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Do u ever completely get over ur first love? Yeah, yeah, iam pathetic. Iam only 19 and yet I just had a dream last night and my first true girlfriend was in it.....I was only about 10 years old but it took ages to get her and when I was 12, after 2 years I left USA for England and never saw her again. We briefly kept in touch through letters but both decided it was too hard on us so we called it quits.
I have a girl at the mo', but thinking about ur first true love does get u thinking doesn't it? Am I the only 1 not to have not of completely gotten over a girl I havn't even seen in over 7 years? I wonder where she is now? The past really does suck sometimes.....I knkow I'll never even see her again. It would be nice too..... | |
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I think our first loves will always be in the back of our minds... But sometimes you really can't go back, and the grass is not always greener on the other side..blah blah blah...But enough with the old sayings  I think it's normal to think about your first love, now acting on those feelings is another story. If you really care about this girl you are with now,keep the thoughts in check.  But who the fuck am I to say anything [Edited 1/18/05 12:03pm] | |
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When I was 17 I met my first love. We had a relationship of 10 months.
Now I'm 39 and when I think about him I stil get sad.. I still love him! He's now married with 3 children. But hey..he's happy! I'm still looking for Mister Right! (the second one )The Borg... Partypoopers of the galaxy.. ( Medical Hologram )
------------------------------------------------- ..Where is my lovelife.. where can it be?? There must be something wrong with the machinery.. | |
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my 1st love went through 6th grade all the way to the end of High school..she's disappeared, as im sure she thinks the same of me  | |
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Shit...I think you're lucky if you survive it. | |
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HowComeYouDontCallme said: When I was 17 I met my first love. We had a relationship of 10 months.
Now I'm 39 and when I think about him I stil get sad.. I still love him! He's now married with 3 children. But hey..he's happy! I'm still looking for Mister Right! (the second one )Really sorry to hear that (same with u TheRealFiness  )
Who knew as i was so young when i knew mine. We never made love, yet I get nervous just thinking about her.....u know goosebumps. I admit it is not often I think about her, but I still do all the same. U know I even do that "american tail" cartoon thing and look at the sky and wonder where she is occasionally? That stupid song "somewhere, out there" gets to me too. it is mad that I do not know where she is, if she still thinks about me etc..... | |
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NO NO NO NO!!!
Miguel  MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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never | |
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who was that again...  Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Nope. She's over in Sweden and I haven't seen her in 11 years, but I think of her at least once per week.
I dedicated the Moody Blues "In Your Wildest Dreams" to her on a radio station a few years ago... | |
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thesexofit said: Yeah, yeah, iam pathetic. Iam only 19 and yet I just had a dream last night and my first true girlfriend was in it.....I was only about 10 years old but it took ages to get her and when I was 12, after 2 years I left USA for England and never saw her again. We briefly kept in touch through letters but both decided it was too hard on us so we called it quits.
I have a girl at the mo', but thinking about ur first true love does get u thinking doesn't it? Am I the only 1 not to have not of completely gotten over a girl I havn't even seen in over 7 years? I wonder where she is now? The past really does suck sometimes.....I knkow I'll never even see her again. It would be nice too..... I think you are probably more curious as to what's happened to her and presently that thought is prevailing. I think if you actually saw each other again that spark would probably be gone and replaced by apprehension of seeing her and vice versa. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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I don't think you ever get over your first love....I know I haven't.....but then again, we have baby together, so that makes it even harder
Smooches;) | |
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superspaceboy said: thesexofit said: Yeah, yeah, iam pathetic. Iam only 19 and yet I just had a dream last night and my first true girlfriend was in it.....I was only about 10 years old but it took ages to get her and when I was 12, after 2 years I left USA for England and never saw her again. We briefly kept in touch through letters but both decided it was too hard on us so we called it quits.
I have a girl at the mo', but thinking about ur first true love does get u thinking doesn't it? Am I the only 1 not to have not of completely gotten over a girl I havn't even seen in over 7 years? I wonder where she is now? The past really does suck sometimes.....I knkow I'll never even see her again. It would be nice too..... I think you are probably more curious as to what's happened to her and presently that thought is prevailing. I think if you actually saw each other again that spark would probably be gone and replaced by apprehension of seeing her and vice versa. Maybe? I was very young. Too young my parents said. Maybe I relate this girl (faye) as to a period of time that was so great 4 me? Yet who knows? "Love cuts just like a knife"- (Jane child "I don't wanna fall in love") | |
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Man.....I was hoping the answer was yes. | |
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thesexofit said: Maybe? I was very young. Too young my parents said. Maybe I relate this girl (faye) as to a period of time that was so great 4 me? Yet who knows? "Love cuts just like a knife"- (Jane child "I don't wanna fall in love") It was probably less of a lover-love and more of a friend-who's-not-a-boy-love. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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speaking for myself, no...you move on but you never get over them | |
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I still think abt my first love every now and then but i moved on  | |
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Yes, but there is nothing like the FIRST! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
BOB JOHNSON IS PART OF THE PROBLEM!! | |
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um, just to clarify...we ARE talking about love not sex aren't we? coz I'm actually a virgin still - I was talking about the first and only guy I ever loved | |
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Every love you will experience in your life will be a part of your future.
It is not bad to remember, but sad to linger. |
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thesexofit said: Really sorry to hear that (same with u TheRealFiness )
Who knew as i was so young when i knew mine. We never made love, yet I get nervous just thinking about her.....u know goosebumps. I admit it is not often I think about her, but I still do all the same. U know I even do that "american tail" cartoon thing and look at the sky and wonder where she is occasionally? That stupid song "somewhere, out there" gets to me too. it is mad that I do not know where she is, if she still thinks about me etc..... oh no no no.. no need to be sorry.it was at that moment and that point in my life where she was. you know?.. and then fade away. im sure i pop in her mind sometimes, but we all move forward. the past is what it is... the past. whether good or bad we live and learn by it.the important thing in that is that its all Life lessons. [Edited 1/18/05 13:53pm] | |
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It's possible. But for me, no. It has been terribly difficult. Good night, sweet Prince | 7 June 1958 - 21 April 2016
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she's probably fat and ugly now,get over it. | |
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namepeace said: It's possible. But for me, no. It has been terribly difficult.
Ditto Smooches;) | |
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i think the answer is perhaps ... but ... mostly NO ...
its mostly NO because usually your "first love" is someone who u really felt strongly about ... but cannot have .... NOW ... so u remember the good times ... and u ... maybe ... never had BAD TIMES .... at least that is the case with me .... i recently ... was surprised to find out my "first love" moved back into the area ... i thought she was in NC ... thousands of miles away .... and she moved back here about 2 yrs ago !!! ... i was floored (her pic was in the local paper ... and then i found it on the net ... ) i must say ... its kinda neat to see that she did well ... with her life ... etc ...  | |
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Never , still dream about her often | |
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I don't think so. | |
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Seems kinda sad all this. I thought I would never bother thinking of my first love again. It ain't serious depression or anything, but u know u get thinking sometimes etc..... | |
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HamsterHuey said: Every love you will experience in your life will be a part of your future.
It is not bad to remember, but sad to linger.    | |
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Yes, you do. Either way, you have a lot of respect for them. | |
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