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Printabledamnedifido05 said: MsMisha319 said: Well, we almost made it to the year mark.
Though I believe in my heart that it's the best thing to do, breaking up is hard to do 
But, it's not fair to stay in a relationship when your heart isn't in it. It's not fair to him.....So I shall move on.... Any suggestions on how to make "moving on" as painless as possible? Smooches;) hey sweet 1, well me and my man have seperated after 17yrs so my heart goes out to u, 2nite is my 1st nite alone, and im so , so sad, so shame ur not any closer, we could of shared a bottle of wine and wept, oh well be strong my dear and keep ur head up, u will always have ur peeps on here  Wow, thank you for the support. I hope things work out for you as well Smooches;) | |
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My ex works in the same office as me, about four desks away.
I have to pass him to get to the printer or to the coffee machine. We haven't spoken since July really. It's completely stressing me out. I know this sounds awful, but he's on a temporary contract and I keep hoping he'll get fired. I just can't cope with seeing him laughing, smiling and joking when he made me so miserable. | |
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BinaryJustin said: My ex works in the same office as me, about four desks away.
I have to pass him to get to the printer or to the coffee machine. We haven't spoken since July really. It's completely stressing me out. I know this sounds awful, but he's on a temporary contract and I keep hoping he'll get fired. I just can't cope with seeing him laughing, smiling and joking when he made me so miserable. damn right 
tell me where u are..I will make a complaint...lol Pardon me for living', but this is my world too! | |
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damnedifido05 said: damn right
tell me where u are..I will make a complaint...lol It's my own fault - I broke my own rule. I vowed years ago never to date anybody at work and then I did. If ever anybody's tempted to date at work - DON'T! | |
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BinaryJustin said: damnedifido05 said: damn right
tell me where u are..I will make a complaint...lol It's my own fault - I broke my own rule. I vowed years ago never to date anybody at work and then I did. If ever anybody's tempted to date at work - DON'T! lol. aww well what can I say.. have u learnt ur lesson? Pardon me for living', but this is my world too! | |
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damnedifido05 said: lol. aww well what can I say.. have u learnt ur lesson?
Yes. I learned that Neil Garrity is a self-absorbed cunt!  | |
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BinaryJustin said: damnedifido05 said: damn right
tell me where u are..I will make a complaint...lol It's my own fault - I broke my own rule. I vowed years ago never to date anybody at work and then I did. If ever anybody's tempted to date at work - DON'T! Yeah, I dated a coworker when I was a teen. I worked at Taco Bell and everyone was dating--and shagging--everyone else. Oh, the drama. You couldn't pay me to do it again... | |
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BinaryJustin said: damnedifido05 said: lol. aww well what can I say.. have u learnt ur lesson?
Yes. I learned that Neil Garrity is a self-absorbed cunt!  Pardon me for living', but this is my world too! | |
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Case said: Yeah, I dated a coworker when I was a teen. I worked at Taco Bell and everyone was dating--and shagging--everyone else. Oh, the drama. You couldn't pay me to do it again...
I bet it was like some low-rent Dawson's Creek scenario. | |
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Never date a coworker
Anyway, I guess I posted this thread prematurely because my boyfriend and I haven't broken up. We have decided to work things out, but things are still shaky.....Keep your fingers crossed Smooches;) | |
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MsMisha319 said: Never date a coworker
Anyway, I guess I posted this thread prematurely because my boyfriend and I haven't broken up. We have decided to work things out, but things are still shaky.....Keep your fingers crossed Smooches;) ha ha ha....well my love to u both.... Pardon me for living', but this is my world too! | |
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MsMisha319 said: Never date a coworker
Anyway, I guess I posted this thread prematurely because my boyfriend and I haven't broken up. We have decided to work things out, but things are still shaky.....Keep your fingers crossed Smooches;) You are so silly! You said your heart wasn't in it! Good luck Lady! ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: MsMisha319 said: Never date a coworker
Anyway, I guess I posted this thread prematurely because my boyfriend and I haven't broken up. We have decided to work things out, but things are still shaky.....Keep your fingers crossed Smooches;) You are so silly! You said your heart wasn't in it! Good luck Lady! Oh, Sag.....I was hoping no one would bring that part up
My heart is very confused, to say the least. I love two people, I guess that's the best way to explain it. I hoping in a year from now I can sit back and laugh at this Smooches;) | |
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Smooches;)  | |
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MsMisha319 said: sag10 said: You are so silly! You said your heart wasn't in it! Good luck Lady! Oh, Sag.....I was hoping no one would bring that part up
My heart is very confused, to say the least. I love two people, I guess that's the best way to explain it. I hoping in a year from now I can sit back and laugh at this Smooches;) I understand loving 2 people! It will all work out, just the way it is suppose to... Love ya, baby girl! ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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Get his number off your cell phone ASAP ! This will avoid drunken "What am I going to do with out you" calls. You might also want to put some distance between you and "the ex", like 2 or 3 thousand miles. Go to Jamica, find a guy named St.Jock and kick it. | |
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amplified0907 said: Get his number off your cell phone ASAP ! This will avoid drunken "What am I going to do with out you" calls. You might also want to put some distance between you and "the ex", like 2 or 3 thousand miles. Go to Jamica, find a guy named St.Jock and kick it.
LMAO! | |
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amplified0907 said: Get his number off your cell phone ASAP ! This will avoid drunken "What am I going to do with out you" calls. You might also want to put some distance between you and "the ex", like 2 or 3 thousand miles. Go to Jamica, find a guy named St.Jock and kick it.
Well, getting his number off my phone wouldn't mean much since we live together But I totally get your advice. Now, my "Ex"....meaning the other guy I love....I did take his number off my phone, but he still calls. We have a child together, so it's hard to move on because I have to be civil with him for our son. I put distance between us for most of last year, but now we seem to be coming back to each other 
Still unsure of what I should do Smooches;) | |
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MsMisha319 said: amplified0907 said: Get his number off your cell phone ASAP ! This will avoid drunken "What am I going to do with out you" calls. You might also want to put some distance between you and "the ex", like 2 or 3 thousand miles. Go to Jamica, find a guy named St.Jock and kick it.
Well, getting his number off my phone wouldn't mean much since we live together But I totally get your advice. Now, my "Ex"....meaning the other guy I love....I did take his number off my phone, but he still calls. We have a child together, so it's hard to move on because I have to be civil with him for our son. I put distance between us for most of last year, but now we seem to be coming back to each other
Still unsure of what I should do Smooches;) I can understand. I have a child with an ex. We went through a "Hate" period and it caused alot of problems. We never argued in front or any where near of the kid though. After about two years, we realized that we are going to have to deal with each other (i.e. graduations, first car, sports games, plays etc.), so what is the point of all the hate. We are now pretty cool with each other. I look forward to the kid getting her first car, so I don't have to drive out to her mothers house and run into her. I also count down the days until the kid is 18, and I don't have to see that "woman" anymore. | |
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amplified0907 said: MsMisha319 said: Well, getting his number off my phone wouldn't mean much since we live together But I totally get your advice. Now, my "Ex"....meaning the other guy I love....I did take his number off my phone, but he still calls. We have a child together, so it's hard to move on because I have to be civil with him for our son. I put distance between us for most of last year, but now we seem to be coming back to each other
Still unsure of what I should do Smooches;) I can understand. I have a child with an ex. We went through a "Hate" period and it caused alot of problems. We never argued in front or any where near of the kid though. After about two years, we realized that we are going to have to deal with each other (i.e. graduations, first car, sports games, plays etc.), so what is the point of all the hate. We are now pretty cool with each other. I look forward to the kid getting her first car, so I don't have to drive out to her mothers house and run into her. I also count down the days until the kid is 18, and I don't have to see that "woman" anymore. Sounds like a whole different situation Though my ex and I did go through a phase of not liking each other, we have now come to the conclusion that we still love each and we made mistakes, but we'd like to work them out. The only problem is, I still have a boyfriend who is really great to me and my son and I'd hate to hurt him.
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MsMisha319 said: amplified0907 said: I can understand. I have a child with an ex. We went through a "Hate" period and it caused alot of problems. We never argued in front or any where near of the kid though. After about two years, we realized that we are going to have to deal with each other (i.e. graduations, first car, sports games, plays etc.), so what is the point of all the hate. We are now pretty cool with each other. I look forward to the kid getting her first car, so I don't have to drive out to her mothers house and run into her. I also count down the days until the kid is 18, and I don't have to see that "woman" anymore. Sounds like a whole different situation Though my ex and I did go through a phase of not liking each other, we have now come to the conclusion that we still love each and we made mistakes, but we'd like to work them out. The only problem is, I still have a boyfriend who is really great to me and my son and I'd hate to hurt him.
Smooches;) Oh man thats a nasty situation, I thought I was still into my ex, then I tried to get back with him, and very very soon realised that we were making a mistake, it was all that family talk that confused me, thought I wanted to have that with him and realized that it wasnt possible. BE VERY CAREFUL! its not only your life, its your kids life too, if you guys do get back together I hope it works out, but the moment it doesnt feel right end it, dont drag it on thats the worst thing you can do Good Luck | |
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ella731 said: MsMisha319 said: Sounds like a whole different situation Though my ex and I did go through a phase of not liking each other, we have now come to the conclusion that we still love each and we made mistakes, but we'd like to work them out. The only problem is, I still have a boyfriend who is really great to me and my son and I'd hate to hurt him.
Smooches;) Oh man thats a nasty situation, I thought I was still into my ex, then I tried to get back with him, and very very soon realised that we were making a mistake, it was all that family talk that confused me, thought I wanted to have that with him and realized that it wasnt possible. BE VERY CAREFUL! its not only your life, its your kids life too, if you guys do get back together I hope it works out, but the moment it doesnt feel right end it, dont drag it on thats the worst thing you can do Good Luck Thanks Ella
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