... .are gay men offended when a woman takes notice of them if they are cute? this man i saw on the "L" gave me a nasty look rolled his eyes at me when i was staring at him too long. i knew he was gay 'cause he goes to the same school i go to. i didn't try to flirt with him or anything, i thought his face was really striking it didn't bother me i just though it was funny

heybaby said:

some gay men give that nasty look to EVERYone, don't feel singled out because you're a girl.

myself, i'm flattered when ANYone thinks i'm attractive. just because i may not want to follow up on it doesn't mean i don't appreciate when someone likes how i look.

bkw wanted me to post this -

Anxiety said:

ok, 'cause i was thinkin' wow he must really think we're icky!

OH, it doesn't bother me at all. In fact, i have lesbians tell me that they'll have my baby for me. But no. They'll look at me and say "YOU'RE REALLY PRETTY!" which, i don't mind because i am a pretty boi but it never goes beyond that because i'm pretty sure they get the idea that i don't play for the home team, so it doesn't go beyond that. But sometimes, girls will say i'm "hot" and i'll be like "So what??" But i don't get bothered at all. So tell me more about my eyes

glamslamkid said:

i think u sound like such a cool person...omg, i think i luv u. can i have ur baby?

darlinkia said:

omg..are you a lesbian?? HIIIII!!!!

heybaby said:

No way! It makes me feel good!
Women always tell me how handsome I am... Then I tell them "Yes, I know, thank you...but don't ever think about that"!
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Lodger said:

heybaby said:

Then I usually ask them "Do you have a brother??? "

I used to joke with straight male friends of mine that I thought were cute, about converting them. I stopped doing that because several times I've been on the recieving end of that, with women who were getting on my nerves.

A simple complement from someone is always welcome, don't matter if its male or female. But getting stalked by a woman SUCKS! lol

not at all, i love it!

the only time i do get offended is when they find out i am gay and say something like ""oh, what a waste"... that kinda bothers me.

cborgman said:

That's SO queer!





Hehehe.

HamsterHuey said:

bastid...

cborgman said:

It comes naturally!

Hehehe. I flirted just three times today. Twice with customers and once with my 19 year old, Bel Ami-lookalike colleague. But I am flirting by ignoring him. He is trying to figure me out now. He is confused and will be weak very soon. Then I will ask him for a beer.

cborgman said:

i think its wrong that they put it that way i don't think they mean that personally towards you. it's more about women hearing all their lives that there's a shortage of good available men. I've heard a lot of women say "all the good men are either gay,dead or too young..blah blah blah." i don't agree with that. i feel that women just need to stop picking losers that's all. you get what you expect.

heybaby said:

Some gay guys like to girl bash. Or call women "fish" or something stupid like that.

HamsterHuey said:

straight guys need to watch it around you...You prey on their cluelessness,

superspaceboy said:

oh, how i hate that...

cborgman said:

I haven't heard the phrase in a while...But I don't hang out with people that would say that anymore. I have told people that "fish" is NOT cool to say.

what about saying "camp" i think that's been around forever but i'm just hearing it and seeing it.

Lodger said:

Even Hungarian-American women?

superspaceboy said:

It's a curse. Straight men flock to me. What can I do about it?

HamsterHuey said:

Do what you're doing I suppose.

cborgman said:

CO-SIGN on the "what a waste" comment. Not very cool.
I also CO-SIGN on the "fish" comment.

Heybaby, I don't get get offended when women stare at me. For some reason I attract straight women. Which is unfortunate because I'm in the Penis business. Contrary to popular belief not all gay men hate women. None of my friends do. Trust me they would not be my friends anymore. I think there are probably as many straight men as gay men, that hate women.

I think the guy that you were looking at on the L was just a plain asshole, gay or straight. He could've smiled instead.

Miguel

superspaceboy said:

He's a preying Man-tis. (tits?)

Miguel

applekisses said:

Hi! Hi! Hi!

Well, I dunno...never met any of them!

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

glamslamkid said:

only on the weekends