, slightly different soil, wind, water, and lighting conditions, etc. As a result, one tree may end up with 49 apples, the one next to it, with 51. So in conclusion, purely biological.



Do u deny socialisation as a factor?


This is what I think. Nothing can turn you gay. Nobody, no nothing, no how. You either are, or you're not. Now, i can see if I grew up in a place where there was NOTHING but gay men, and be the only straight one, so i might grow up thinking that i'm supposed to be with a man. But then, at the same time, i see a woman and i'm attracted to her and want to have sex with her. Nothing can cloud your sexuality, except yourself. I grew up my thinking and being taught that i'm supposed to be with a woman and not with a man. But then around adolescence, my homosexuality set it. I'll never forget. One day in gym class, this guy was running around with his shirt off and his chest was SO damn nice...and i thought i was wrong for thinking that, because of what I was brought up to believe. Then i realized that i can't stop myself from being gay, no matter what I or anyone did or said, or what society says, or what my family says. So I think that in the end, it doesn't. I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.
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Reply #63 posted 01/20/05 9:38pm

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bkw said:

I'm certain that it is usually a biological thing. I cant be bothered explaining why but I will tell you that it is based on my own personal observations which have no scientific basis whatsoever. biggrin

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Reply #64 posted 01/20/05 9:38pm

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althom said:

bkw said:

I'm certain that it is usually a biological thing. I cant be bothered explaining why but I will tell you that it is based on my own personal observations which have no scientific basis whatsoever. biggrin

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Reply #65 posted 01/20/05 9:39pm

Anxiety

althom said:

bkw said:

I'm certain that it is usually a biological thing. I cant be bothered explaining why but I will tell you that it is based on my own personal observations which have no scientific basis whatsoever. biggrin

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Reply #66 posted 01/20/05 9:41pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

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Fauxie said:




Do u deny socialisation as a factor?


This is what I think. Nothing can turn you gay. Nobody, no nothing, no how. You either are, or you're not. Now, i can see if I grew up in a place where there was NOTHING but gay men, and be the only straight one, so i might grow up thinking that i'm supposed to be with a man. But then, at the same time, i see a woman and i'm attracted to her and want to have sex with her. Nothing can cloud your sexuality, except yourself. I grew up my thinking and being taught that i'm supposed to be with a woman and not with a man. But then around adolescence, my homosexuality set it. I'll never forget. One day in gym class, this guy was running around with his shirt off and his chest was SO damn nice...and i thought i was wrong for thinking that, because of what I was brought up to believe. Then i realized that i can't stop myself from being gay, no matter what I or anyone did or said, or what society says, or what my family says. So I think that in the end, it doesn't. I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.



Even people who have come out at a later age, even if they were married to the opposite sex, say that they have always had same sex attractions. They were just doing it for appearances or to deny their nature. People think that they "turned" gay when all they did was finally be true to themselves.

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Reply #67 posted 01/20/05 9:42pm

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glamslamkid said:

Fauxie said:




Do u deny socialisation as a factor?


This is what I think. Nothing can turn you gay. Nobody, no nothing, no how. You either are, or you're not. Now, i can see if I grew up in a place where there was NOTHING but gay men, and be the only straight one, so i might grow up thinking that i'm supposed to be with a man. But then, at the same time, i see a woman and i'm attracted to her and want to have sex with her. Nothing can cloud your sexuality, except yourself. I grew up my thinking and being taught that i'm supposed to be with a woman and not with a man. But then around adolescence, my homosexuality set it. I'll never forget. One day in gym class, this guy was running around with his shirt off and his chest was SO damn nice...and i thought i was wrong for thinking that, because of what I was brought up to believe. Then i realized that i can't stop myself from being gay, no matter what I or anyone did or said, or what society says, or what my family says. So I think that in the end, it doesn't. I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.

nod well said, it is a shame the emotional shit you have to suffer growing up thinking you should be one thing, when clearly you are not and that society labels it the wrong thing to be when you can't help it, even if you wanted to.
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Reply #68 posted 01/20/05 9:43pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

glamslamkid said:



This is what I think. Nothing can turn you gay. Nobody, no nothing, no how. You either are, or you're not. Now, i can see if I grew up in a place where there was NOTHING but gay men, and be the only straight one, so i might grow up thinking that i'm supposed to be with a man. But then, at the same time, i see a woman and i'm attracted to her and want to have sex with her. Nothing can cloud your sexuality, except yourself. I grew up my thinking and being taught that i'm supposed to be with a woman and not with a man. But then around adolescence, my homosexuality set it. I'll never forget. One day in gym class, this guy was running around with his shirt off and his chest was SO damn nice...and i thought i was wrong for thinking that, because of what I was brought up to believe. Then i realized that i can't stop myself from being gay, no matter what I or anyone did or said, or what society says, or what my family says. So I think that in the end, it doesn't. I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.



Even people who have come out at a later age, even if they were married to the opposite sex, say that they have always had same sex attractions. They were just doing it for appearances or to deny their nature. People think that they "turned" gay when all they did was finally be true to themselves.

Miguel
rainbow


Exactly. Society may play a role in how you "identify" yourself, but it doesn't affect who you are.
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Reply #69 posted 01/20/05 9:45pm

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bkw said:

I'm certain that it is usually a biological thing. I cant be bothered explaining why but I will tell you that it is based on my own personal observations which have no scientific basis whatsoever. biggrin


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Reply #70 posted 01/20/05 9:47pm

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Gay 101 is now in session.

Miguel
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Reply #71 posted 01/20/05 9:49pm

Fauxie

I'd like to thank all the gay people for my now flaming thread. clapping

You are a reliable resource to call upon in times of need for flaming threads.
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Reply #72 posted 01/20/05 9:50pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Gay 101 is now in session.

Miguel
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Oh sis, it's BEEN in session. Bout time we started schoolin' mufuckers.
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Reply #73 posted 01/20/05 9:53pm

Fauxie

glamslamkid said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Gay 101 is now in session.

Miguel
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Oh sis, it's BEEN in session. Bout time we started schoolin' mufuckers.



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Reply #74 posted 01/20/05 9:56pm

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glamslamkid said:



Oh sis, it's BEEN in session. Bout time we started schoolin' mufuckers.



We will not be assimilated! mad


I want to be ASSimilated!! batting eyes
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Reply #75 posted 01/20/05 10:45pm

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Fauxie said:

meow85 said:

I think it's something you're born with. Certain traits or behaviours, for some people anyway, I think are learned. For example, there are some genuine flaming queens out there, but there are also some gay men who will "act gay" because they think they're supposed to.

The same can be said about any minority, really. Tell a person they are something often enough and sooner or later they'll believe it.


U said they're born with it, but your last paragraph highlights socialisation as a cause.

Not as a cause for the fact of homosexuality, but as a possible cause for the stereotypical behaviours some have. Some are just naturally FABULOUS, but others may just "Act gay" because they think they're expected to.

By your interpretation, I'm bi because I thought it was expected of me. NOt what I meant at all. I believe I was born this way, but I think it's very possible that some of my behaviour was learned.
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Reply #76 posted 01/20/05 10:49pm

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glamslamkid said:

Fauxie said:




Do u deny socialisation as a factor?


This is what I think. more stuff, which i agree with I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.


Can I make a case here for losing the straight-word? It implies gay people are not-normal.
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Reply #77 posted 01/20/05 10:50pm

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Fauxie said:

I'd like to thank all the gay people for my now flaming thread. clapping

You are a reliable resource to call upon in times of need for flaming threads.

giggle You said "flaming"



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Reply #78 posted 01/20/05 11:01pm

glamslamkid

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This is what I think. more stuff, which i agree with I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.


Can I make a case here for losing the straight-word? It implies gay people are not-normal.


Well, they're not.
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Reply #79 posted 01/20/05 11:13pm

Muse2NOPharaoh

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Anxiety said:



wait. i might be thinking about gekkos. which are the lizards and which are the people who live to the north of me? confuse


No gekkos in Canada, tough.





lol That would be South of you Anx! As in Mexico etc.
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Reply #80 posted 01/20/05 11:14pm

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AlfofMelmak said:

glamslamkid said:



This is what I think. more stuff, which i agree with I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.


Can I make a case here for losing the straight-word? It implies gay people are not-normal.



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Reply #81 posted 01/20/05 11:58pm

Lodger

Homosexuality is not only a human thing.
It is observable in the animal world. nod
That's why I think it has a biological explanation!

By the way - in the ancient Greek/Roman world homosexuality was a natural thing! nod
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Reply #82 posted 01/21/05 12:02am

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Muse2NOPharaoh said:

AlfofMelmak said:



Can I make a case here for losing the straight-word? It implies gay people are not-normal.



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Reply #83 posted 01/21/05 4:22am

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AlfofMelmak said:

Muse2NOPharaoh said:




wave Hi Dad!


Muse hug How many people would get the reference "dad" giggle


as in "squozen father"?

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Reply #84 posted 01/21/05 4:26am

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I don't think this is an appropriate topic for conversation.
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Reply #85 posted 01/21/05 4:45am

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AsianBomb777 said:

I don't think this is an appropriate topic for conversation.


well, mostly it's in the wrong forum
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Reply #86 posted 01/21/05 8:26am

glamslamkid

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I don't think this is an appropriate topic for conversation.



YOU turning down a gay thread? Oh Lawd....
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Reply #87 posted 01/21/05 9:13am

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Diathesis stress -- that is, essentially biological, but sometimes triggered through environmental catalysts, IMHO.
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πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
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Reply #88 posted 01/21/05 7:59pm

Fauxie

cborgman said:

AsianBomb777 said:

I don't think this is an appropriate topic for conversation.


well, mostly it's in the wrong forum



How so? It's neither concerned with politics or religion.
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Reply #89 posted 01/21/05 8:03pm

Fauxie

AlfofMelmak said:

glamslamkid said:



This is what I think. more stuff, which i agree with I believe it can cloud your judgement about yourself and who you think you are, but it doesn't turn straight people gay, or gay people straight.


Can I make a case here for losing the straight-word? It implies gay people are not-normal.



Can I make a case here for losing the gay word? It implies straight people are not happy.
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