Mach said: HamsterHuey said: Maybe that is the key, Teach. i was thinking something close to the same Huey lightheartedness is Key to a happy marriage ( for some ) Like Martina said; not taking yourself too seriously always helped in my case. When emotions are involved that is sometimes hard though. | |
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HamsterHuey said: Mach said: i was thinking something close to the same Huey lightheartedness is Key to a happy marriage ( for some ) Like Martina said; not taking yourself too seriously always helped in my case. When emotions are involved that is sometimes hard though. Yes it is ... TR and i agree not to work on a problem in the heat of the moment .. we allow time for the emotions to come up ... we wade through them .. ( alone or together ) then when we are feeling centered ... we talk took a few years to develope that skill .. we did have a few powerplay type tiffs in our 1st couple years ... that kinda bullsh*t i am glad to have left behind | |
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Mach said: HamsterHuey said: Like Martina said; not taking yourself too seriously always helped in my case. When emotions are involved that is sometimes hard though. Yes it is ... TR and i agree not to work on a problem in the heat of the moment .. we allow time for the emotions to come up ... we wade through them .. ( alone or together ) then when we are feeling centered ... we talk took a few years to develope that skill .. we did have a few powerplay type tiffs in our 1st couple years ... that kinda bullsh*t i am glad to have left behind very cool. | |
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Great thread! Thanks for sharing. | |
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i'm not married but i might a well be. i've been with my man for 9 years. we have 3 boys together. in the beginning of our relationship things were rocky 'cause we were just knowing eachother(both of us like to take control so it can get hectic). its hard and you have to compromise and know when to just shut up and let things go you also have to accept a person for who they are-flaws and all. i love him. The best thing is that i know he loves me back. he wasn't my first but he's my first love and my best friend. i look forward to growing old with him and being surrounded by our grandkids and family. | |
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I mean lightly as in "don't appreciate what they have enough" or "don't know how good they have it". I still think so. | |
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In May, my wife and I will be celebrating our tenth wedding anniversary. Honestly, the time has flown by. I still remember going out on our first date. My life changed when I met her. I knew within a few months that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
Ten years later we have two kids - a seven year old boy and a four year old girl. Life is good. | |
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jbchavez said: In May, my wife and I will be celebrating our tenth wedding anniversary. Honestly, the time has flown by. I still remember going out on our first date. My life changed when I met her. I knew within a few months that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
Ten years later we have two kids - a seven year old boy and a four year old girl. Life is good. That's excellent. And hi, long time no see. I am happy for you | |
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