Does anybody remember the post about my neighbor who had a problem with me playing music? Well, a new neighbor moved in a few months ago and has sunk to a low

This woman above me has sex in the middle of the night, like around 3:00am when I'm trying to sleep and then expects me to be quiet during the day to cater to her schedule because she works at night. I'm following the house rules and it's like I have to bend over backwards to please her

So, I get a bang on my door tonight saying there were 7 complaints about me from 6 different people what? That has never happened. There aren't even six different apartments around me. Then the patrol or police (not sure) said there was a complaint about me last night when I wasn't even here. What? He said he knocked on my door, it was quiet and he left. That's low. I am going to complain to the manager about it and I'm about to write a nasty letter to my neighbor and put it on her door. I am pissed!

UPDATE: I went to the manager's office bright and early at 8:30am and talked to her. She said she will look into it and a few hours later, the manager called me and said left a message saying my neighbor wants to talk to me about the noise. I don't want to talk to that bitch because I'll go off. Should I talk to her?




UPDATE #2: I called the manager to see what she meant by the message she left and she said the neighbor wants to talk to me about a compromise. I told her I would not meet with her unless is was in the office with the manager there. The manager said that it was fine and I told when I was available. She said the community patrol guy misunderstood the dispatcher. The dispatcher said "You better get down there before this person calls 6 times" not that there were 6 calls. I asked the manager what the neighbor told her and she said the neighbor said I was lying about her noise upstairs and that she walks normally and she isn't home at 3 in the morning because she's working. WTF No she didn't! So, I guess I am imagining the moans and creeking bed that wakes me out of my sleep. The manager said she can't take sides and the property management co told her it's not her job to handle it. The manager should take sides if I'm following the house rules of the complex, no? She will get back to me when the other neighbor is avaiable for a meeting. I'm so stressed and disgusted about this that I had a bad day today.


UPDATE #3: I called the manager Monday morning to see if she had contacted the neighbor about a meeting. She said she had been busy and had not had a chance to. I told her that I was about to play my music and suggested she go to the neighbor's apartment and hear it for herself. She called the neighbor to see if she was home. She was. I played my music and the manager went into the neighbor's apartment to listen. The manager came down to my apartment to say that she couldn't hear any music, but she could feel it vibrating the floor. She said my previous neighbor probably didn't care. I asked her if the vibration was disturbing. She said that if it was her, she would not have a problem, but some people want peace and quiet. I told my manager I still wanted to meet with the neigbor in her office because the neighbor makes noise in the early morning hours and there has to be some type of compromise. I don't think I should have to move the location of my music while she continues to have sex in the middle of the night. I also got the number to the corporate office of the management company just incase I need it.

UPDATE #4: We had a meeting the the Wednesday before Christmas. She, the neighbor, was trying to be diplomatic about it. She said that it wasn't that big of an issue. She said the reason why she called the community patrol was because the manager told her to not knock on my door, but to call the office or community patrol and she wouldn't normally call about things like that. She said she tried to knock on my door to introduce herself and invite me to her apartment. For what??? I told her I do not answer my door for security reason and won't be answering it in the future. She then started talking shit about being friends and gave me her number to call whenever she was making too much noise. She said she wasn't crazy because she was a deputy sherriff. Sorry, but I'm not going into anyone's apartment. It really seemed too sweet and fluffy and fake to me. I told them that the stereo I have doesn't have an equalizer, but a subwoofer button I can either turn on or off. If I turn it off, there is no bass at all. If I turn down the volume, I can't hear it. The manager told me I had to work on my noise and the neighbor will work on hers. I felt like it was all about me and my music and not her noise. I was not happy to say the least. Then, when we were walking back to our apartments, she told me if I wanted my hair braided, that her daughter does braids. Stay the fuck away from me. I don't want to be your friend. Anyway, I lowered my stereo to the lower part of my armoire and lowered the woofer to level 2. I still don't play it at the level I want because I don't any shit or anymore knocks on my door. I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
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I remember that thread.



But that's bogus as hell. Get that letter out right away!!

Janfriend said:

booty calls at 3am...i bet she had a snickers bar to keep her going.

One of my friends says I shouldn't leave a nasty letter yet because sh might play dumb and say I'm crazy and harassing her. I'm going to the manager's office first thing in the morning

Christopher said:

That or fries-there's magic in them fries, Chris.

Janfriend said:

she sounds like the crazy one.

subhuman09 said:

in that chicks case it might have been potato wedges.

Christopher said:

Mmmm...potato wedges...



(Where do you put them though?)

Christopher said:

She is. This isn't burger king, bitch. You can't have it your way.

Janfriend said:

You should post your avatar on her front door and say:

"Kiss this."

Janfriend said:

i used to have neighbors upstairs that had a entertainment center with subwoofers and all. and they watched whole movies like that with the sound turned up all the way and their window open.

drove me crazy when i was trying to sleep.


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Christopher said:

Sorry about that.

subhuman09 said:

/

the worst bit was when he found a scene he liked...he played it over and over...this was usually the scene with the car chase,guns,and yelling.

Christopher said:

Then you duct tape your speakers to the ceiling-find the loudest, most horribly mixed horror movie or random explosion sounds you can find...and when you know he's sleeping-you crank it up!

subhuman09 said:

omg that is almost like breakin 2! omg

Christopher said:

That-or you wait for him to sleep and set off firecrackers outside his bedroom.

subhuman09 said:

now its turning into graffiti bridge!

Christopher said:

That or you wear bell bottoms and dance outside in an alley way in assless chaps a la MJ.

Then you battle it out in the streets with eclairs and hot chocolate.

subhuman09 said:

when did mj and latoya show up?


she had on some assless jeans and mj an oscar gown with red pumps.

Christopher said:

Does Tony know about this?

subhuman09 said:

who do you think dressed them?


tony had on a tuxedo shirt,suspenders,and hammer pants.

Christopher said:

More than he had on when I saw him the other day at Wal-Mart.



(He really shouldn't use the Hammer pants as a tent.)

subhuman09 said:

he keeps food in there. the hammer trousers hold alot of chicken nuggets he says.

Christopher said:

Oh, I've seen his nuggets-it's like he keeps a family of squirrels in there.



(Chik Fil A nuggets and waffles fries? Me thinks there be a connection.)

subhuman09 said:

he needs a day bag.

Christopher said:

That or sew some Wal-Mart bags together.

subhuman09 said:

and no painting prada or gucci symbols on them tony!

Christopher said:

As long as he puts imitation brand names on there.

They give me warm and fuzzy feelings.

Goochay and Prayday

subhuman09 said:

i do see him using those and the nike swoosh on the back on the bags.

Christopher said:

Is he still drawing those on with eyeliner?